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The sponge is silly, but that's unimportant. What is important is this part:
I told him he could stop making me feel bad and then he yelled “can you just shut the fuck up already and stop feeling sorry for yourself”. I ate in silence and cried a bit. I was in a very abusive relationship not too long ago and I don’t do well with being yelled at.
In no world is that behavior from him acceptable. He needs to be gone asap.
I didn't suggest talking to her about her hair. I just made that comparison to OP, so that he could better understand that he's not going to be able to simply change her preference overnight.
So I guess answers will really depend on how much and what kind of a relationship you want to have with your mother long term. If you’re fine with her being more distant then throwing up a hot boundary is honestly on you, because imo the struggle with a hot boundary usually comes from the person establishing the boundary. As in, they tend to feel guilty about it, or they’re very worried about the other person’s feelings. And in general I do think it’s wonderful to be considerate of other oriole’s feelings, but when it becomes guilt and anxiety that stops you from protecting your own feelings, then it’s become a problem. So if you are fine with a distant relationship then imo you just have to commit to “Mom right now is a really bad time for anyone to bye visiting, I have a lot on my plate and what would make me feel supported the most is if you can wait until a time that’s better for me. I’ll let you know when that is but it won’t be for a while.” And then you let her manage her feelings about it instead of doing the emotional labor to reassure her or whatever. Put her on mute temporarily if you have to. Be calm but firm. “This is what I need from you. I hear that you’re upset. I’m going to take a break from communication for (time amount).”
Okay but I’ve noticed this in myself in the past. And for me it was being embarrassed about not being able to explain my big jumps, in thought. Mixed with hit to ego because “I’m smart I just can’t say my thoughts… please don’t think I’m a idiot!!” I think this is connected to my mental illness but I have no professional opinion to add.
This is rape? Hahah I’m gonna resign from this conversation as I can see we’re on different planets regarding the reality of this situation. Have a good night.
Average penis guy here. The fact he had the biggest dong and the fact he made her cum the most are not necessarily related my dude.
You can be an absolute orgasm vending machine without having a big schlong. Sex is so much more than big penis penetrating vagina. Rhythm, oral, touch, voice, toys – there is so much more at your disposal than just your dick.
I get insecurity. I used to be fat and thought I had a small dick so I was giga insecure about my body forever. Turns out my dick is just fine and most girls prefer it over a 20cm dong. I had a girl once that told me straight up tho that it won't work for her and that is fine as well. There is a lid to every pot out there.
YOU need to like your body first. If you don't, then you will always struggle with shit like this.
The sponge is silly, but that's unimportant. What is important is this part:
I told him he could stop making me feel bad and then he yelled “can you just shut the fuck up already and stop feeling sorry for yourself”. I ate in silence and cried a bit. I was in a very abusive relationship not too long ago and I don’t do well with being yelled at.
In no world is that behavior from him acceptable. He needs to be gone asap.
I didn't suggest talking to her about her hair. I just made that comparison to OP, so that he could better understand that he's not going to be able to simply change her preference overnight.
Would it be wise to make them realize about it?
Wot is a bj sandwich? ?
So I guess answers will really depend on how much and what kind of a relationship you want to have with your mother long term. If you’re fine with her being more distant then throwing up a hot boundary is honestly on you, because imo the struggle with a hot boundary usually comes from the person establishing the boundary. As in, they tend to feel guilty about it, or they’re very worried about the other person’s feelings. And in general I do think it’s wonderful to be considerate of other oriole’s feelings, but when it becomes guilt and anxiety that stops you from protecting your own feelings, then it’s become a problem. So if you are fine with a distant relationship then imo you just have to commit to “Mom right now is a really bad time for anyone to bye visiting, I have a lot on my plate and what would make me feel supported the most is if you can wait until a time that’s better for me. I’ll let you know when that is but it won’t be for a while.” And then you let her manage her feelings about it instead of doing the emotional labor to reassure her or whatever. Put her on mute temporarily if you have to. Be calm but firm. “This is what I need from you. I hear that you’re upset. I’m going to take a break from communication for (time amount).”
Okay but I’ve noticed this in myself in the past. And for me it was being embarrassed about not being able to explain my big jumps, in thought. Mixed with hit to ego because “I’m smart I just can’t say my thoughts… please don’t think I’m a idiot!!” I think this is connected to my mental illness but I have no professional opinion to add.
The matrix is real. I totes empathize with you
This is rape? Hahah I’m gonna resign from this conversation as I can see we’re on different planets regarding the reality of this situation. Have a good night.
Average penis guy here. The fact he had the biggest dong and the fact he made her cum the most are not necessarily related my dude.
You can be an absolute orgasm vending machine without having a big schlong. Sex is so much more than big penis penetrating vagina. Rhythm, oral, touch, voice, toys – there is so much more at your disposal than just your dick.
I get insecurity. I used to be fat and thought I had a small dick so I was giga insecure about my body forever. Turns out my dick is just fine and most girls prefer it over a 20cm dong. I had a girl once that told me straight up tho that it won't work for her and that is fine as well. There is a lid to every pot out there.
YOU need to like your body first. If you don't, then you will always struggle with shit like this.
Fraud. Waste and abuse. That’s what lying about your health falls under. It’s a moot point though