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⭐, let me be dirty with your dick, deeptrohat ⭐ [111 tokens remaining]
Date: November 24, 2022
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⭐, let me be dirty with your dick, deeptrohat ⭐ [111 tokens remaining]
That “little” in your username should be explained in your post. If most commenters knew what you were saying with it, the responses would change. You’ve chosen a relationship based on quite literally acting like a child. Seems important.
Yeah thats an extremely rough situation dude I think she is aware and maybe in the process of reciprocating. I think she may just be looking for something new more than it's your fault sounds like you are making honest attempts
Lol it's not about your cookie cutter term, or what a word defines, there's emotional themes at play that you're not considering.
But cool, leave, I think most of us here trying to talk some all encompassing sense don't feel too different about you than how you do us anyways.
I mean she dated Jon's son Julian, so we will count it. Even if she did get her start there (she didn't) thats great, all it takes is having a father who was considered the most famous actor of his generation and whole family that has been in acting as long there have been movies.
Stand your ground. Tell the father you are who you are and that if he can't accept it, that's his problem. If you don't want to convert, then don't. If he doesn't approve, to hell with him. The relationship is between you and your fiance, not him or her family. If she loves you, she'll stay with you regardless of whether or not her father approves.
He’s always been nice because you have never challenged him before. Now you have done something he isn’t happy with his true colours are showing. I fear it will only escalate from here as he has now learned you will tolerate being controlled by aggression 🙁
You can do better than this insecure little man. You shouldn't have lied to his face about having orgasms during sex when you weren't, also for not telling him that you need more touching and foreplay. Doesn't sound like the two of you are terribly compatible anyway and you should move on to a guy who is also more secure with himself.
So she did inform me when we started talking she did go through SA when she was younger in which I comforted her. Despite this we still would have sex but I respected her boundaries in which she thanked me for and afterwards I’d show her aftercare from cuddling, to making dinner etc. I don’t believe I’ve given her any reason to believe I’m only after sex after 3 months without it-it’s beginning to really be on my mind(the idea of sex with my gf) but any time I attempt to make any advances I get turned down which I kiss her cheek or forehead and say it’s alright no worries and begin conversations with her.
You are lying to you and her. Don't try and rekindle this and move on. I know its very hot but it's the only way forward. You are stagnating and it's only gonna get harder to grow the longer you leave it. Rip the band aid off.
Who he used to be is probably not who he actually is.
I met my wasband when he was carefree and fun because he had taken all of his harder classes in college.
I thought that's who he was.
When he went into his phD program and ended up being surly and angry and serious all the time, I realized that that was his actual personality, and the person that I met was the anomaly.
The person you thought you knew isn't real. The person you are with now is who he is and forever shall be. Would you choose him NOW? No? Then move on.
Ok I don't believe in hanging out, or being friends with people you could date while in a monogamous committed relationship. Why? You are looking at. I swear if this were a man and she was doing this, you would call her naive and saying he was taking advantage. IT is complicated. There is a way to live! a drama filled life, and this is not it. All I know is the post, what you have done before, not sure. If you dont' like your girlfriends values, then you may not be in the right relationship. Good luck.
yes, thought about that as well but the lingering fear is that I don't know when she will leave me. I even suggested that if we sign some sort of a postnup for this loan and she didn't want to.
I am owning up because this issue has been created because of a lack of clarity on my part. For the longest time, I didn't want to merge finances but I am fine doing now. I would like to give the money to my parents before merging finances because if we get separated then that money is gone and then I am on the hook for it.
He refused to delete photos which is obviously WRONG
You’re young, eventually you’ll understand that a lot of people are made up of different aspects of their personalities that on paper, seem incompatible.
I was/am the same way. Full of rage. I’m also the nicest, cuddliest, friendliest person around. I’ll help people out, I’ll pet dogs, and even talk to total strangers in the supermarket about the best way to potatoes, if they ask.
But say the wrong thing, or, god forbid, TOUCH me…
And it is also drunk talk. It’s the kind of thing people who aren’t full of rage say or think when they’re drunk., so just saying it doesn’t really mean they it’s true, nor does it mean that it’s false.
But I wouldn’t worry that he’s someone you suddenly don’t know. He’s the same person he was when he wasn’t drunk, it’s just now he says dumb shit.
Until you see him fly into a rage with a stranger over nothing, I might give him the benefit of the doubt.
My dad got really upset and dropped him off at home.
That seems like a pretty far stretch from the “altercation” that is mentioned in the title. Hell, he was even nice enough to drive the guy home.
Everyone here seems to be hating on cops and how the dad responded to the situation, but it seems to me that, although upset, he acted quite rationally.
You are adding subtext that isn’t there. He says no thank I am seeing someone and you heard “it’s not serious so we could possibly go out sometime” Go apologize to your bf for holding him accountable for things you heard that he didn’t say.
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That is from OPs perspective. I agree there is something missing from the story.
You are her only sexual paetners and she was sexually abused in the past. These dreams might not be going away.
Problem is also that she might think that while she has all these issues having sex with she might wonder if it would be easier/better for her with other people. Obviously not, but it is not something she can know for sure herself.
Pair it with what she has already told you about not wanting you to be her only sex partner in her life, I think your relationship is doomed for either, break up, infidelity or being opened at some point in future.
Oh honey welcome to your first Adult Dating Lesson: When To Leave A Mooch.
