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Date: February 18, 2023
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I'm glad this is being said because It is a massive red flag for me.
with alarming frequency I have noticed women using social media as a way to stalk pepple and find out everything about them even before we have our first date!
one time I messaged this woman on tinder and unbeknownst to me she was an HR person at the same company I worked which is not really that unlikely considering I work for a fortune 5 company which employs like a million+ people.
and within ~20 minutes she was showing me pictures of my internal company profile that only HR is allowed to see and my instagram and facebook asking me targeted questions about my life.
I instantly felt violated. I thought her actions were extremely unprofessional, and void of any human decency or optimism.
luckily there was not anything bad on my profiles so I wasn't in any trouble but DAMN. do I want to date this person? fuck no. get me away from her.
we met on tinder. I had only known her for like 2 hours and that was how she was conducting herself unapologetically
Two times a week is still not super-much, especially for the beginning. Honestly, you might just have a lower-libido partner there.
If her weight is an issue, then it matters zero percent how much you tell her how sexy she is – if she doesn't feel happy with her own body, she might not like showing it.
It's definitely the case that trauma and bad experiences can affect how someone acts in future relationships, but it doesn't suddenly change someone's libido unless she is taking medication against depression or something similiar or something happened/triggered her and brought trauma back up.
If your protection is almost anything else but a condom (so the pill, IUD, whatever), it might affect her libido as well.
However, I urge you to seriously think about the fact that this might just be her. It's normal to have a bit more sex in the beginning of the relationship because of hormones which normally settle after 1-2 years. So honestly, it is quite likely that there is nothing “wrong” with her. No family trauma, no medication, no issue from protection – just her normal libido.
And yes, that can be rough to accept because it might quite frankly mean that you two love each other, but are simply incompatible in something that needs to match to have a lasting relationship. Please note that you can't magically make someone have a higher libido if that's just their “normal”. The level of libido in the beginning of the relationship is very often not normal – it's elevated because of the hormones. And if this is her “normal”, then that's it. It doesn't matter how much you help with the chores, how much you support her, compliment her, love her, how much she loves you… that's just her libido then. And trying to force her into having more sex would just end in resentment.
Why does she want to hang out so badly with this person if they are just watching TV? Does he have an special tv? Are his comments so freaking amazing about stuff they are watching that she needs a repeat asap? They aren't even close friends to want so badly to hang out with an older workmate. Literally a 30+ is hanging out with a 20 something just to…watch tv? She can do that with you and it would be 100% better since she love you and you love her. There isn't any logical reason why she wants to hang out of it just sounds so fucking boring.
And it is probably because something else is happening.
Op truly ask her why she wants to badly to hang out with him when it is so meh what they are doing. If he really that interesting? I doubt that
You deserve better.
The sun isn’t the only thing that will be going down with Emily! ?
My dad and his sister were adopted and then his parents were surprised with a natural pregnancy for his youngest sister. It happens.
One thing for you to know her body count another thing for everyone else to know. Some stuff is for private if serious about the relationship depends on your comfort level I guess she may need more healing counseling. I met A women that hid it and was engaged to the Iady a habitual cheater come to find out she hated that I rtold people she cheated after six half years together go figure why do it if you don't want the repercussion account ability isn't you issue here. But it definitely probably why she saying go fight. My ex whenshe was bored and didn't get all Finacial needs perfectly met she was literally lining up the next man while still in same home with me which is exactly how she did the last two bf before me.I recommend in your situation you should at least be glad she was honest about body count.But the scrapping is a no go. Even if pissed I been there been threatened also that the other person had weapons and was larger male than me funny part he was was only three inches taller but I met this other person also in my past. Which she found out I knew that later also someone from her past. I would just talk to her explain your side not worth getting beat up or losing ya life it does happen over people popping off to much in bar and club situations any time there alcohol.You did the right thing by keeping cool head. And this day and age its very sketch out there in the wild. Definitely explain you understand why but you cant go fighting every joker she spills her body detail cause she expects understanding. Not everyone understands and agrees even if she different no then back then. Lot a pole change some do not. As my father said everyone capable but did you or didn't you. We have to live with choice and if it takes more counseling or chat and comforting so be it . It's to be expected to hear people in a situation like that say the things you heard don't mean its not rude but it's not far fetched from there point of view. ? But if you love her I'm sure y'all can talk like mature adult . If she different she different now and learned. Some never do at all And don't value there relationships or how it hurt and affects. This is just as much a issue for you since she thinks ya should have fought for her honer but there is a level of to old to be in street creating beefs.
What I’m noticing is that you’re making a lot of excuses for him. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what his reasons are, or what he’s doing now, as opposed to the past. What truly matters is how this makes YOU feel. You shouldn’t dismiss how you feel just so that you can stay in this relationship. It seems to me that that’s what you’re doing.
Tell her to go fuck herself. She's a terrible person and not a friend to you at all!
You are in a no win situation. Personally, I think it sucks he would do this knowing how you feel. That said, I am sure many disagree with me, say he should go. They may well be right.
Your feelings are valid.