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This is just an experience both of you still have battles ahead
Trying to I just wish there was a way to see this before I’m invested in the relationship. If that makes sense, love blindsides you and I wish there was a way to breach that and see who they really are.
Has he made attempts to seek out therapy or other ways to help his depression?
It wasn't one time, more like 16 times and likely at least twice this year.
Textbook narcissist, he's trying to tear you down. You need to get away from him ASAP and PERMANENTLY block him from everything………like yesterday.
I should add that since ive met her she seems to try and out-do me. We brought a house, she moved them into their parents owned house and claimed to everyone they brought the house, they are now living with the parents in a rental. I mentioned we are trying for a baby to start our family, they fall preg and claim it was an accident even tho she had mentioned to me “i really want a baby to your brother”. When we hang out, i show a little affection to my partner, she instantly goes over the top with my brother….
Shes now sniffing around trying suss out if im gonna ask her to be a bridemaid….
Classic rule, if they’ll cheat with you they’ll cheat on you. You should’ve seen this coming from a mile away. There is no fixing this or dealing with insecurity you chose to double down on a guy you know has the capacity to lie, cheat, and manipulate so that’s who you’re stuck with
If he cared about ‘corn type’ bodies that much he would be with one of those women. He is not, he is with you, so he must like what he sees.
If you don't tell him, you never get financial support and your child never gets to know their biological father. The support may not be a factor but the father thing might be. I would tell him if just for the fact a father should know. Also, it wasn't like he was cheating with you, right ?
Read everybody's post, they said everything that needed to be said.
Don't let chaos and drama into your life.
You're a goddamn idiot.
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Why can't he open another bank account for his money?
This is so easy to solve and I would be getting really fed up in your position.
Tell him that he needs to sort this out now or you are going to have a rethink about this relationship bc this is not how you want to live!.
Lol, currently on the sofa. Mad, but staying calm.
If he was concerned about it being inappropriate, why did he still gift them? Your husband is just faking innocence, this is such weird behavior.
like an hour away. I go to his house every weekend and I am able to work in his area soon
“Sorry my dogs walkers sisters Bestfriend is really important to me and I can’t imagine putting you above her”
Seems she'd rather delete the post than to get her head out of the sand
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Some people cry when they realize they have done something wrong. Not to manipulate, but because they feel bad about having upset someone or caused harm.
And you said she cries about “stories that are even remotely sad”, so again, why would you expect a different response when she is informed that she has caused harm or made someone upset? She's correct that you've decided her crying is only manipulative when you're mad at her. You've said as much right here.
Idk. Maybe because she perceives you are an unadaptive self centered and foolishly overly confident sort?
She sounds highly empathetic. You may wish to research.
With flashing lights and waiving arms.?jfc
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No one wants to be the “bad guy” here and speak some simple truths. This other person hurt you, why would you want to be friends with them? Be honest and tell them how you feel and what you want. People feelings are going to be hurt but that was inevitable in this situation.
Good luck.
“I'm so jealous HER MOM DIED”
OP, no. What needs to happen is that she needs to get her hormones checked and she either needs to have her dosage of anti-depressants raised or she needs to change to a different anti-depressant because this 100% sounds like a mental health problem. Hysterectomies cause a massive shift in hormones and it's essentially menopause. Trust me, it's rough. This is a huge change for her and her body, and it seems like all of this has resulted in her becoming depressed which has caused her to have a complete lack of interest in certain things as well as a lack of motivation
Personally, I have chronic depression that occasionally dips into major depression. One of the most prevailing symptoms for me is a lack of motivation to do absolutely anything that isn't just sitting on my phone or playing games. My bedroom is a mess, and while I have attempted to clean it, it ends up being so nude and draining for me because my depression already makes me lack energy and drive. Hell, sometimes I genuinely won't get up to eat or groom myself because I just don't have the energy. The second most prevailing symptom is sleeping too much. Not so much anymore, but with my depression, I used to sleep constantly, and I mean constantly. I would wake up, and I would already be tired. I'd be up for a short period of time, and then I'd just nap the day away because I genuinely could not get myself up. Depression is a real problem, and it causes major issues with energy levels and motivation.
