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“Aight imma head out”
I can't say she is doing the same my ex did, just saying be careful. Telling how you know can be turned against you quickly and push her away if she isn't already drifting away. But then again I never brought any of it up at all because I love her that much, I just tried harder to make it work, to no avail
Seriously it's like a bunch of 12 year olds collaborating on a plot for a porno in here.
Lost the savings money I trusted him with ($300), had a video of his ex giving him brain in an album labeled “arsenal” on his phone. An album that had our videos and stuff in it. Told me it was just him going through his old nudes and that he didn’t watch it or care about his ex. (Didn’t see any other of his nudes.) And told me he went broke to come visit me so that proves he loves me and I should basically not be mad at him for it. Got mad at me for saying he wasnt the biggest D size I’ve had- even though I’ve told him he is perfect for me. And he asked me straight to my face. Told me I chose another dude over him, tried to get me to message and harass the dude who was bigger. And etc. Got upset that I hung out with a friend when he said he needed me. But I had asked him prior if he wanted me to cancel my plans but they kept telling me no. Until I just canceled and he was still mad. Things like that.
You wrote a novel about him, and he isn’t thinking about you. Honey, it’s time to move on!
Go out drinking with your friends and forget about him, he isn’t worth it! ?
Thank you for the advice. As of right now with it being so fresh, it is difficult but am trying my best.
How can he expect her to learn not to hurt someone when she gets hurt for doing it? Violence by her is bad but violence to her is ok? Unless he gets parenting classes, this child is doomed. Whether you stay or not, he needs to realize he is damaging her, not teaching her.
Move on is the next move for you. Find new friends if needed. Not that hard. You can do it.
No can decide if they want kids at age 20. That’s bananas. If she is so positive she can get her tubes tied. That is really bizarre. Has she heard of birth control? Tell her to manage her body how she sees fit. You’re not even 21 yet. That’s ???
Don't let that piece of shit win. That's what I had to tell myself multiple times a day and eventually I got through to myself. My happiness and living a fulfilling life was more important than letting some sad excuse for a human being control my thoughts and actions. I am so sorry this happened to both of you. I can't even imagine standing there being forced to watch as the person you loves dignity was stripped from him. You will both get through this, in time. Always be there for him the best way you can and as much as he will let you.
Just to point out that an air fryer isn't a fryer, it's basically an induction oven, for some reason the name air fryer has stuck and sounds catchy but is a misleading name.
He feels like you don’t trust him?? I wonder fucking why!! Of course you don’t fucking trust him, he had an affair!! Why on earth should you trust him? You’ve known about the affair for only a month. I’d bet it was going on a hell of a lot longer than that. You’ve known for less time than the affair was happening and he expects you to just get over it like that? And he expects you to be okay with the fact that he still socializes with her every single day at work? And now wants to go to a party where she will be and where there will also likely be drinking and possibly even drugs (depending on the people of course) and thinks you should just be totally fucking fine with this??? Your husband is a dirt bag and tbh you should throw the whole man away. He clearly doesn’t give a shit about you or your feelings. If he did, he wouldn’t have had an affair in the first place, and he DEFINITELY wouldn’t be rubbing your face in it the way he is
This isn't applicable to the sub. You're asking for moral judgement, not advice. Please take this to AITA or something.
No she aint, as a matter of fact she being modest. I hired a PI. What she is leaving out, is that she's also a sex worker. And a stripper.. they're only verified by the pi but by some of the fellas also. And her count on the people she's cheated with… She's acting like a nun. 3…phhh. Ma y the first 3 months of the relationship. I talked with one of her FWB. Black dude from her area. Dude didn't know how I was. He thought I was a census researcher. Wasn't to difficult to steer the Convo in the direction that would be beneficial for me to know what was really going on. It was so easy to go fishing once I found out. And what's the number for provided. So to answer your question she wasn't bragging. She was being modest…
You might be right about that. I was trying to suggest he diffuse the situation somewhat
He goes out of his way to be irritating and wants to take you to a state where your medical care might not be available.
