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Date: October 5, 2022
If you know he will leave once you tell him, may as well tell him and get it over with.
Also I am indeed his first girlfriend. So I let this slide the first year but it’s been almost 3 years, I’m getting fed up
I am bisexual and poly, and I'm telling you, none of this is acceptable. Your wife got pregnant without consulting you, her partner sexually harasses and assaults you (touching you without your consent is assault), you are being expected to change your spending habits for a child you don't want.
None of this is okay. This is actually really, bad, and the fact that you don't think that isn't your fault. But it does point to a lot of gaslighting and emotional abuse for you to accept this treatment.
There are people who will treat you as their equal. You deserve that. I'm not sure if your asexuality is a factor here, but one of my partners is not really into sex at all, and I would never see him as less because of that, even if he wanted monogamy. We were monogamous for a good while, even. You don't have to accept worse treatment just because you don't have an interest in sex.
I really think some therapy to get at the root of your self esteem issues would be very helpful. I know it helped me so much– my relationships when I was your age were not good at all, because I was willing to accept terrible treatment from partners. At the time I didn't consider it to be terrible.
But now I am an equal in my relationships. I feel safe in my home from being yelled at or being touched in any way I don't want. I don't have to cave to my partner's demands and predict their every mood change. I don't have to feel anxious about doing or saying the wrong thing because I know I will be given the benefit of the doubt. I have my own space, and I can do whatever I want there, plus I can be a part of decisions about what happens in our home. I am part of every major relationship decision, like job changes, nonmonogamy, children, moving, just everything. I would never have dreamed of just being able to exist at peace and feel safe in a relationship when I was your age, but it's amazing.
I want you to have that too.
Nothing wrong with his love and care and even prioritising their health needs over his healthy wife, it’s the ‘I will always love them more than you’ thing that I find hot to understand.
Idk how many times I’ve regretted my niceness. It’s a huge gamble (with someone u don’t know) to be nice to them. It could either go good or bad. I swear there’s no in between. Sadly, the older I get, the less trusting I get so I usually try to keep to myself.