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I have that feeling :’( I tried to go about things the right way by starting our relationship w transparency but it’s all blowing up in my face now. I don’t wanna force love or force peace
Thank you very much for this advice. I hope you don't mind if I take some of your words and use them when I talk to him lol
I realize I definitely can't lie to him now. I'm going to talk to him about it, and hopefully he doesn't think I cheated on him. I don't think I would be upset if he asked for a paternity test since I understand how it looks, but I'm going to offer to do one anyway just to preempt him. I'm going to really think about my options in terms of keeping it and do what's best for me. Thank you again.
completely fair comment. I'm not nagging tho to be fair. maybe lost in translation I'm not a great writer. brought it up a couple times and she said no. since then weve had a great relationship and yeah idk Im down to wait and see if she ever changes her mind
So next time she calls, pull a power move and answer and be like “trying to make your grandchildren” and hang up. Or “practicing baby making so we can get it right for the main event”
You're really bending over backwards to rationalize her cheating and lying behavior. Accept the truth and begin the process of moving on, you owe it to your future self
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I have that feeling :’( I tried to go about things the right way by starting our relationship w transparency but it’s all blowing up in my face now. I don’t wanna force love or force peace
You're quite the mind-reader. Did you have to train in that, or does it come naturally?
Thank you very much for this advice. I hope you don't mind if I take some of your words and use them when I talk to him lol
I realize I definitely can't lie to him now. I'm going to talk to him about it, and hopefully he doesn't think I cheated on him. I don't think I would be upset if he asked for a paternity test since I understand how it looks, but I'm going to offer to do one anyway just to preempt him. I'm going to really think about my options in terms of keeping it and do what's best for me. Thank you again.
completely fair comment. I'm not nagging tho to be fair. maybe lost in translation I'm not a great writer. brought it up a couple times and she said no. since then weve had a great relationship and yeah idk Im down to wait and see if she ever changes her mind
We went as two friends
So you have no claim on her. She is free to kiss whoever she pleases.
So next time she calls, pull a power move and answer and be like “trying to make your grandchildren” and hang up. Or “practicing baby making so we can get it right for the main event”
Yea you need therapy big time dude. It’s once thing if she told you without you bringing it up. But you brought it up and asked her.
You're really bending over backwards to rationalize her cheating and lying behavior. Accept the truth and begin the process of moving on, you owe it to your future self