My first thought too. It would not be so bad if they had only been together a few years but targeting an 18 year old when you're 25 is just gross. It may not be illegal but it's morally wrong in my opinion. It's something I would never have done. It's no surprise a man like that is very shallow.
You should know you’ve put enough details out there that anyone with basic investigative skills and passing interest can easily figure out who this guy is.
You dodged a bullet. You share a common friend group, so stay civil, even still friendly if you can manage it , but DO NOT ever consider dating this girl. You need to respond. You need to to use your acting skills . You need to move her to the friend zone. I’d respond something like “ oh hi, it’s cool, I wasn’t enjoying the vibe so I took off”. I suspect she does stupid things when she drinks, that doesn’t get better . The only way it can get better is if she never ever drinks again, and she is going to drink again.
LOL this is so not normal or healthy. You gonna be another dead beat dad in probably 1 year. I feel bad for all these kids.
My first thought too. It would not be so bad if they had only been together a few years but targeting an 18 year old when you're 25 is just gross. It may not be illegal but it's morally wrong in my opinion. It's something I would never have done. It's no surprise a man like that is very shallow.
Girl please run from this man.
The age difference…The texts…. The baggage.
This is not a good idea.
You should know you’ve put enough details out there that anyone with basic investigative skills and passing interest can easily figure out who this guy is.
You dodged a bullet. You share a common friend group, so stay civil, even still friendly if you can manage it , but DO NOT ever consider dating this girl. You need to respond. You need to to use your acting skills . You need to move her to the friend zone. I’d respond something like “ oh hi, it’s cool, I wasn’t enjoying the vibe so I took off”. I suspect she does stupid things when she drinks, that doesn’t get better . The only way it can get better is if she never ever drinks again, and she is going to drink again.
I dont want her longing for more. I want her to be satisfied. I dont want to be compared and get the latter end of the shtick