You were just sex to him, what would he be coming with you to the appointment for? Get that money, abortion, and move on. Please on-line and learn Hun.
Your girlfriend needs therapy for her insecurities. Either that or you better end things now because she is unlikely to overcome that urge to snoop and reassure herself. She has severe trust issues and they won't let her respect your boundaries.
It's not a dumb problem at all. It's a legitimate problem. You're not in a throuple, in fact, you're not even in a couple as it stands. She's made her choice and it isn't you.
The steps were at her workplace 1km away. She can’t be in both places using her watch and her phone. So either the watch was being worn by a colleague, or the phone was at the house without her… or the phone was wrong.
I didn't mean it that way. I've had a boyfriend who was the most emphatetic person I know… I just want this to work out. It's hot for me to fall for someone…
“Aside from ex comments, she’s an actual sweetheart”
Or she just acts like enough of a sweetheart to have you keep paying for everything. And regarding her ex, she’s either not at all over him or she’s using him to steadily neg you and erode your self esteem (so you’re less likely to have the confidence to leave and can continue paying for everything).
Why don’t you try an experiment: say moving forward that you expect her to contribute fairly to date nights and other expenses and see if she’s still a sweetheart?
You can have kids and be single….
You were just sex to him, what would he be coming with you to the appointment for? Get that money, abortion, and move on. Please on-line and learn Hun.
Your girlfriend needs therapy for her insecurities. Either that or you better end things now because she is unlikely to overcome that urge to snoop and reassure herself. She has severe trust issues and they won't let her respect your boundaries.
Huh. It seems OP is being willfully ignorant. She knows better than to put that info in the post but mentions it in a comment like it's nothing lol
He’s not married, his ex is seeing someone new too who I know through mutuals. But I really appreciate your comments and I think you’re right
Your therapist is unprofessional, period. Get a new one and bring this up.
You can go for coffee if you want, but I wouldn't consider it a “date” without clearer communication from her.
And know if you do try to date her that she will likely still be violating her code of ethics by doing so
It's not a dumb problem at all. It's a legitimate problem. You're not in a throuple, in fact, you're not even in a couple as it stands. She's made her choice and it isn't you.
If I were you, I'd drive down the street with a megaphone screaming it out to everyone.
I haven’t even finished reading but if this is how she is why the fuck are you with this person?
All of the above. Very sorry, OP
Bro go away
Multiple comments. Here is one.
“He’s not pushing it but I feel like he does so much for me why would I not give him the one thing he desires!”
You do know that “alternative” isn’t a subculture right?
The steps were at her workplace 1km away. She can’t be in both places using her watch and her phone. So either the watch was being worn by a colleague, or the phone was at the house without her… or the phone was wrong.
I didn't mean it that way. I've had a boyfriend who was the most emphatetic person I know… I just want this to work out. It's hot for me to fall for someone…
Sounds like you’re just pen pals?
You can be or not be friends with who you want. Ask your friend's ex to see if you should stay friends for a different perspective.
“Aside from ex comments, she’s an actual sweetheart”
Or she just acts like enough of a sweetheart to have you keep paying for everything. And regarding her ex, she’s either not at all over him or she’s using him to steadily neg you and erode your self esteem (so you’re less likely to have the confidence to leave and can continue paying for everything).
Why don’t you try an experiment: say moving forward that you expect her to contribute fairly to date nights and other expenses and see if she’s still a sweetheart?
No, he's trying to coerce her into letting him move in
That was BIZARRE..I just cant picture this kind of scenario. Your father is NOT OK
Why are you looking for excuses not to live together like you’ve been doing for the last 2 years apparently?