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I honestly would both be happy and sad if I didn’t have him in my life, he knows all my deepest darkest secrets, however there are moments within our relationship where I may say one wrong thing and I get belittled or called “stupid” not only from him, but his family as well. I would be heartbroken if he were to cheat on me, but I just don’t know for how long i would be. And honestly i never really thought about that for the “Snapchat boy” (honestly i also fell for his looks; which i hate having that as a reason.. but it’s true) and I had been thinking about telling the other one after we all graduated and went out separate ways for college about my feelings, but I feel that would be wrong. Thank you so much for the advice!
Great questions — I'm OK with her not having a job; her being in school or even volunteering would be fine instead, I just need to see her try.
I think that she has it in her to be an amazing Mom, but I don't really think that she is emotionally strong enough yet. I know that to raise a child we would need to have a more stable foundation of trust. The stress of raising a kid might just ignite any lingering issues.
The therapist noticed that we do have an unhealthy pseudo parent/child relationship — for example when we do finally meet up after a disagreement, I am basically the one who reaches out and tries to make her feel better, while she struggles to even make eye contact.
The unemployment came about within the last few weeks, so fairly fresh. It’s possible he planned to propose over the holidays & has held off because of the job loss.. but I just have a tough time believing he has a ring in hand. I am also not like diet/gym nut, but just conscious of my age & want to be healthy, etc for future kids (cue, very ~planner~ of me ha).
2 weeks after his layoff notice, I told him “how you handle this setback & take care of business will have the most impact on our relationship vs your income & next job location”. So I thought that was pretty clear without nagging him, which I also don’t want to do.. but maybe it wasn’t & another sit down specifically focused on the job hunt/expectations is needed. I don’t want to be his mom & unfortunately a ‘job talk’ seems like it falls in that category when it should be self-inspired.
Yeah she just said she doesn’t want togo Sunday and she’d prefer Friday without any reason. How am I the selfish one for wanting to keep plans I made weeks ago?
No I won’t stop equating them because it doesn’t matter what I’ve planned to do, the fact is I’ve got plans that have been made for weeks and my gf has known about
Apply for the school that is right for you. Reality is this relationship likely won't last and you'll regret not going to the school you want
You're making yourself stressed. By giving into her tantrums you're teaching her they work. Tell her straight up NO… I want to spend time with you but i cannot do this.
Accept she will be grumpy and don't give in.
I can understand missing your partner but if mine was super busy I'd compromise and go do stuff with him like his errands or watch him practice etc.
You want to be with this girl you have to stop giving in to her demands so she can learn to compromise and help relieve the stress you feel not add to it.
It doesn’t have to be your central unit. But it may be hers and you have to be honest about whether you can prioritise her priorities, and if she can prioritise yours.
There’s probably a compromise to be had here if you both want to be together for the long game.
If she already cheated and you don't trust her, and she's not willing to work on that trust, just end it cuz it's doomed anyway. Fair doesn't come into it.
Also, is he overweight by chance? My hubby had this issue for a while after he gained 20lbs. He wasn't obese or anything either and was otherwise healthy. No BP issues. He decided to lose weight for himself and after he lost 15 lbs his issue went away on its own.
I often find people aiutomatically take the side of the women on this subreddit, i've left out a lot of background context but it definitely became a one way street where I was all give and she was all take.
She'd love and expect me to answer all her phone calls and texts in timely manners but never reciprocated. The key is she never reciprocates now its not me trying to force her into a corner
Lol ? keep us updated on what happens lol not only she is a coworker she is also a married women. If you don’t see the disaster in this by all means go ahead and tell us what happens but I can bet ya you probably at some point will lose your job and have to move
You need to do something for yourself that you enjoy, some time for yourself, you can’t spend your whole life working for others. It’s not selfish, it’s good for your mental health.
Wise woman once told me the best revenge is to be successful: live your life happier without him. Of course it will take effort to get there though I did it. After break up with my ex, I got a wonderful partner who lifts me up, higher education, a decent job, house, dogs, etc., focus on your self for now and don’t look back.
I honestly would both be happy and sad if I didn’t have him in my life, he knows all my deepest darkest secrets, however there are moments within our relationship where I may say one wrong thing and I get belittled or called “stupid” not only from him, but his family as well. I would be heartbroken if he were to cheat on me, but I just don’t know for how long i would be. And honestly i never really thought about that for the “Snapchat boy” (honestly i also fell for his looks; which i hate having that as a reason.. but it’s true) and I had been thinking about telling the other one after we all graduated and went out separate ways for college about my feelings, but I feel that would be wrong. Thank you so much for the advice!
