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Tyler, 99 y.o.
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Date: October 30, 2022
I have a feeling you going to update us to say she never was pregnant and just was bluffing to let you stay.
Make sure she is really pregnant and go from there. Don't stay with someone you don't love. She sounds very abusive and controlling. Do you really want a child with someone like that. Imagine the child future and yourself.
We are living together since 2016.
That's a lifetime in dog years! ?
It's a pretty long time in “relationship years,” too…
Recently, after my 26th birthday, how I think about us and the future has brought an immense difference in how I see our relationship.
I'll bet!
You're not college kids any more. You are adults now, and have to think about future possibilities like careers, marriage and children.
“Where do you see yourself!?”.
A better question would have been: “Where do you see us?”
First thing he said was to Give him 2 months to think about everything.
TWO MONTHS?!?!?!?
Are you kidding me???
He's had seven years to think about things!
Or was he too busy with those video games to think about important things, like you, and his life?
No.
His answer tells me he's been drifting along all this time in his own world, with no real regard for anything outside his own needs and comforts.
I'd want to know what he thinks RIGHT NOW.
I want to start to have a life!
Then he needs to start growing up.
Remember what I said earlier about you both growing up and becoming adults?
I'm changing it to “you both got older, but only one of you became an adult.”
He said, “ He wants to do whatever he wants to do”!! I think he think im mothering him!
No points for guessing which of you got left behind in “The Maturity Game.”
I am just questioning everything and the past years of my commitment for us!
As well you should!
It's looking like a very questionable investment of time and effort. I'm sure this relationship had its moments over the years, but the long-term outlook isn't looking very good right now.
He has given you absolutely no reason to have confidence in a stable future of the type you probably want. Further, he has shown that he thinks only of himself, and does not even consider you when making decisions (like those cats!).
This does not bode well long-term for your lives together.
if I have to go all the way over to otherside for love, is it worth it?
No, because you will end up unhappy, resenting him and feeling trapped.
Which means even longer and more agonized messages here. ?
No, better to kick him in the butt so that he “straightens up and flies right,” or, if that doesn't look like it's going to happen, dump him and find someone who is willing to wear the “big boy pants.”
Chalk up this relationship to being a “practice run” at life. It sustained you through your young adulthood, but you (singular, not including him) have outgrown it; it is now actually holding you back.
Personally, I think he's too far gone to be salvaged, but asking you to dump him without giving him a chance isn't fair, and probably is asking too much.
Instead of two months, tell him this today: you're thinking of ending this relationship real soon unless things change radically. Specifically, a plan must be made for your future. Are you getting married? When? Having children? When? Buying a house? Other major expenses?
I'd say give him a week to get his thoughts together, then sit down and have a no-bullshit conversation with him where you tackle these and other questions.
And if he balks, or is half-assed in going about this…
*** BAM **\*
That's the sound of your foot impacting his ass.
Or it's the door slamming shut behind you as you leave for good.
Behaviour is modelled and learned. You seem to be making an emotional argument rather than a rational one. Lots of people do to this idea.
Yo thank you for this comment. This one spoke to me and put some of my past in perspective.
So we're clear, you didn't notice student loan payments coming out for TWO years? I would be upset too. That's a serious oversight and that level of irresponsibility would absolutely be a deal breaker for me.
Nope, let him suffer!! He deserves never to be forgiven!! He still isn't accepting blame and blames your mom for his actions!!
Mark it as spam and live your life!