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Date: November 18, 2022
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That’s the thing… I don’t want to let him go. I just wish there was something I could do, say, or show him that he can trust me.
I don’t understand why you think if your in a relationship you get to have Privacy. Would you be ok with your partner hiding ?? If you are, than your not ready for a committed relationship.
OP, we can’t be expected to analyze this and spit out any advice. This is on you to figure out. At minimum, this needs a TLDR.
I think you meant bangmaid nanny.
Guess not sure how a “big city ' lifestyle is… but in my case where I'm only free at weekends, most of the time I'm tired to go out and rather sleep.
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Find out a way to do it anonymously that can't be traced back to you. This girl sounds absolutely nuts, and clearly has some form of NPD. I'm be mostly concerned what she'd do to you if she found out you ruined her meal ticket.
I'm not sure how much obligation you have to the other guy to be honest. I'd personally want to know if I was him. But he's also got to figure his own shit out and not get blinded by pretty faces.
If you can figure out a way to do it safely that can't be traced back, do that. Otherwise, I wouldn't risk it. And do better about not sticking your dick in crazy in the future, would ya?
I guess social media could be considered a hobby, but socializing with friends just seems like a normal thing people do.
Like if someone went to golf with their buddies, I'd say their hobby is golf, not hanging out with friends. Same with trying restaurants or concerts etc.
Let her contact you. If you don’t hear from her you will have your answer. She has said she will contact you when she is ready. You will ruin your chances by chasing her.
People don’t enjoy hearing others dreams unless they’re in it. It’s often incoherent & very hot to follow but mostly uninteresting. It’s an experience they cannot relate to as it lives entirely in your head. They are unable to perceive it in any way.
Your friend expressed they’re not interested in talking about this anymore. You can continue, and possibly lose your friendship or stop and Get a dream journal to help organize your thoughts.
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You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
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I’d have to guess it now sounds more like you felt safe to be vulnerable with her because she was so openly messed up herself. Its an easy and fast way to bond.
She was openly messed up with me because I was her relatively close friend at least one year before our relationship turned romantic. I can't deny seeing someone with so many troubles that have suffered so much definitely makes it easier to be vulnerable but that was in no way a fast or easy bond.
Add this quote into the mix, it sounds like you didnt have much deep social support, because you don’t have many people to be vulnerable with on a day to day basis, so an easy fast bond with someone whos openly vulnerable with you would be appealing under those circumstances.
Well the support group I am talking about actually was much stronger before our relationship started and to be honest I don't need support in general on a daily basis but of course there are moments when i need it but it isn't available like right now.
You seem to be focused on what made me want to be with her to begin with which is a legitimate approach but I am far more interested in possible reasons for such a drastic change on her side because I understand myself far better than I understand her recent behavior.
To sort out the vulnerability question Here are some details: I have always been social but with a select group of trusted friends. I don't like relying on others for things I can do myself if I feel like I can do them better or will cost me les because i like to take responsibility for my own life but I have no unhealthy attachment to control so I am not afraid to ask for help if i need it and don't live! with the illusion that I can live purely by myself. When we started dating all my friends were present even though I didn't need them for any support because things were going great. I started dating her because I felt romantic attraction towards her and she felt the same. We were already friends and I had some knowledge on her past and problems but not to the extent I have now. At this moment however two of my best friends are overseas and we mostly comunicate trough chat far less often than I would like to and sometimes it takes weeks to find a time to on video. One other guy is currently fighting with his drug addiction so I don't feel like it's right to burden him with my problems. If anything I should be the one supporting him once I figure my relationship out. The only one of my peers with which I can have long and honest conversation face to face about this is the one who has never been in a relationship so when I said I am desperate that's what I meant. I suppose I have to mention her best friend which is a close friend of mine too but given the situation I definitely don't feel comfortable due to conflict of interests. So that's pretty much it in terms of vulnerability and support. Never had a problem with any of the two until now. That's why I am here.
Change the sex and orientation. If a man pulled a drunk, sleeping woman’s pants down and was fondling her nether regions, he’d be in jail already and none of his friends would adore him or hesitate to throw away the friendship.
Why are you not already at the police station? This is the second man he has sexually assaulted. Why do all your friends want him at their parties? Is sexual assault on men somehow less heinous than on women?
Think.
He isn’t single.
Who is he? I know people on this post are mad but that's no reason to misgender when it's made clear on the post.
Your relationship with your dad explains why you think it’s OK to be treated like shit by men. You need to break the cycle and realize that you’ll only get treated better when you believe that you deserve better.
