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power hour, dont waste it!
Date: October 6, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
power hour, dont waste it!
Dude don't worry, you are not being unreasonable.
If you feel uncomfortable with the post, and she feels comfortable with the post and nothing towards your feelings towards it, do not let it change your perspective of how you feel.
You said it yourself, usually you don't mind it when she post stuff, but this crossed the line and she should understand that your opinion matters (not only when it supports her opinions).
Stand your ground. If things work out, they do. If the don't, then they don't. Do no force yourself to be uncomfortable or unhappy just because you want someone else to be happy.
You, your thoughts, opinions and feelings matter just as much as she/hers does.
Im not into pork myself, i tend to like watching chicken, or beef, sometimes fish.
Following bc im 18 and this is my 17 yo best friend rn, shes sleeping around with any date she gets and trying to find a replacement for her ex, spiraling into alcohol, i know the influence isnt great but i worry about her 🙁
I mean…if she failed the vibe check…
OP seems like a catch and if her competition caught her slippin then again, that's on her. I will admit it's scummy to gun for someone else partner. However, she didn't proposition him and before that it's at least somewhat evident based on the context the bestie was respectful of the relationship (at least) prior.
But if someone hands you a rope, do you hang yourself?
The answer for both these girls is yes, apparently.
That said, I do agree he shouldn't slam her bestie. He doesn't seem vengeful and while it'd be cathartic for some, I can see how it wouldn't for him.
Ignorance, says the child who knows nothing of the world and yet insists that she has to have it her way or no way at all…good luck with that, little girl. You'll end up having to pay that debt yourself anyway because no one will stick with you with that attitude.
Ugh. This sucks.
But the answer here is simple. Continue what you are doing and get into therapy to work through the guilt.
He don’t care anymore if he isn’t willing to listen or working to improve discussed issues. If couples counseling don’t work time for that divorce. He may be overworked at his job and you overworked at home. That’s just a lot of stress on both parties. If he’s providing for both of you, and he doesn’t have a great salary, then yea he needs to be working hot for retirement and emergencies. Sometimes people need alone time to decompress, for example a Friday night to scroll mindlessly on their phone with being bothered.
Also if you don’t work and don’t contribute to bills, or work part time and don’t contribute to bills, then you shouldn’t feel bad about doing majority of the household chores. Do one chore a day. This is called balance.
Can’t he close the balcony door to smoke? Put a little area for his tobacco station, and tell him that’s his responsibility to clean up. If he was smoking before marriage, then you signed up for it. It’s hard to stop smoking, but not impossible.