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Date: October 8, 2022
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Doesn’t even matter if she’s cheating.
If you come home to someone repeatedly who doesn’t want to give you a big smooch, and there’s no communication about something being wrong, you ain’t in a relationship.
Tried that shit for eight years. Granted it never fully dried up, instead coming in waves of distance and coldness followed by ridiculous fights for no reason followed by “happiness”.
Nobody deserves to reach out for affection and get nothing in return. You might be ignoring it but if you care for someone who is doing that to you it will destroy you.
Note: I’m not implying anyone is “owed” affection. Nobody owes anyone else their physical or emotional love. But I’m of the firm opinion that without it, barring unusual circumstances, there’s not a relationship there.
If you feel unable to greet your SO lovingly, for Pete’s sake fucking talk to them about WHY. It’s devastating. Don’t use silence and emotional neglect on someone you potentially love. Unless you want them to grow to resent, or even hate, you.
You know the feeling of loving and wanting someone badly and they are righ there with you, but it seems like they dont. That was how it was for me and the reason why i broke it up. But i started second guessing and regreting it imediately…
Reading this upset me. You need therapy. Your bf probably could tone it down a bit in certain aspects especially if you don’t like it b it what I just read is genuinely a man who likes to take care of you. And 90% of what I just read I’d normal.
OP, this is toxic and a terrible example to set for your kids. They deserve a mother who has a partner that respects her enough to never have the audacity of sleeping with her best friend. What the two of them did was disgusting and at this time you have detached yourself emotionally from feeling pain over your marriage being officially over. Do yourself a favor and divorce. What’s done is done but this was the choice they made the moment they sat down with you and made you make a choice of the unthinkable. Everything ended exactly at that moment because they became cheaters (or possibly have been cheating, I don’t know). But to now give you MORE grief and MORE pain over their selfish wishes not being fulfilled. How pathetic is your husband to say: “bOO hoo! You’re not being nice to me anymore!!” )): Well that’s too damn bad. If I could give you a hug, I absolutely would. Sounds like you’ve been put through the ringer but it’s time to let go and find better for yourself now. Your kids will be okay.
And i won’t be chasing this man.
There you go. That's the answer right there.
The wild swings he takes from “I am doing this for YOU” to “I am doing this for ME”, are mentally exhausting and diametrically opposed.
Seems like a deeply selfish person, hiding that ugliness behind faux concern for you and your life.
I also do not understand what it is you are waiting for, or why you would have to leave the country?
How do I take my power back and keep calm through this uncertain time?
leave him and keep your amazing career and build the life that gives you joy.
Find a partner who is not willing to risk his or your life, due to a lack of scientific literacy.
That sounds like a very selfish reason to do something. You obviously didn’t take her feelings into account only your own. Maybe I am old school but if your stayed with another woman after I specifically told you that is not okay- you would be gone! To me this is a huge violation of trust. I would tell you hope you like the furniture you built because you can stay there!