That doesn't mean people that can't do things because of it are lazy tho. It means that they need help. Laziness is when someone has the energy, drive, and mindset to do something, but they don't because they're unwilling. People with depression do not have the energy or motivation, and often times they KNOW that they should be doing something, but they physically cannot. Your wife needs professional help.
Honestly, I'd also look into her seeking therapy/you two having couples therapy. Your valid for feeling burnt out and even frustrated that you have to do everything. That's all valid, but please don't feel like your wife is just lazy and just chooses to be this way. That definitely doesn't sound like the case, and I think with more help, this can be resolved
Is it possible that you're jealous of his relationship with his mother that she's there to support him? Your mom seems to be lacking on that
I swear the trolls are out heavy ever since the new year hit
Yes in case he was groomed in the event that the sexual relationship began before he turned 18 since OP was dating him for two years.
To be fair, I knew she was lewd before we got together but I thought it might slow down in a relationship.
So you knew what she was like and hoped she'd change? Dangerous assumption/hope.
When I’ve brought things up she says things along the lines of “I didn’t know that would bother you”. And then stops for a while but something similar occurs after a while.
Well that's far from unexpected it seems.
This girl seems to literally use sexuality as a part of her personality – it's all about the sexy. If you're expecting this to change, well you've raised with her about it and it keeps happening.
Sit down, have a very honest conversation about how it makes you feel and ask her if she can consistently tone it down going forward or if this is something that is part of “her being her” that won't change. Her being honest and your acceptance of the answer matters.
If you can't handle it and she doesn't want to change? She doesn't need to, you and her are not going to have a future together, plain and simple.
She’s beyond mean dude.She is a king-kamehameha cunt.
I’d still be friends with him
It's really not. You said it yourself, most parents priority would be their kids. Not the next branch.
It's really not. You said it yourself, most parents priority would be their kids, not moving them to the next branch.
Sorry, my friend. Shit happens. It’s shit but it still happens. Don’t try to make sense of it. You will only drive yourself crazy. She’s not your girlfriend anymore. Use the time she’s off on her fucking fun ride and separate all of your shit from hers, block her everywhere and go nude NC. Don’t see her. Don’t talk to her. Tell your friends not to talk to you about her. Do not backslide. You will want to talk to her so badly that it will feel like torture. Don’t give in. DO NOT GIVE IN.
You could just… talk to them about it? They seem to want to do everything correctly and dont know how careful they have to be. Just use words
my last name is a nude one to work with
The kid could take on your fiancée's last name.
Her grandma was a very kind-hearted person and usually I'd say of course, but her grandma literally said on her deathbed that she does not want any child named after her.
What about using a name that is related to the name?
My wife didnt deny but she is adamant it was just 2 drunken hookups and when she realized what she had done she was very ashamed and cut the guy off from her life and severely curtailed her drinking too.
Life lesson – if they say it was 2 drunken hookups, the truth is it was 5.
when she realized what she had done
Did she realize it after cumming on his dick?
I would really like some advise on how to deal with this.
If it were me, I would be divorcing her fast. Even if it were just 2 hookups, it takes a lot of steps to say no, think “I respect OP too much and I don't want to lose him”, then stop oneself from cheating. Instead she said, “fuck it I'm horny, he'll never know anyway”, and then went on to fuck another dude. Pretty selfish. Also, she was sober when they saw each other in the class and flirted.
This was pure premeditation, my friend.
No she wouldn't because she would have to deal with custody arrangements. She wouldn't be able to tell him to cut his dad off if his dad has custody rights over him. She waited for him to become adult to finally bring out the ultimatum.
I am open to understanding anyones stance on the mom because she did abandon her son, but I also believe that she's going through something traumatic and doesn't know what to do.
However, I HEAVILY disagree with you saying that the father didn't cheat on OP, because he did. When you're married with kids, an affair never only effects the other partner. It effects the entire family. The father chose to put another woman over the well being of his wife and son. All the extra time spent with the AP? That could've gone to OP and his mom. Any money spent on the AP? Should've went to his family. Every single thing the dad did with the AP took away time, money, and emotional care that he should've spent on his son and wife.
