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Date: November 23, 2022
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What part of it?
Break up. Question tho. Why is it just the men that are bad here? It sounds like these men had no issues before society/family/caste systems came into play. They do sound like they suck. But literally everyone here but you sounds awful. Break up. He's not going to convince them otherwise.
Simply put – you're not compatible. Your life choices are extremely different and your lifestyle is bringing her great discomfort. Now, she either gets used to it or – she breaks up with you. There is not much you can do here.
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Why is your partner with you if they don't think you are their type?
Your whole post sounds ridiculous. I understand why you get met with anger and frustration. If they didn't want to be with you, they would not be with you.
If you keep picking at this wound, your worst fear may come true. You may end up convincing them that you are not meant to be together.
My advice is to stop setting yourself up for failure and stop sabotaging yourself and your relationship.
Oh yes, we were married into her teens. A healthy marriage, just some incompatibilities but her dad is a good man.
So he spent a lot of time with her? That answer is more about your relationship with him.
He was her first example of a relationship and male role model.
Maybe he needs to talk to her?
You probably should not be giving money but encouraging her return home instead.
Alcoholics will choose booze over their loved ones, so be prepared to not be his first priority. Please read some of the stories at /r/alanon so you can make an informed decision as to whether you really want to deal with this long term.
Ethnically White Anglo-Saxon and Religiously Protestant, but not a WASP in the sense of the American socio-economic label.
so yeah yeah her body her choice.
but what about embracing our true selves? loving our natural beauty? tell her it’s her choice but express to her how beautiful her nose is already. acceptance of the body is much better than changing it
I really don’t want to involve his kid as he’s only 4 and I don’t think it’s like the best thing to do, and he hasn’t actively cheated and I don’t want to be a home wrecker unnecessarily
You can also email the pics to yourself
Stop drinking.
Still counts as possession of CP if you’re a minor. It’s not just the US, it’s the same in Australia. Idk much about law, but it’s probably a thing to cover all possible scenarios of how that CP was created or if they CP can be distributed
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It would work if you lived in England, as Britain and the US support the custody laws. Not everybody does she would have to check where you were first.
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Suck it up and get over it. It isn't about you at all and it isn't disrespectful in any way. In fact, he already showed you more respect than you deserve by being classy and asking you. The classy thing for you to have done would be to say “Of course, we aren't together anymore so go for it.”
I can't believe this is so far down. It's a little weird that the kid stirs so easily.. most babies once they are down could have a bomb go off a block away and will stay asleep.
I’m having those exact thought today. As much as it sounds horrible. For me it’s a frustration release. It’s Christmas Day been at the holiday house for the last three days. Kids are at that stage of being over it. Their dad is complaining about how much he has spent and that he’s in pain(still don’t understand why you would do this when you have a bad leg). So I’ve been trying to wrangle a 4yr and 3yr while daddy sleeps or relaxes. This entire trip I’ve had no time to myself.
Just sit down and be there for your sister to vent, maybe try and take her out somewhere without the kids. Perhaps organise a day to take the kids to an indoor park. And mum stays home.
I think it’s possible he was down with being flirty and it got to the point where they were in her bedroom but at that point he was too drunk to consent. I think he was happy to be flirting with her and getting her attention but he didn’t plan on having sex with her. I think she did assault him, but he did also cheat on you. It’s both.
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… what? You repeated a bit man, this post is very unclear and looks like someone created a post just hitting the middle option in the word suggestions.
Maybe he has a kink now L O L
Seriously not encouraging it but you definitely can mitigate a lot of the risks by taking small doses, using test kits etc.
And you can mitigate the come down by making sure you have a stress free couple of days after and maybe a joint.
I think you can make it work…have a chart of household chores that need to be done…some she's in charge of and some you are in charge of and you can cook together…order out…have a dinner date night…discuss prepping meals in advance….have a space for you and a space for her for alone time and as far as kids…a woman's maternity clock doesn't start ticking until they are in their 30s
Were you in relationships when you made that List
He thinks the hymen is a universal concept and that the articles state otherwise are all from the left people
hopefully therapy because those texts are from 2009
Scam. Whether he was chatting to cam girls, sending nudes to a person or had a hacked webcam who knows.
It’s up to you whether you think he was cheating or just engaging in porn (where you put cam girls is your call).
You have to go to target
I just asked him if it was the best time he had 'with me', I didn't bring up any previous experiences.
Bf's logic checks out, sucks but understandable. The cop in the room escalated the situation on ego. Systemic problems will never be fixed if we can't even talk about them.
This sounds like untreated ADHD, especially given that he’s saying his father is the same way. If this is the case, his inability to pay attention isn’t going to change without treatment.
How long ago did you break up?
Give it some time for you to cool down, and get back into the dating world.
What you are feeling now is regret over giving up on what you wanted. (In other words, your fantasy version of how good things could be, if only she wasn’t, you know, her.). When you’re with her you’re feeling regret over what you actually had. Your words? “It was killing me.” Remember that.
When I was growing up my mother would get mad if you put dishes in the sink. Today, I prefer to put them in the sink but I get a twinge everytime I do it. Habits are nude to break and it really is just dishes. That said, I would probably put big signs beside the sink until he gets it.
Thank you. I love this, this is how I feel.
I mean if you have to say mean shit to your partner to get them to do what you want, I think that’s controlling. It’s just a tattoo, he needs to grow up and realize he can’t control the way his partners body looks
He just told you he’d kill you and your kids if you cheated. What else would he kill you for? You know this isn’t normal
He's 25. “Almost 30”. ???? next you'll be saying he's virtually 40.