Great questions — I'm OK with her not having a job; her being in school or even volunteering would be fine instead, I just need to see her try.
I think that she has it in her to be an amazing Mom, but I don't really think that she is emotionally strong enough yet. I know that to raise a child we would need to have a more stable foundation of trust. The stress of raising a kid might just ignite any lingering issues.
The therapist noticed that we do have an unhealthy pseudo parent/child relationship — for example when we do finally meet up after a disagreement, I am basically the one who reaches out and tries to make her feel better, while she struggles to even make eye contact.
The unemployment came about within the last few weeks, so fairly fresh. It’s possible he planned to propose over the holidays & has held off because of the job loss.. but I just have a tough time believing he has a ring in hand. I am also not like diet/gym nut, but just conscious of my age & want to be healthy, etc for future kids (cue, very ~planner~ of me ha).
2 weeks after his layoff notice, I told him “how you handle this setback & take care of business will have the most impact on our relationship vs your income & next job location”. So I thought that was pretty clear without nagging him, which I also don’t want to do.. but maybe it wasn’t & another sit down specifically focused on the job hunt/expectations is needed. I don’t want to be his mom & unfortunately a ‘job talk’ seems like it falls in that category when it should be self-inspired.
Yeah she just said she doesn’t want togo Sunday and she’d prefer Friday without any reason. How am I the selfish one for wanting to keep plans I made weeks ago?
No I won’t stop equating them because it doesn’t matter what I’ve planned to do, the fact is I’ve got plans that have been made for weeks and my gf has known about
Apply for the school that is right for you. Reality is this relationship likely won't last and you'll regret not going to the school you want
You're making yourself stressed. By giving into her tantrums you're teaching her they work. Tell her straight up NO… I want to spend time with you but i cannot do this.
Accept she will be grumpy and don't give in.
I can understand missing your partner but if mine was super busy I'd compromise and go do stuff with him like his errands or watch him practice etc.
You want to be with this girl you have to stop giving in to her demands so she can learn to compromise and help relieve the stress you feel not add to it.
I’m not saying he sexually assaulted her I’m saying he knows more than he’s letting on and he’s a piece of shit over all.
The odds they both drank to memory loss is low.
It doesn’t have to be your central unit. But it may be hers and you have to be honest about whether you can prioritise her priorities, and if she can prioritise yours.
There’s probably a compromise to be had here if you both want to be together for the long game.
If she already cheated and you don't trust her, and she's not willing to work on that trust, just end it cuz it's doomed anyway. Fair doesn't come into it.
There's no normal relationships. What everyone else does has nothing to do with what is best for you…and for him.
Ooohhh people do invite others just for presents. Sorry to burs your bubble
He needs to see a doc.
Also, is he overweight by chance? My hubby had this issue for a while after he gained 20lbs. He wasn't obese or anything either and was otherwise healthy. No BP issues. He decided to lose weight for himself and after he lost 15 lbs his issue went away on its own.
Wtf happened that you two sisters are this broken?
I often find people aiutomatically take the side of the women on this subreddit, i've left out a lot of background context but it definitely became a one way street where I was all give and she was all take.
She'd love and expect me to answer all her phone calls and texts in timely manners but never reciprocated. The key is she never reciprocates now its not me trying to force her into a corner
Sounds like neither of you should be in this relationship anymore.
Confront them all publicly and loudly.
Don't let them hide behind whispers and gossip. Force them to explain in detail their exact issues with you being married to an older woman.
I disagree that I'm incredibly shallow. I just have preferences, like anyone. And we are sexually incompatible.
I agree that there is nothing wrong with her body.
I disagree that I am the problem. Sometimes there is not a bad guy and a good guy. Sometimes people are not made for each other.
Finally, some or many women who are not pornstars have the labia inside. Your information is incorrect.
Lol ? keep us updated on what happens lol not only she is a coworker she is also a married women. If you don’t see the disaster in this by all means go ahead and tell us what happens but I can bet ya you probably at some point will lose your job and have to move
He is a teacher and it makes him uncomfortable; it's in the other post
You need to do something for yourself that you enjoy, some time for yourself, you can’t spend your whole life working for others. It’s not selfish, it’s good for your mental health.
Wise woman once told me the best revenge is to be successful: live your life happier without him. Of course it will take effort to get there though I did it. After break up with my ex, I got a wonderful partner who lifts me up, higher education, a decent job, house, dogs, etc., focus on your self for now and don’t look back.