Yes, be honest about your sexual past.
A good father doesn’t treat the mother of his children like garbage.
Offer to clean the cat box.
I actually thought about this! I am seriously considering it but it will be a while before we hang out again.
If you feel the situation is so bad that your husband is harming your kid, then you should leave and take the kid.
You don’t ask relationship advice when safety is compromised, you get safe. Why are you staying somewhere you feel is not safe?
If it’s not that bad and you can stay, what you do is get some help sorting out your own head, because that is under your control. And during that process, figure out how to better work with your husband. This doesn’t imply he’s right. It doesn’t imply he doesn’t need to change a lot. It’s just about managing the things you can and giving yourself the tools to evaluate how to approach the things you don’t have full control over.
i dont know if i should even talk to him or approach our friend situations now because of this. what do i even say to him
Stop answering. Tell her to text instead.
Find your replacement and introduce her to him.
Relationships that I don’t think I’d want to be in should be illegal
Or noodle penis weird arms
But she didn't say no. She didn't know what to say and went with “idk when I have time” maybe because she was scared to say no to such a direct question.
Speculation but what she didn't do is say directly no
I was gonna say “date her brother”…hopefully he's nicer. She sounds horrible and you deserve better than a shallow, vapid, nincompoop.
Don’t be a dick dude. 11 years is no joke. Poor guy.
Honestly, if you guys can’t do couples therapy, this is gonna be a hell of a thing to table until you’re done with your masters
do everyone a favor and don’t dump the trauma you’ll gain from this guy onto the next one
I can definitely relate to this. I went to medical school and traveled the world before I finally started looking for a serious relationship. By this time I had lived and traveled on 5 continents and made decent money. After a while I began to fear I would NEVER find a guy who wasn’t so intimidated by me. So I finally decided I would have to find someone to match me. My hubs is a PhD and has lived and traveled abroad almost as much as me. Our society makes it really very hot for guys to be with someone more successful than them. This is changing (thankfully) but the truth of the matter is that it is just hot. You would probably have more luck looking in your own earning bracket.
Friend is jealous, shut that nonsense out of your mind. Not everyone on earth is caught up with looks. Enjoy your life and keep loving your gf.
Not the person worth having a child with. If he isn't mature enough to be present to support YOU at an ultrasound appointment, I doubt he'd be able to support you in childbirth, let alone during postpartum recovery, changing diapers, etc.
Girl just leave
I truly don’t care if she’s going to be with someone else. Just I could’ve known that shit before I flew out here.
I confirmed with her Wednesday, Thursday, and today an hour before boarding. I doubt I’ll talk to her after this weekend. On to the next.
Maybe decide to not be in several bands and make time for your girl. Or don’t have a girl and be in several bands. Your girlfriend wants to be a priority and you’re making her an option.
yeah…
I mean I’m with you.
There are dudes who aren’t that uncouth.
My question still stands- he’s being deliberately gross. Each toot is a toot of hostility. Why do you put up with it?
knowing you have a child, joke or not, that was completely out of line. had your child seen or heard what she had said… she sounds crazy. she shouldn't jokingly threaten someone to have sex with her.
Well now we know why he is single. Just move on. There has got to be better out there!
that’s great advice, we have talked a lot about this and i’ve assured him i’de be ready to work on any behaviour that might have caused this shift but he kept telling me that there was nothing i did that caused this and it was on him because he felt like he couldn’t give me what i “deserved”
Dude wants to get back to his bad ex0 and when is doesn't work out, he will be chasing you again
But if all want it and the relationship is strong, it never leads to issues. A threesome, even if gone terribly bad, isn’t enough to kill a relationship.
The couple I knew who ended up having their third knocked up by the husband and the whirlwind of shit that came with that would disagree with you. My own sister, whose husband left her for their third, would disagree with you.
You are not an authority on all relationships, nor what would or would not affect them, or on what I have or have not seen.
I gave my opinion on it and information on the outcomes of all the ones I have personally heard of (which many of which I had heard of the intent before the actual act), as well as the disclaimer that this has only been what I have seen and that's that. If you want to give your own opinion, because that is all it would be because this is not a topic of fact, on it to the OP, then feel free to do so.
You remind yourself that your friend fucking her brother/stepbrother was the exception and get over it. That’s the only solution.
My brain is fried & I think I'm trying to justify what I said
I got it directly from his post.
there is no moment of truth. You’re trying to get some big “gotcha” moment.
He lied to you. That’s all the evidence you need. Why waste any more of your time