The first isn't political and the second is a practical problem. There's political issues where it's possible to compromise or just not engage, I'm not sure if my wife even knows what I think about the zoning code. These are not ignorable issues. I agree with you about leaving.
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I struggle with mental health issues but that doesn’t mean I throw out my friends stuff? Not hard to set it aside, send a text and boom
Men and women are pressed for perfect bodies. I got tired after all the sports and maintenance and sport injuries happened can't perform like that at a high level for ever something gonna break. I think it's good to be health conscious. But there is point of like who am I doing this for. But I do hate not being in weight pocket for my height. Irritating.
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Therapy might be a help, especially since you’re open to it.
Jesus Christ. People really focused on the vibrator and not OP lying for years? Most people would have reacted to the news of wanting to use a vibrator a lot better if it wasn't mentioned on top of a consistent years long lie.
Some of you people are fucking idiots lol.
Yea seriously OP you need some help if you can’t take that kind of joke from your husband.
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So the concensus is clearly that I am overthinking and being a big baby.
Thanks for clearing up my head.
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I've actually given up on therapists the only two experiences I have had, were both uneventful and left me hurting moreso. Idk if it was me, but therapy was like getting scolded by your parents on a subject they know nothing about, felt like the times im there im just listening about them and the books they've written. I understand basic exercise and diet influence you alot, I get that thank you. My psychiatrist has done an amazing job listening to me and recommending medication that suits me best. Never could find a way around the Lexapro ejaculation though. But therapist atleast to me, both seem very self absorbed and predatory in how they view desperate or sad people, is all.
Nah her friend chose that
Gross
Breaking up was the best idea. What if your relationship had been sexual and after a few weeks she suddenly starting questioning whether she fully consented? Shes fully entitled to her feelings and if kissing is something she is uncomfortable with that's fine but better you found out now before the relationship went further and suddenly her friend is sitting you down to tell you that you SA her or something
My eyes are for only my girlfriend
You are a male and it’s ok to look but don’t touch. It’s in our dna you didn’t do anything wrong. Now to the reaction, what did you do? Did you say woa, damn!, whistle? Get her some flowers, up the compliments, you need to do a lot of damage control.
Well, it’s possible she won’t ever be happy, but it’s also not that hard to give new compliments (beautiful eyes, I love looking at you, etc). But I also think she should model the behavior she likes. Partnership should be the goal! „Let’s plan something fun to do together“ rather than take me on a date.
From this 30-something woman, tell your girlfriend her friend's relationship is weird and gross and she shouldn't compare hers to it whatsoever.
OP is hypercritical and grumpy, with a short fuse.
Wife is privy to this and tries to maintain an even tone as she doesn’t want to set OP off about inconsequential things. Also, wife sounds maybe genuinely curious about the applicability of thyme vs sage.
OP is hypercritical and grumpy, having had his short fuse lit. He accuses wife of not respecting him and for not being “genuine.” He runs to Reddit for validation and receives none. He cries in a corner, alone, before realizing his faults and buying wife a bouquet of beautiful, fragrant sage and apologizes for being a crazy muppet who thinks it would be better to have “direct communication” but undoubtedly would be furious and snap back at his wife should she actually implement what he considers “direct communication” (i.e., “Hey, I see you’re cooking dinner. Use thyme instead. Yeah, because I said so.”)
The reason he isn't acting supportive of your traumas is because he is not interested in you. He's interested in having a young, hard piece of ass.
Your parents sound strict, I'm willing to bet it's because they're scared you'll go back down a bad path. Parents don't always know how to deal with things properly, unfortunately. However, my guess is they were never okay with the age gap bartender and were trying to seem cool til they waited on it fizzing out. The drinking slip freaked them out.
Ride it out at home, focus on school and your own wellbeing.
I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Thanks for your insight, you've given me food for thought.
But maybe I only love the attention rather than him
Is ruining the mood more important than the risks involved?
Seems like you both could have them.
