You don't have sex with someone who isn't loving you and you ask to go to counseling so there is an uninvolved 3rd party who can keep things civil and moving along.
I would definitely have your feelers out for cheating, because I come from a family of fire fighters and it's pretty common place.
Because you have a tracking app and he's still confident enough to be this suspicious lmao.
“Tracking devices for a few issues” the fact that you left parts out tells me you know it's really bad and want validation that you should stay. If you were confident it was nothing you wouldn't even be posting here. If you can't be honest with yourself you won't be honest with Reddit either.
You did exactly the right thing, with bonus points for being open to therapy. She rejected therapy, refused to compromise or take responsibility, and became angry at you when you tried to communicate with her. That’s the opposite of what a guy like you deserves.
You sound wonderful and worthy. I bet if you stay in individual therapy as you date in the future, it will help steer you toward the woman who is worthy of you and will bring you the happiness you deserve.
Don’t look back. Don’t read her emails or messages. Block her. And keep looking ahead.
I'm sorry you gotta go through that. But let me tell you, you got a solid plan already. Just stay focused, don't let her guilt-trip you, and stick to your guns about what you want. You got evidence and a lawyer, so you're already ahead of the game. Make sure to take care of yourself and your kids, and don't give her any room to manipulate you. Stay strong, bro, you got this.
I feel for you, OP. I'm also not a fan of my boobs and made the mistake of asking my ex his opinion. He was really nice about it, but they aren't big enough for him. I don't really have any advice for you considering he's now my ex and I don't believe we were ever sexually compatible, but there is definitely someone out there who will love your body just the way it is. My previous exes could not get enough of my boobs despite the size, so I'm just gonna make sure my next partner is like that.
You don't have sex with someone who isn't loving you and you ask to go to counseling so there is an uninvolved 3rd party who can keep things civil and moving along.
I would definitely have your feelers out for cheating, because I come from a family of fire fighters and it's pretty common place.
Best of luck, and congrats on your freedom!
Because you have a tracking app and he's still confident enough to be this suspicious lmao.
“Tracking devices for a few issues” the fact that you left parts out tells me you know it's really bad and want validation that you should stay. If you were confident it was nothing you wouldn't even be posting here. If you can't be honest with yourself you won't be honest with Reddit either.
The friend zone is a place you put yourself when you can't grow the fuck up and move on.
You did exactly the right thing, with bonus points for being open to therapy. She rejected therapy, refused to compromise or take responsibility, and became angry at you when you tried to communicate with her. That’s the opposite of what a guy like you deserves.
You sound wonderful and worthy. I bet if you stay in individual therapy as you date in the future, it will help steer you toward the woman who is worthy of you and will bring you the happiness you deserve.
Don’t look back. Don’t read her emails or messages. Block her. And keep looking ahead.
I'm sorry you gotta go through that. But let me tell you, you got a solid plan already. Just stay focused, don't let her guilt-trip you, and stick to your guns about what you want. You got evidence and a lawyer, so you're already ahead of the game. Make sure to take care of yourself and your kids, and don't give her any room to manipulate you. Stay strong, bro, you got this.
OP has the emotional capability of a rock, so his gf is better off not being closer honestly.
Talk about sex openly and often with him.
I feel for you, OP. I'm also not a fan of my boobs and made the mistake of asking my ex his opinion. He was really nice about it, but they aren't big enough for him. I don't really have any advice for you considering he's now my ex and I don't believe we were ever sexually compatible, but there is definitely someone out there who will love your body just the way it is. My previous exes could not get enough of my boobs despite the size, so I'm just gonna make sure my next partner is like that.