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Tylor, Liam and Jordan, y.o.
Location: Medell, ín- Colombia
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Date: November 5, 2022
She’s since made comments of self harm if I were to leave her.
So, thats abuse. Even if she meant it, its still abuse to use that as a threat to keep you around. Her emotions arent yours to deal with. Obviously dont be unnecessarily cruel, but just break up with her. If you're sincerely worried about her harming herself, contact her roommate/friends/family. You could even ask the police to do a wellness check (if thats a thing in your area). I do think doing it while the roommate is home is a good idea, but I think over the phone is probably a good idea in this case bc of how things went last time.
Ummm therapy?
Exactly!
(I cant walk up stairs without getting winded, chest pain, etc)
You should probably go take a Covid test my dude.
Before I start playing she asks for food, and the timing is unbelievably convenient.
She's old enough to be able to make her own meals, even if it's just reheating something.
She brings up some task or important thing that we need to do (that I have reminded her we need to do countless times) that she has pushed off until conveniently now.
“I tried to remind you about that last __ but you didn't want to because __. If you think It's that important now, you're welcome to handle it yourself, or you can wait until I'm done in (time).”
She wants to show me 5-6 tik toks in a row, regardless of what I am doing in the game, if I am directly in the middle of something she will expect me to stop and watch all of them.
“I will watch them with you when I get to a good stopping point.”
She will ask me in the middle of playing to go get her something to drink or to snack on, which she doesn’t do herself, rarely if ever does she go grab what she wants personally.
“There's __ on the counter, the bowls are in the cabinet. Feel free to fix yourself some.”
For me personally, it is anything that she can bring up that will make me spend even more time with her, rather than allowing me to decompress.
“I understand that you want to spend even more time together, but I need time to decompress. Why don't you go find something to do for yourself so you can tell me all about it after I'm done with my game?”
NGL bud, your wife sounds like an excessively clingy toddler, not a grown adult.
The irony was completely lost on Daniella. That Facebook group needs to be closed down, as you know it would be if it was a male group.
70% of the time ( statistics that feel right but are pulled out of my butt) We dont know we are offending someone, and don't mean it. I am a little more hopeful than you are.
Stay broken up
You do realize that “he views food as an expression of love” is a manipulation, right? He is saying this as a way to guilt you (“if you really loved me you would make dinner”) and to make it so that you have to cook dinner to show that you love him. If he really believed this, it should be absolutely no problem for him to cook dinner about half of the time, as a way for him to express his love to you. And if it’s so easy and doesn’t take much time, why can’t he pitch in?
Does he do any of the other household chores? Because he should- if both people work full time, both pitch in equally with doing the cleaning, laundry, cooking, shopping, outside work, etc.
I would tell him what days you will cooking for the week, make a plan, and stick to it. He will either step up, or not eat. I would make sure to get yourself something for just you on those nights.
You’ve only lived together 2 months. If this is what he is like now, he has a bit of time to grow up and step up. If he doesn’t, I would not stay with a man-child who I would have to treat like I’m his mommy for the rest of my life.
Fair is good … but fair doesn't necessarily mean the exact same thing for everybody.
E.g. maybe your boyfriend hates to cook, but doesn't mind doing the dishes.
Maybe you hate doing the dishes, but you don't mind cooking.
So, what do you think would be better, each of you cooks half the time and does the dishes half the time, or (mostly) you cook, and he does the dishes?
Anyway, try working out a trade/bargain/exchange system for chores and such … rather than presuming everybody likes/dislikes them evenly (or is even competent at them … you might cook something delicious, you might not be able to stand eating his cooking, he might be able to fix the toilet and plumbing well with ease, you might hate doing that and end up breaking it more than it was broken when you started … or can flip that stuff around – dear knows who's better at what and/or prefers/dislikes doin' what more. Basically don't presume to much, don't “order” or “demand” … communicate, bargain, negotiate.
Anyway, I'll cook, if you (or someone else) will do the dishes. 😉
want is for him to be responsible for 1-3 meals per week
What about breakfast, or trading/negotiating other things … vacuuming, sweeping, laundry, paying bills, doing the taxes, doing the dishes, cleaning the rain gutters, washing the windows, doing the grocery shopping, changing the oil in the car(s), washing the car(s), mopping the floors, cleaning the toilet(s)/bathroom(s), doing the yard work – gardening – mowing the lawn, taking out the trash/recycling, …
Why don’t you just ask him out for coffee? Four years sounds exhausting, don’t waste more of your time. The worst he can say is no, and then you are free to move on knowing it’s not going to happen. The best he can say is yes and then you can explore if there is anything there. No wonder your friends are tired of hearing about it, if I had to listen to the same thing for four years with no progress I’d walk in and make her ask him out. Take matters into your own hands instead of wishing for it to happen.
Top tier shit post OP. Hope this one got your rocks off