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fuck my ass [210 tokens remaining]
Date: December 24, 2022
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fuck my ass [210 tokens remaining]
You use your what-ifs in the conversation with husband. His instinct was to immediately dismiss and find a lame excuse. I have been blackout drunk way too many times in younger days but I NEVER pulled some bullshit like that. It's an excuse and was NOT ok. He touched you inappropriately, crossed lines, cheated in a way and I'm sure was not as drunk as they claim.
As for the hugs, if it happens again after you and hubs talk, simply put your arm/hand up to maintain distance if he's coming towards you and flat out say “I am not comfortable with hugging you” and that needs to be respected. If he's coming from another angle just side step instead.
Quite frankly, hubs should be going low or no contact with Travis but I'm going to guess that won't happen. Shoot I had a boyfriend years ago who remained best friends with and continued to invite over the guy that pinned me on the ground and punched the crap out of my face. Never even got an apology(not that it would have fixed things). They're still friends doing the same lower stuff but I'm out here kicking life's butt!
He is clearly still processing his feelings for her, if not still in love with her.
A normal human being would go no contact after such behavior by an ex during a breakup.
Okay so I've gathered there's not a lot of nonsexual touches, you 6 months of the year are generally unavailable to mentally help and then the other half are able to help take the load off.
Try marriage counseling and have both of you explain your side with one not interrupting the other and maybe you guys will get to the root because it doesn't sound like you guys have connection inside or outside of the bedroom and you need that connection outside of the room for inside the bedroom.
Why even try to fix it anymore? Even if she showed improvement the relationship between you two is dead. Once resentment takes over(which I can literally feel in your words), it’s over. If she’s been a SAHM for 14 years surely your kids are almost 18 and they’d understand a divorce?
Well he withheld that part for a reason. He knows how it makes him look… because he’s not sure he would never do it again. If he had admit how he was and further had already shown the steps he’s made to never do it again… that would be one thing but he hid it from you for a reason. What that reason is, none of us will know.
Wow. Not taken your meds?
It’s not normal. The sleep stuff is the least of it.
What do I do?
Either find some self respect or continue to enjoy being his meat flashlight on a call.
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I dunno, he showed you that he doesn’t like to make an effort, and that he also makes excuses to justify his behavior. Two strikes already.
But you’re both young and he did say he would try harder. No shame in seeing where it goes if you want to.
You are the “back-up friend” when all the others are too busy. Basically a 2nd choice friend. I don't think she would miss you.
It's time to make new friends. It's obvious your friendship with her means more, than her friendship with you.
Go enjoy yourself alone. I wouldn't waste anymore time on that fake friendship.