The dad cheated on his wife, son, and his family. He honestly cheated on himself too by not choosing to just divorce and instead he allowed himself to turn into a horrible person.
I'm so sorry that she did thing like push sex on you, emotionally manipulate you in order to make you take her back. I hope you're able to get help after all this, be it from a therapist etc, because this is quite the mind fuck you've been through and healing from it with some help is gonna be a big benefit to yourself long term. I'm proud of you for leaving this person, I know it's nude to come to terms with something like this (and, over the Internet no less). Getting your head round knowing her as one thing, but seeing she's also another person, is hot. And then knowing you have to leave her, even though the 'her' you know isn't the 'bad' one is a very mature decision. I wish you the best of luck, look back here in this thread if you ever feel yourself faltering, or if you feel her influence pulling you back
If the law was so simple you could just Google the gov website, we wouldn’t need lawyers…
You also have to take into account other laws that overlap etc
And well as historic precedents etc
All of which is used in the decision making process.
Absolutely none of us here, have a license to practise law in the UK, or are criminal law Barristers… so no one should be talking in absolutes, or saying “I think it’ll be ok” because you’re giving him advice/ an opinion, and it’s unwarranted in this situation.
In reality, almost every legal question is answered with “it depends” because the law is intentionally so confusing and contradictory and convoluted that someone like OP can’t just turn up to court and represent himself and win etc
So absolutely, it could be argued as self defence. But it could absolutely be argued in the other instance, especially if he blacked out and so wasn’t reasonable because he kept going after the danger had ceased.
I’ll give an easy example
I think we’d all agree it’s reasonable that if you broke into my kitchen with a machete while I was cooking dinner, and I hit you with a frying pan and knocked you out, then that’s fair enough.
But… if I went into a black out rage and kept hitting you… well I’m not longer defending myself… I’m just attacking you…
And that’s no longer deemed “reasonable” to most people
Likewise, I think it’s absolutely reasonable to think that, if one guy ran away, this guy probably wants to as well.
Which means you and your gf aren’t in danger…
So you’re not defending yourself or her from danger….
This is not my opinion…
I’m just highlight a way in which a lawyer could play it out so that it sounds less like self defence
if my husband has friends over, i just stay in the game room or bedroom and do my own thing. why is that not an option? what kind of “quiet” does she want? who is ever “quiet” with their friends over?
What are the fights about?
if my husband has friends over, i just stay in the game room or bedroom and do my own thing. why is that not an option? what kind of “quiet” does she want? who is ever “quiet” with their friends over?
OP is probably from “Love conquers all” brigade.
She sees it differently because it's woman and not a man, but I made it clear gender does not matter.
By saying that it’s not cheating because it’s a woman, she is marginalizing same sex relationships and she’s trying to minimizing the severity of her actions. She’s also likely saying this to avoid taking responsibility of her actions and the consequences that are soon to follow.
He is literally the definition of a druggie.
And by bringing a child into such a dangerous situation, you’re also the textbook definition of a trash mom.
I think it's fairly repetitive. Pay is usually pretty decent and hours are good
If you feel that, at 29, you are easier to control and be manipulated by someone in their mid thirties, you probably aren’t ready for a relationship. A relationship needs to be based on mutual respect and certain commonalities, and if you feel you’re too immature, then I would leave and work on yourself before finding someone else.
All good. She currently has a FWB. I don't think it's a good idea either. My being okay with it is a product of my commitment to this relationship, which makes the situation difficult.
Checks subreddits name r/relationship_advice
Where is the advice in your comment? What is it meant to do other than try be a “gotcha op! You're a fucking hypocrite” attempt? Sure, he may have behaved like you're assuming he would have but what is the point bringing up hypotheticals here? If he is a hypocrite, he's just going to ignore you since they don't like their BS exposed to them, if he's not, then your negative bias is going to prevent him from engaging if he has any sense.
If you don't have anything positive to contribute, don't.
Like I said, not asking about any of this. Wish you had basic reading comprehension skills.
He does. We used to hike and cycle with friends last year. He’s always been easy to invite if its friends inviting, but if its me it’s usually no comment.