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In a kind and sympathetic way, I agree. It's a funny thing, but if you stop looking for validation like that from partners and put even half that energy into figuring out who you are, what you're for and what matters to you, and making that happen, your life will be absolutely amazing.
I don't want to sound mean just very honest. you sound needy.
I think you should be clear already in what you want. just ask him out and see where it goes. I can't say anything about other men. I don't use snap, insta or face, tiktok etc. I do text with the women I am interested maybe an hr, but after that I either want to see them or invite them out for a date.
when I mean a date I mean your whole day should be free I want to have fun maybe start with a lunch and walk go to a mini gulf course or bowling anywhere we can talk and play. ppl forget that a date is also about fun for 1-2 hours at 3-4pm we get something else to eat we talk and eat for an hr at least if you have interesting stories and then maybe something like a boat ride or jazz club to sit for some drinks.
usually I don't do dancing on the first date cause after standing up playing walking around ppl have dead tired feet by 9pm which is a great time to catch a movie before going home seeing as we have spent the whole day talking and having fun you can rest your feet and have fun and a bonus is driving you home and talk about the movie.
You have an opportunity to settle these thoughts, and see its innocent in nature, have a chance to develop a friend yourself,.
But, instead you would be putting up a wall to resolution and choosing to view things as weird.
I know its a hot pill to swallow, but your girlfriend IS going to have other guys she gets along with.
You are not a special exception, you're the love exception.
You're likely to go to parties together. Its better to get along with everyone, instead of viewing platonic conversations as a threat to your relationship. That will only damper things and push her away as a result.
I met a ton of great guy friends through my GF. Its because she is a social person and gets along with everyone. And I doubt, if I ever confronted her without valid reason… we wouldn't be fiancés.
Can't jump to conclusions without finding out for yourself first.
Feelings are feelings, but ask him what concrete things he wants to happen to make him feel more secure. If those steps are OK for you then take them. What I would be worried about is that he turns more and more controlling to based on this gut feeling of his if the feeling comes more from his personal history or brain chemistry that anything you have done or are doing.
The sheer irony of him calling his old boss/colleagues “idiots” … someone needs to look in the mirror and stop thinking so highly of himself because that is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard of a “professional” doing.
You don't know what else to do? This is his first offense. He promised to fix it and do better. You aren't giving him the opportunity to do that, you're micromanaging his response instead.
He knows he fucked up, your constant reminders and demands for therapy aren't helping.
Back off, quit trying to control him, show some trust in him, and apologize for dictating to him what his response should have been.
In a kind and sympathetic way, I agree. It's a funny thing, but if you stop looking for validation like that from partners and put even half that energy into figuring out who you are, what you're for and what matters to you, and making that happen, your life will be absolutely amazing.
This will be the best it gets so be prepared to be in a dead bedroom relationship for the remainder of your life
Or you could go find someone else?♂️
I don't want to sound mean just very honest. you sound needy.
I think you should be clear already in what you want. just ask him out and see where it goes. I can't say anything about other men. I don't use snap, insta or face, tiktok etc. I do text with the women I am interested maybe an hr, but after that I either want to see them or invite them out for a date.
when I mean a date I mean your whole day should be free I want to have fun maybe start with a lunch and walk go to a mini gulf course or bowling anywhere we can talk and play. ppl forget that a date is also about fun for 1-2 hours at 3-4pm we get something else to eat we talk and eat for an hr at least if you have interesting stories and then maybe something like a boat ride or jazz club to sit for some drinks.
usually I don't do dancing on the first date cause after standing up playing walking around ppl have dead tired feet by 9pm which is a great time to catch a movie before going home seeing as we have spent the whole day talking and having fun you can rest your feet and have fun and a bonus is driving you home and talk about the movie.
I would say you would be a fool tbh.
You have an opportunity to settle these thoughts, and see its innocent in nature, have a chance to develop a friend yourself,.
But, instead you would be putting up a wall to resolution and choosing to view things as weird.
I know its a hot pill to swallow, but your girlfriend IS going to have other guys she gets along with.
You are not a special exception, you're the love exception.
You're likely to go to parties together. Its better to get along with everyone, instead of viewing platonic conversations as a threat to your relationship. That will only damper things and push her away as a result.
I met a ton of great guy friends through my GF. Its because she is a social person and gets along with everyone. And I doubt, if I ever confronted her without valid reason… we wouldn't be fiancés.
Can't jump to conclusions without finding out for yourself first.
At the very least he's a predator who dated a 17 year old when he was 21.
Yeah I know. I legit started tearing up and then got to the motel scene and got so annoyed lmao
Feelings are feelings, but ask him what concrete things he wants to happen to make him feel more secure. If those steps are OK for you then take them. What I would be worried about is that he turns more and more controlling to based on this gut feeling of his if the feeling comes more from his personal history or brain chemistry that anything you have done or are doing.
The sheer irony of him calling his old boss/colleagues “idiots” … someone needs to look in the mirror and stop thinking so highly of himself because that is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard of a “professional” doing.
You don't know what else to do? This is his first offense. He promised to fix it and do better. You aren't giving him the opportunity to do that, you're micromanaging his response instead.
He knows he fucked up, your constant reminders and demands for therapy aren't helping.
Back off, quit trying to control him, show some trust in him, and apologize for dictating to him what his response should have been.