If no one represents boundaries then it doesn't happen.
That’s a concerning pattern to slip into. Be careful and stay close with friends or family that care about you.
Check out Rodney Atkins song If You're Going Through Hell. It's a great song about no matter what you're going through to keep going.
The very fact that you are even considering this to remain close with your disgusting friend makes you as disgusting. Poor wife, I wish she could read this post and your replies on it and leave your ass.
I think you both should have a big talk about your sexual interests (past, present and future). Specifically how she feels about non-monogamy (e.g. is a threesome related to that).
The aim would be for both of you to completely understand what's expected from this relationship. Where the boundaries are.
Perhaps you might find that you're open to some things (not saying sharing etc), but you should also be prepared that it might make her realise she wants more. Good luck.
You need to make it clear to your family that your resources are finite, and that you are not responsible for their expectations. Say that you want both families to share in the celebration, but it's not realistic or possible to make two trips.
It sounds like you might benefit from a few sessions with a counselor to give you some coping strategies with your parents.
Letting things happen is never good. Speak for yourself and don't count bodies that don't count because you goofed yourself. You can say no and if you're bored well you goofed yourself.
Ms. Sucky Sucky.
This is why you don't date cheaters.
He just sounds like the average woman
I accidentally synced my photos to my bosses email which would have been so Embarassing but I think I caught it before he noticed
Why can’t she apply for a job that’s entry level in her field? It’s odd to go for say, intermediate position without having the experience.
I honestly can't say for sure. I assume it just isn't the type of work she wants, or she is discouraged by the idea of getting a low return on her degree. But it is not any surprise that this field is hard to break into. Entry level jobs are scarce as well but she would have an upper hand there.
How you just gonna skip past your husband being a predator?
Take all your proof to a lawyer and file for child support and custody. Hit him in his wallet.
I wouldn't call myself cool. I'm more of a nerd. And kissing without consent can spoil everything!
My ex best friend told me “You must love pedos” because she thought I voted for Biden. I am in no way political so that was really confusing. Then she called me all kinds of other names and told me I’m selfish. Just weird shit that made no sense. She could be jealous of you and it’s coming out sideways, or she’s showing off in front of her boyfriend? Either way, I never had any desire to work things out with her and we were friends for eighteen years
Thanks, this seems like good advice.
That sounds absolutely miserable. I promise you will feel so much better when you leave him. He is disgusting, shallow, and cruel. Your kids will be better off not being influenced by someone like him. You don’t want boys thinking this is how to treat women and you don’t want girls seeing him only attach value to your looks and weight.
Your boyfriend’s a bum who’s mooching off you because you’ve allowed it for this long. You tell him to get off his ass, get a job, and if he doesn’t have one in 1 month he can pack his shit and leave. I get the economy in some places isn’t great but there are employment agencies, temp agencies, and fast food places he can work till something better comes along.
It’s not your job to find this grown ass man a job. He needs to be doing that himself and since he hasn’t even been putting in that effort, that should tell you everything you need to know.
Yeah my dad bolted before I was born because he had no interest in having a kid with my mum, or any of the other women he had managed to get pregnant at the same time as her, and we were much better for him not being around. I'm not saying just dip completely, pay zero child support, father enough kids to have an entire sports team then go to prison like mine did, he took deadbeat and ran with it, but you don't have to stay with someone just because they're pregnant. Most children of unhappy parents will tell you that they'd rather their parents separated and we're happy than stayed together miserably.
God no!
Probably? Why do you ask?
Is this according to him or her? He could be saying that to make you feel better and would be an obvious defense
No you weren’t wrong he ditched you. He doesn’t deserve an apology and if he’s forcing an apology and doesn’t see he is wrong then y’all shouldn’t talk to each other and break up. More crimes happen at night and after promising to pick you up and not doing it puts you at risk and is not cool
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Thank you. I tried but he went. Of course all the roses were sold out. I wanted pink roses. He brings back purple sunflower type flowers. It just makes me even more upset that he brought back anything besides roses, and that there were no roses left.
