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Date: October 23, 2022
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I don’t have to read any of your post to stay have a spine and forget this girl, no cheater or someone who doesn’t respect you is worth it.
I could forgive. I would never forget, nor would I put myself in a position to be betrayed as deeply by that person again.
OP, dry your tears, get money, and CUT THEM ALL OFF! Fuck those people, they are not your family. They just want have a twisted need to be holier than you so they make up all these excuses. GET MONEY, GET SUCCESSFUL AND CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
I clean, do dishes she occasionally cooks but it’s rare. I manage bills we half everything she sends me her half I pay everything, I have to remind her what to pay me. I wash and fold the laundry when she could easily help me.
A nightmare because “(crazy story) totally happened! Trust me with zero evidence” won’t fly?
There is ZERO excuse OP’s boyfriend could have that wouldn’t have tangible evidence. He got fucked up with his friends and blew her off. I know it, you know it, everyone knows it.
What are your expectations about this friendship?
You seem to be on denial about the fact that he is not that into you. You seem to expect a type of relationship from him as in a romantic partner. You made it known 4 or 5 years ago you had a crush on him, he rejected you and it seems you never got over it.
He is in a long term relationship with A, and there is not a thing as you having dibs on him because of a crush or anything. They just decided to start a relationship between them and that as nothing to do with you or your previous crush on him. He never gave you even an hint that he was romantically interested in you and you should accept that.
You seem to be way too needy and clingy of him and he seems to not have a clear idea about how to deal with it. It also seems you are constantly trying to stir up drama between the three of you. He is not your partner and never was, you seem to think he is, and you keep stalking him, even after he tried multiple times to create a bigger distance berween you to. He seems to have no idea how to handle you or how to handle the expectations you have off him.
For your personal mental health, maybe it would be good to separate from A and V for some time as you say you intend to. And in my opinion you should had done that years ago when you seem to not be able to cope with the fact that you were rejected by him and that he and your friend have a relationship. Use that time to work on your self and your self confidence. Your mental health should not be hanging up by a thread because of a platonic relationship with a previous crush.
I don’t think this is that bad. You both have had a terrible year. There was no cheating, you both probably just needed it. I absolutely wouldn’t be messaging her and telling her it’s a mistake. Sorry for your loss and good luck!
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More likely because if you don't trust your partner enough that you feel the need to secretly track them then just leave because a relationship is built on trust and if you don't have that then why bother
Yes you should break up, there’s no need for you to dm me to ask that lol
Well who to share with if not brothers? Sharing is caring
Other people at the table are footing their own bill.
stab him with a fork ffs. I hate him. I'm sorry. Nothing constructive to add besides I'd be pissed if my partner did that bullshit with me. Bad enough he doesn't care about your relationship with anyone in the group.
OP don’t listen to this, women don’t dress like they’re going out when they’re staying in and drinking wine with their friends. There’s 100% an underlying drive for external validation whether they want to admit it or not.
It’s also perfectly fine to have an issue with your girlfriend dressing like this, she’s in every right to dress how she wants to, and you’re in every right to have your own standards and boundaries in a relationship. It’s not insecurity as much as people in the comments will gaslight you into believing.
Trust your gut. If his family is so toxic, why does he meet them every fortnight? This is actually quite a lot. Where are his friends? He could be spinning lies about having to travel for work on holidays to everyone else in his life and spending it with you. There's a reason he's keeping you separate. If it's because they're truly terrible people, he needs to be open about why.
I fell in love with someone who told me they loved me and spent half the week at my house. He didn't introduce me to anyone in his life and I didn't push, despite him meeting all my people and attending an important family wedding with me. I figured it would happen when he was ready. After 6 months, I caught him in a lie, pulled the string and everything came unravelled. He was living a double life and was still involved with his “ex” wife. Despite what I thought, I didn't know him at all. I felt like a complete idiot. Turns out he was a skilled manipulator, extremely comfortable lying. I sincerely hope your situation is different. Either way, you really need to ask yourself if you want to be with someone that can't be open with you.
Sounds like a heaping bowl of none of your business.
i already apologized for my wrong doings and admitted i was wrong. i am committed to changing but they just keep on slandering me. don't you think it's a little to much?
This comes across as well thought out advice. Issuing an ultimatum should definitely only be something that's used as a last resort.
I hope OP has meaningful communication and doesn't let this get rug sweeped or steamrolled.
Sounds like you guys both have serious issues you need to work on. I’d hold off on getting married, it might not be the right choice in the long run, divorce is messy and expensive.
You are doing yourself and her a disservice by not having an open conversation about your discomfort and her expectations. It’s better to pull the bandaid now than to continue investing and avoiding the conversation.
Either she won’t be comfortable waiting (in which case she’s not a great match for your needs anyway), or she is and you need to figure out how to figure out what exactly you need, or if there is some trauma there for you to address (and not make her issue).
So you submit yourself to a lifetime of unhappiness or eventual divorce because you married a doormat?
You can. Take control of your life. No one else will.
That's honestly just disgusting, that he wants sex to be some unpleasant chore you only subject yourself to for his pleasure. I'm making extremely negative assumptions about his bedroom prowess and side-eyeing him very very hot.
I can’t even imagine wanting to be friends with my exes gf. I know u were kinda friends b4 but…wtf kind of sister wives is going on here!? I’m guessing she was friends with u at first, to keep up with what was going on between u and her bf. But once they broke up, she was trying to let u down easy but u were not getting the hint. Ask urself, Y would she want to be friends with her exes new gf!? So u could talk about him all the time!? And hear about whatever is going with u two!? When I break up with someone I need them to go the fuck away!! At least for awhile!! So I think u should really leave her alone.