Ha! You were literally in bed together and he left bc he wanted to have fun. Poor form on his part. All of the stuff about how he doesn’t plan dates or make an effort? It’s because he’s totally and completely selfish.
Save yourself another 6-24 months of being sidelined & break up now. He’s not a catch.
At the very least a good wipe down if I don't want to deal with the whole shower.
It’s not unusual. If you browse r/parenting and r/daddit, you’ll see lots of posts of couples with babies who only have sex a handful of times a year in the first few years with a baby.
Do keep trying to make it happen, but don’t feel guilty if it doesn’t. It’s just a tough time right now and you guys have to be patient.
See if you can get a sitter for an afternoon once a month or so to have some personal time together, that may help.
Just talk to her and be honest and tell her how it hurt you so much. Also planning a proposal doesn't have to be secretive, let her know you plan on marrying her, but that you wanna know if she just said what she because of stress, or if she truly meant it. Yeah it seems she didn't mean it, but she could've gone about the whole thing differently. You both are stressed, maybe take some time to get your ducks in a row and step back. If you plan on marrying her, just remember, communication is important! Y'all will have y'all's bad days and it won't be easy, it will be work, but it'll be worth it. Not only tell her how you're feeling, but ask her how she's feeling. Marriage is about being a team and working together. Talk to one another.
Get a new email address and a new bank account, and a burner phone. Pack the things you can't live without. Get that ring valued. If it's worth anything, pawn it along with anything else that makes up the value of the money he took from you. Then disappear. Don't even tell him, don't go back to the house. Tell the local police that he stole from you, is abusive and you're leaving of your own volition so he cannot be allowed to make a missing persons report. And to begin the paper trail just in case.
You should probably get an abortion so he can't use the pregnancy/child as a way to control you forever. Even if you keep it, you should make yourself unreachable. This will only get worse, you need to ghost naked before he turns you into a ghost for real.
You’re a piece of shit. I hope your wife divorces you
This is just because I work with math and finance and while you’re system is a good place to start it should consider your expendable money after income and normal living expenses, for example if all have 20K of expenses somebody who makes 30k has $10k to use and somebody who makes 40k has 20 to use so with this example it should be split 2/3 1/3 were your system would be 25/75
I just thought I had a bit of stake in this, considering it's our relationship and we're both on a lease together.
You know what? Instead of just down-voting you like everyone else I’m gonna explain why this is a god-awful take:
Whatever else is redeeming in OP’s boyfriend is irrelevant. This issue is solely about OP’s boyfriend feeling entitled to have 100% of his meals made for him under the guise of, “Having someone cook for me is my love language.” Who is basing a relationship solely on this? What led you to that conclusion?
Why are you purporting to know what her WFH day is like? Do you have ANY idea what OP does for a living, what kind of deliverables she is expected to have done and by when? Do you know she can “shut her laptop whenever she wants”? You are delusional if you think not having to physically go into an office means work is a free for all. For example my job is hybrid – I am in the office 3 days a week and WFH the other 2. Some in-office days I can stroll in at 9am and clock out at 5pm, have very few meetings and my day is not at all stressful. Some WFH days I am live for 12 hours straight in back-to-back meetings and trying to get all my shit done in time. Guess what my fiancé does on those days? Manages putting dinner on because even though he went into the physical office, he got done with work well before I did.
I wonder what OP’s boyfriend did to feed himself before he met her. He’s a grown-ass man. He decided to join a physically demanding career and then whine about how tired he is all the time, while simultaneously telling his girlfriend how “easy” it is to cook. So which is it – so easy that he should be able to feed himself despite being tired, or a laborious task that he should appreciate someone is willing to do for him 80% of the time?
She never said she wanted him to come home from work to cook dinner. She acknowledges it’s easier for her to make dinner during the week. She wants him to make dinner sometimes on the weekends, and not complain about variety when he’s not the one cooking.
Your whole “good luck finding a man” thing is just dripping with so much misogyny I feel like a Matt Walsh-shaped goblin manifested in real time as I read that.
She’s not asking for 50/50 in the kitchen. She’s asking for 80/20 with the large onus still on her. Maybe you were too busy turning this into a Mens Rights Activist rant to read the part where she literally says 80/20, you illiterate fucking imbecile.
The only person weaponizing, “If you loved me you’d do this” is him. If he’s allowed to say being cooked for is his love language, why can’t it be hers too?
Thank you. That's why I went with the commitment in the first place – I believed we could get through that.
One of my problems however is that I started to dislike her the way she is when she talks to her parents, and also I'm starting to see some clues of her parents' ways of thinking in herself. Which is natural, but it adds to the whole “get me out of here” mindset.
Exactly. She was a child, he was an adult. It doesn’t matter if she lied. She was a fucking kid.
Dont answer just move on with your life
Yeah well – he cheated. Period.
Drugs are never an apology but may I ask what he took? Often we think that the control-loss on drugs is much heavier than it really is.
I just need someone to explain to me what the fuck “the warehouse department” means thanks.
Lmao, fair enough! My knowledge of relationships comes from details from friends and my experience as a medical student so it’s all very clinical haha.
The two other girls were my age
Sometimes he would drive up to her house and collect her and fuck her in the back seat and drop her off again. She would have to suck him off when he was driving, she would have to send nudes whenever he wanted. Sometimes he would gag her and tie her up and play with her for hours.
fact she was basically some guys sex toy for so long.
Boy when I tell you I'd be sick to me stomach lol. I wouldn't be able to eat for a week.
Yes you're overreacting big-time. He doesn't have to tell you if he's taking Viagra, that's his business.