Answer? Like yesterday. Mans didn’t like his OG mommy so he found you instead. Girl, you gotta value yourself a hell of a lot more than you do right now because if you keep bending over backwards for people who have quite literally nothing to offer, you’ll have nothing left of yourself.
Nut up and tell that man that if he leaves this job before he has another one, he will also be looking for elsewhere to live!. If he doesn’t learn to pick his own two hands and feet up and do things around the place he calls home, he will no longer be calling that home. And then stick to those ultimatums because you did not birth this man-child and you are not responsible for his upbringing
You are 25. This is not going to get better. If you have kids, sex will likely stop entirely. You need to break up and find a best friend and lover, not just a best friend.
Your husband is disgusting and anyone who screams at me is typically unceremoniously removed from my orbit.
I am fully aware I could’ve done better with the guy and I should’ve said no or just that I didn’t have. As to the bf, I always try to be transparent and communicative. Though as you say, I shouldn’t have been this time. Thanks for your insight.
First of all, I’m worried for you that you don’t feel safe to tell your husband you’re on the pill. Second, your anxiety around pregnancy should be discussed with a therapist. So you can address the underlying issue and so you can find a way to communicate those anxieties to your husband. He should be the one person who understands and supports you while you’re struggling. Third, there are other options besides the pill. There are implants, diaphragms, and IUD’s. But the real issue is that you aren’t ready to have a child and you can’t share your fears around it with your husband. I’m sorry you are experiencing this but please seek secular help for it.
Maybe a spa trip, or a weekend away wouldn't hurt. Maybe a romantic getaway for you two?
Remember, you're partners first, then parents, though infants can switch that a little. Show her how much you still love her.
Sn-ark a-wahd we-ell done
The part where you say he acted selfishly….? Yes because its completely selfish to take care of those in need, but godforbid it derails YOUR plans….gtfo
The part where you say he acted selfishly….? Yes because its completely selfish to take care of those in need, but godforbid it derails YOUR plans….gtfo
This right here
I'd still want to get a family lawyer formally “okay” that that that is sufficient in your jurisdiction.
Some places, a marriage cert = the spouse is the default legal other parent.
I'd so strongly encourage a local family lawyer consult for this matter and to assess your seperation options & obligations too.
Don't let this person legally take advantage of, like they are currently sexualky, financially and emotionally.
Op also, you beautiful person, if you don't want sexual advances, you don't get sexual advances. What these two are doing to you is assault. It's sexual asdault.
His “wandering hands” assault excuse makes me want to vomit and chop those rapey hands off.
You're the sunshine and loveliness and kindness and gold in this household. They are seemingly monsterous.
Please value your goldenness!!
No-one is allowed to touch you against your will. If the do, and especially if they manipulativly tell you to just let them do it, they are rapists.
But that is their ugliness and horror and shame – not yours.
You're still absolute sunshine and preciousness and gold, even after such creeps have so darkly weezeled their way into into abuse you.
That's their ugly. Not yours.
Such warm wishes and good luck op:)
if you can afford the support of a local therapist as you are going though this, to help you process this, that might be a really great option to consider.
Even though you are so strong to start this seperation process, you might later need the space and ear of someone impartial and professionally guided, when/if it gets even more tangled or after the dusts settles a bit. This isn't a small thing at all.
✨ .
How do I know what I bring to the table and how do I use that to change how I think and my beliefs? Is there a way to find out what that belief was?
It’s time to gift yourself with a divorce. He’s selfish and cares more about himself than his wife and kids. There’s really nothing to be done with that. Let your kids know that they deserve better as do you, but unfortunately he’s not ever going to be the one to put any of your needs before his own.
The issue is that he doesn't think what he did is wrong, and when he got caught he continued lying to do damage control. This is straight from the playbook: we just had coffee…actually drinks…at a bar…at a hotel… you get the idea.
He will pass these values on to your son. Staying with him isn't doing your son any favors. It's a deal breaker, so it's time to lose the deal.
So flippant and dismissive.
Mature adults who are good communicators can easily be caring for each other AND having group sex well into their forties.
YOU just couldn't handle it.
Like I said.
There is no one else besides you navigating your journey in life.
People come and people go.
Those who choose to stand by your side are the ones of value.
The only person who holds the power to break you, is you.
You will find your way.
You'll have new oppurnities and new experiences.
This break up does not define you… it elevates you. Allow it to make you stronger.
You got this.
Eyes forward.
Determination.
Like I said.
There is no one else besides you navigating your journey in life.
People come and people go.
Those who choose to stand by your side are the ones of value.
The only person who holds the power to break you, is you.
You will find your way.
You'll have new oppurnities and new experiences.
This break up does not define you… it elevates you. Allow it to make you stronger.
You got this.
Eyes forward.
Determination.
it does suck but you'll be ok 🙂
I completely see that side of it 100%! His role at the dinners is me inviting him because he lives about a 4 hour plane ride from his family, so I include him incase he wants to come. There would be no hot feelings at all if he didn’t feel like coming. I give him multiple options to leave early or take separate cars so he can make a quick getaway, whatever he wants. My issue only lies with that he agrees to come, and is miserable the entire time and it’s very noticeable. I stopped inviting him and he was actually wondering why my brothers girlfriend was invited and he wasn’t. I feel like there’s some kind of disconnect, he gets upset if he is not included, but when I do include him, he is messaging people about how much he hates it, and does not address it with me.
She will purposefully do and say random things to get a reaction out of me either negative or positive.
Just say “cool stuff”.