I think you've probably seen him since posting this now but I would just straight up be like “hi welcome home why did you say you cheated on me this morning?”
I hope for all your sakes it was genuine sleep talk bollocks
I've been severely abused, and I got help for it. However, when I got attacked by a psych patient (I worked in a max security psychiatric hospital), I completely froze because it triggered memories and emotions I thought I had gotten past.
Your girlfriend is having a trauma response, and that's normal. Sounds like you are, too. I highly suggest seeing a trauma therapist for the both of you. Whether together or separately, that kind of specialized therapy can help you both sort through what you're experiencing (especially since you say you “blacked out” and the guy's face was a bloodied mess).
Thank you, I'm an idiot
Wow I see why you needed to vent that! ?
I think you've probably seen him since posting this now but I would just straight up be like “hi welcome home why did you say you cheated on me this morning?”
I hope for all your sakes it was genuine sleep talk bollocks
I've been severely abused, and I got help for it. However, when I got attacked by a psych patient (I worked in a max security psychiatric hospital), I completely froze because it triggered memories and emotions I thought I had gotten past.
Your girlfriend is having a trauma response, and that's normal. Sounds like you are, too. I highly suggest seeing a trauma therapist for the both of you. Whether together or separately, that kind of specialized therapy can help you both sort through what you're experiencing (especially since you say you “blacked out” and the guy's face was a bloodied mess).