I know it sounds trivial, but hang in there. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. It's going to feel like your brain and heart are at war, but you will heal. Focus on things that are healthy for you and bring you joy. Face your emotions and deal with them, even the dark ones. You're going to be okay.
The ground rules are the same as they have been for the last few thousand years. You stop thinking of yourself and being selfish. You either stay with her and be there for her fully like she deserves and realise that sex is only 10% of the relationship. Or you leave her with the little dignity she has left, fuck off and go find a sex partner.
Holding onto her and being completely selfish will hurt her more than you could begin to imagine. The damage will be irreversible and your relationship will never be the same again. Trust broken is trust lost. She is flesh and blood with feelings and emotions. Her worth to you should not be depreciating in value because something like a physical health issue.
Your story disgusts me deep to my core. Woman are just as much human as men are. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a second, would you be able to accept it? Your worth getting estimated as lower when you go through something that life throws at you. If you don't have staying power or real love in your heart, you shouldn't be in a love relationship. I'm finding it very hot to believe that you have any love or care for this poor girl.
Are you sure he truly can't understand how this could push a person to their breaking point? Or does he just not care that he's violating your boundaries?
I bet he'd be really mad if someone spied on him the way he's spying on you.
Don't adults there pay for their own education? You sound very shallow. Marry her, you won't find anyone else that'll put up with you. I hope you'll make a better physician than husband. Poor girl.
Your wife doesn't love you. You don't spit on people you love.
I know it sounds trivial, but hang in there. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. It's going to feel like your brain and heart are at war, but you will heal. Focus on things that are healthy for you and bring you joy. Face your emotions and deal with them, even the dark ones. You're going to be okay.
The ground rules are the same as they have been for the last few thousand years. You stop thinking of yourself and being selfish. You either stay with her and be there for her fully like she deserves and realise that sex is only 10% of the relationship. Or you leave her with the little dignity she has left, fuck off and go find a sex partner.
Holding onto her and being completely selfish will hurt her more than you could begin to imagine. The damage will be irreversible and your relationship will never be the same again. Trust broken is trust lost. She is flesh and blood with feelings and emotions. Her worth to you should not be depreciating in value because something like a physical health issue.
Your story disgusts me deep to my core. Woman are just as much human as men are. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a second, would you be able to accept it? Your worth getting estimated as lower when you go through something that life throws at you. If you don't have staying power or real love in your heart, you shouldn't be in a love relationship. I'm finding it very hot to believe that you have any love or care for this poor girl.
I just don't want to lead him on of its not going to work.
Honey, get rid. Don’t ever let someone treat you like that.
Why are you posting this repeatedly?
Are you sure he truly can't understand how this could push a person to their breaking point? Or does he just not care that he's violating your boundaries?
I bet he'd be really mad if someone spied on him the way he's spying on you.
Don't adults there pay for their own education? You sound very shallow. Marry her, you won't find anyone else that'll put up with you. I hope you'll make a better physician than husband. Poor girl.