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It sounds like your love of your partner was entirely dashed by some newly found elitism – probably rooted in some deep, misplaced, and unresolved self hatred or dissatisfaction with your life that you're blaming on everything except you. This really sounds like a you problem. There's nothing wrong with a fun and colorful elementary art teacher – if anything, her style probably And if you were trying to teach children every day without losing your mind, you wouldn't be sober all the time either. The sex drive thing is neither here nor there – people give up some things to make relationships work and if she's okay with the lower intimacy, that's her decision.
Personally, I'd recommend you pin down why you're upset with her for being happy in what she does and embracing her personal interests/style/happiness and living her best life. It'd be one thing if she was missing obligations or not employed or whatever, but she sounds like a perfectly fine adult who just doesn't meet whatever weird elitist standards you've written lately. It definitely says more about you than it does about her, and the solution needs to come from your personal growth if this is going to work. If growing isn't possible, this isn't going to work and she'll be better off if you let her go find someone who thinks she's amazing as she is.
Fun story: my dad is a borderline conservative dude with a desk job. Drives his truck, wears his polos, plays solitaire on the couch while the reruns of the 60s westerns play – is opposed to most kinds of change. My mom's an elementary school teacher (currently for art) who drives a bright yellow convertible, grows her own weed (it's legal there), makes erotic pottery, and rearranges both the furniture and which room is the living room every few years. They've been pretty happily married 35 years. Your partner doesn't have to be your clone for you and her to be happy. He still happily bends over backwards for her when she needs him (and even when she doesn't). He makes her a breakfast smoothie and arranges her morning meds so she doesn't forget them, he fills up her gas tank so she doesn't have to get up early, and he drives her around to run errands for her classroom on weekends. If you search your soul and can't love her like that, let her go find someone who will.
“I’m already married to Christ my friend. Bless you”