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Date: October 25, 2022
Well, THAT would have been nice to know BEFORE y'all got married! Smh ?
These children seem to all be from his youth (donno how old he is but 15/16 is a while ago). People make stupid decisions when they are young and invincible. Not using a condom could easily be one when the effect that has creating a life isn’t “real” to a young person.
He is trying to do the right thing now and do the best he can to fix what his younger stupid self did. If he didn’t do this, would be be the man you love today?
What makes you believe, she’s doing it to get male validation? And “it shows she still hasn’t changed”, why the fuck would/should she change? He knew who he was dating, so either love her like she is, or gtfo. You both sound dumb and insecure as hell lol
I totally get why that sucks, but what alternative is there? Abandon children to poverty with single mothers? Encourage men to run at the first sight of a positive test by the goverment supporting the child? You stated men should have the option not to be fathers, and they have that option. But they still are responsible for at least some of the cost of that child.
Thank you very much ?truly!!
I don’t blame you for feeling angry.
Neither that co worker or your gf did a damn thing to put any temptation in check when it all first started. In life, there is always going to be unexpected temptations, loyal faithful people learn how to spot the signs and immediately stomp it out. These two clowns went ahead and took to complaining to each other about you and his wife, escalated to texting off work hours and personal, to allowing this to develop full bloom. And now their ingenious plan was to confess this to you and his wife because they have some kind of romanticized ideology that it will better their relationship with spouse and bf? Life is not that simple and that’s almost as stupid as folks who think opening the relationship or taking breaks will fix things.
Yeah, I am sure you and his wife feel sooo much better and stronger in your relationships now that these two clown shoes came forward and shared just how much they really suck at maintaining boundaries and stave off temptation. This is the huge concern right here really. What about the next temptation, and the one after that that comes her way?
If there is even a little chance of fixing this,she or he will need a new place to work. She will need to learn not only how to set boundaries, and not allow anyone to to cross lines with her, but how to spot temptation and squash it, as well as not putting herself in situations like this. I am not sure you could ever be confident that she can do that.
I can't imagine it either. My family is very non-violent. Even experiencing yelling between my ex's family was very traumatic for me.
However, my point is… if I told someone to back off and they got closer, I would feel threatened and they would seem to be aggressive from my perspective.
She says she isn't doing it? You have nothing to hide? Change your password to something like “Snoop-y” or “not looking” and call her on it when she gets mad trying to look, then blows up her own shadiness when she tries casually asking what happened and you give her the “oh, right, I changed it to THIS…” … because she will definitely act like you're the one being shady.
Im also put off by how the gf feels “burdened” by OPs supposed sex drive.
I would never even share my location with a partner. He’s literally tracking you, that would make me so anxious
OP has more red flags than Rockefeller Center at Christmas and he's so happy pussy chose him, he chucked his brain out the window.
It's true more often than not. It is what it is.
I pointed out that in fact, I should be the one correcting him since English is from England. Sorry, no. Politely telling OP to shove her colonialism where the sun doesn’t shine is not xenophobic.
I would recommend finding a hobby together or even just reading the same book/ listening to podcast ect. There are also a number of things you can by that are topical questions that are amazing for starting conversation and you will both definitely learn something new about each other.
This always happens in age gap.relationships…the girl only opens her eyes after several years..
No, he never thought he would have kids. He didn't believe me when I told him and made me take a test right then and there (I only had a picture of the test that I showed him) he was excited about the pregnancy but he wanted a boy. He's into sports and soccer so he wanted a boy to do that with. He said he can still do that with our daughter but it wasn't his first choice
It’s only the “me not getting over it” that’s standing in the way of us just moving on. I admit that we’ve had communication issues in the past, this being one of them, so we’re definitely working on that. But then there’s me and my feelings that cause us to have misunderstandings and fights. So yeah it does feel like i’m the problem. So even though I have come to realise they are completely valid, they have to go! I just don’t know how…
That’s not reasonable to assume it’s ok for you to cancel a trip hundreds of miles away. Plans are already made to go. It would be incredibly selfish and inconsiderate of husband to stay home and let the kid go to the birthday party. That’ll teach her to put one parent against the other if they disagree in front of her. This is absolutely awful advice.
This! Jesus fucking hell! Im not even gonna get into this excusing his shit. Hes a POS.
It's rape! He raped u! And he will do it again. Any man that would see ur hurt, physically hurt u! And see u cry! While forcing himself on u does NOT LOVE U!
HE DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT AND HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO THIS AGAIN AND AGAIN OP!
Listen to everyone here. I'm sorry this happened to u but u fucking can't make excuses for this guy and say u want to stay in a relationship with him. dk if it's easy for u to stay in denial about what happened as a coping mechanism to justify it. But u cannot justify this at all!
HE IS A RAPIST! LEAVE!
me tryna brush the dirt off of my phone screen when I réalisé it's just some acute accents
Yeah you can’t unring a bell. Once he suggested it, it’s out there and you can’t take it back.
As for your last sentence or two, allowing him to open it on his end…. You’d be setting yourself on fire to keep him warm. Benefits him and hurts you. That’s not how a relationship is supposed to be.
Even talking about it isn’t gonna change anything, he’s gonna be thinking about what she said all the time when their having sex or afterwards.
Buys me something without expecting me to pay him back right away – that’s why I mean. And yes, we pay 50/50 for groceries. One day I’ll go to the store and pay and next day he’ll go.
You have to just get over it. There is nothing to do but do your best to get over it. Don't ask him questions about it, when you think about it tell yourself “he was single, it was before he met me, he is with me now.”
It is your own insecurity that is the issue here. Are you able to access therapy?
I agree with this 100%. I didn't mean to make it sound like a him problem but I'm trying to find ways to make it easier too without continuing to hurt the relationship.
You cant fix your sperm count, but obviously there are other options for conceiving a baby or adopting. Personally I wouldn't find it a dealbreaker for my child to not share my DNA. Hopefully your wife feels the same.
Felt like OP should know she isn't an asshole for how she's feeling
Perfect
Yes …..tell him suck your tits or you can’t be friends anymore
Because the child doesn’t have to do with the person. I kept it for me, then i told him and he wanted to be involved and proposed giving it a try. So I thought why not, we could try. But yeah the way he is acting is abnormal to me, so i try to understand if i am too much