The purpose of dating is to see if it’s a good fit. This is a fundamental incompatibility.
Some people might be jealous that you have so much time for yourself. It doesn’t sound like that is her issue. Some people might be annoyed for carrying more of the financial burden. That’s not her issue either. Her issue is that she believes you have the opportunity to earn more by working more which would get to HER goal of having a home and a family faster. And she’s frustrated that you value your “me time” more than your future with her meeting her goals.
So…it’s a fundamental incompatibility.
I make a lot more than my partner. He works full time so it’s not that, I just am in a more lucrative career. He has the training/certification to work in a job that pays way more than I make but he chose to work in a different field so he can have set hours and be home after school with his son.
If I didn’t make enough to basically have the life I want on my own, or if we intended to have kids together, I probably wouldn’t have continued dating him had I met him earlier in life because I don’t want to have to work til I die and it’s hot to save money for retirement and raise kids if you’re not making all that you can early on.
I dunno. She knew this about you when you two met so I’m not sure why it’s all of a sudden a bigger issue to her other than perhaps she’s thinking about the future more seriously and feels that you are sacrificing life long earning potential for more “me time”.
I think you’ve got a great thing going and don’t blame you at all. If I could make the same $ and work PT, I absolutely would. I can totally keep myself busy with my hobbies, volunteer work, keeping up the house, etc.
You never know, if she loves and misses him enough this experience might push her over the edge and make her stand up to that piece of crap. You never know….
The doctor told her she can just reduce the dose till she hits 0 We want to wait some time she still has some other medication she wants to stop taking
What was he reffering to when he said “punishable by crime”? Like jail? Because technically, in some states and countries, cheating is a crime… but jail? No.
Other than that, his reaction isnt extreme and very common for people who have been traumatized
If your ex is the jealous type then she will 100% find out about you sleeping with your friend, whether you tell her or not.
The purpose of dating is to see if it’s a good fit. This is a fundamental incompatibility.
Some people might be jealous that you have so much time for yourself. It doesn’t sound like that is her issue. Some people might be annoyed for carrying more of the financial burden. That’s not her issue either. Her issue is that she believes you have the opportunity to earn more by working more which would get to HER goal of having a home and a family faster. And she’s frustrated that you value your “me time” more than your future with her meeting her goals.
So…it’s a fundamental incompatibility.
I make a lot more than my partner. He works full time so it’s not that, I just am in a more lucrative career. He has the training/certification to work in a job that pays way more than I make but he chose to work in a different field so he can have set hours and be home after school with his son.
If I didn’t make enough to basically have the life I want on my own, or if we intended to have kids together, I probably wouldn’t have continued dating him had I met him earlier in life because I don’t want to have to work til I die and it’s hot to save money for retirement and raise kids if you’re not making all that you can early on.
I dunno. She knew this about you when you two met so I’m not sure why it’s all of a sudden a bigger issue to her other than perhaps she’s thinking about the future more seriously and feels that you are sacrificing life long earning potential for more “me time”.
I think you’ve got a great thing going and don’t blame you at all. If I could make the same $ and work PT, I absolutely would. I can totally keep myself busy with my hobbies, volunteer work, keeping up the house, etc.
So I AM jealous of your sitch and yay for you!
You never know, if she loves and misses him enough this experience might push her over the edge and make her stand up to that piece of crap. You never know….
The doctor told her she can just reduce the dose till she hits 0 We want to wait some time she still has some other medication she wants to stop taking
came here to say this. wow.
Your husband is boning somebody with your sisters first name I’m sorry about all the shit you’re dealing with here.
What was he reffering to when he said “punishable by crime”? Like jail? Because technically, in some states and countries, cheating is a crime… but jail? No.
Other than that, his reaction isnt extreme and very common for people who have been traumatized
Youre confused a 22 year old BOY is immature and wants to fuck a willing woman? Lol
Lady, get your shit together