I like the recommendation to ask your doctor about your own risk, that's the best medical advice.
Otherwise, it sounds like you guys are hitting it off and she was upfront about it, so no red flags there.
It's really up to you (assuming no severe health risks).
My best friend got cheated on by her boyfriend of 6 years and he left her the gift of herpes to remember him by. She's now married and has a child with another guy who is herpes-free, 5 years down the road. As far as I know, she never had another outbreak after the first that informed her of the infection in the first place. They never took extra medical precautions like pills or condoms as far as I know, but those are available as well.
Make a doctor's appointment to gather more info, do some reading on genital herpes, and think about what you want. Good luck, man.
It’s an important law. It was largely created after a dude killed a 15 year old who broke into his garage as he was actively running away.
That is a weird thing to root for, being able to kill someone who is actively trying not to hurt you and to get away from you. I would reflect on how little you value human lives tbh.
If I’m being honest I wouldn’t tolerate breaking up and getting back together a bunch of times. That’s probably why you’re afraid he’ll do it again. I can’t imagine the emotional stress of never knowing if your bf is going to leave you or not. Seriously, you don’t mention one thing he does that makes you happy.
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I like the recommendation to ask your doctor about your own risk, that's the best medical advice.
Otherwise, it sounds like you guys are hitting it off and she was upfront about it, so no red flags there.
It's really up to you (assuming no severe health risks).
My best friend got cheated on by her boyfriend of 6 years and he left her the gift of herpes to remember him by. She's now married and has a child with another guy who is herpes-free, 5 years down the road. As far as I know, she never had another outbreak after the first that informed her of the infection in the first place. They never took extra medical precautions like pills or condoms as far as I know, but those are available as well.
Make a doctor's appointment to gather more info, do some reading on genital herpes, and think about what you want. Good luck, man.
Nah, forget about her. Do it yourself by yourself.
It’s an important law. It was largely created after a dude killed a 15 year old who broke into his garage as he was actively running away.
That is a weird thing to root for, being able to kill someone who is actively trying not to hurt you and to get away from you. I would reflect on how little you value human lives tbh.
If I’m being honest I wouldn’t tolerate breaking up and getting back together a bunch of times. That’s probably why you’re afraid he’ll do it again. I can’t imagine the emotional stress of never knowing if your bf is going to leave you or not. Seriously, you don’t mention one thing he does that makes you happy.
Sorry friend. Time to move on.
The old saying a drunk man thoughts are a sober man feelings
Well, you could either talk to her about not texting you during work, or you can tell her you aren't going to read her texts while you're at work.
This has a lot of very easy solutions.