I’ll reiterate the ‘sharing the load’ comments because it’s your home, your marriage, your kids. It’s more than just helping out. You should be an equal contributor.
That being said, if she’s more than exhausted (from doing the bulk of family labor), has she had a check up recently to check her iron, b12, hormone levels etc. pregnancy, breastfeeding and birth control can all wreak havoc on our bodies.
Lastly, what does she want from intimacy. Maybe what she wants is still intimate but it’s not PIV. Maybe she’s trying hard to give you what you want, but it’s the not the same thing she wants.
You need to talk, but you also need to make sure she’s ok – physically, emotionally and within her own values.
That is incredibly presumptuous. She didn't give that vibe off at all, sounds more like a you problem.
I’m sorry about what you’ve dealt with. But you should speak your truth. You know what reality is. If you’re not believed, it sucks, but you’ve learned that you have shitty friends.
For whatever it’s worth, I’m a guy. While I’m happily married, I’m not going to sit here and defend men on a general level. I’m certain there are quite a bit of awful men out there and again I’m sorry you’ve dealt with them. I’d love for you to be able to call them out (safely). In this case, you should be able to.
I'd say that it is over, but it isn't the end of the world.
The healthiest thing you can do is to not obsess or think that THIS IS MY ONE CHANCE. If she is willing to stay in contact, then leave it at that. Her feelings may one day return, but they probably won't.
The best thing I can say is that you'll find someone else (even if it doesn't feel like it now) if you keep putting yourself out there.
Don't obsess, don't freak out, just be chill.
legally allowed doesn't mean the person is mentally ready and capable.
No, I would have said I made mistakes when I was younger. I'm pretty sure I was in love with a psychopath at one point, and like some guys that are just better as friends. Do you want the name of every person I had a crush on? Like,, I hope I've grown.
This setup works. He just didn't wanna care for his kids.
I said it feels pathetic. And his kink isn’t to jerk off at work. He is using porn as purely a dopamine hit . While at work.
Good. If she is that bad. She should like into going more often.
There really isn't much you can do to make her better. You are not a therapist. You do everything to show you that you love her, but that's still not enough for her. That's on her. Not you v
You can ask try asking her why she thinks that you do not live her. Then fix that. But more than likely, it's a thing all in her head.
The simple reality is that virtually nobody gets that kind of hard time without being a career criminal or getting convicted of something very serious.
Cannabis convictions prove that statement wrong, quite easily too.
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A lot of men would frankly and are ruthless about it.
No i would never want that of course.I guess part of me sees her a patient that needs help since she also is a victim of violence.
The good news is she’s shown these true colors now so you can react accordingly and not fuck up the rest of your life with someone so deeply shallow and materialistic.
Next time, get married to someone who wants to be married, not just someone who wants to be engaged and a bride.
See that was my thought process, if the roles were reversed, I wouldn’t have just kicked her out of my house, changed my relationship statuses to single on social media, and sent out videos of me crying and telling the world about what happened on snapchat and ig. I would have sat down with her and talked about this instead because I loved her. But that’s just the way I would have handled it.
She already had plans…..she isn’t choosing them over you. She’s respecting the plans she’s already made.
That’s what I’m going to try and do, thank you
I think that when people tell you who they are, in word or deed, you need to believe them. If neither of you can compromise on where you want to live – without resentment – this is not a viable long term relationship.
Never said cut him off. You're doing that thing where you're adding your own bits to my words.
But I fully support removing him from that environment until shit calms down, not just for the safety of OP's new wife and baby, but for OP's son as well. Once they do some root cause analysis and everyone calms the fuck down, we can work on reintegration.
Don't forgive him. Neither the rape nor the choking is forgiveable.
However you do NOT have to feel obliged to immediately report him to anyone. It's traumatic telling people about this sort of thing, and you do not have to. You can tell who you like when you want. You can tell your friends when they're saying why did you guys break up? But you don't have to.
What are you getting out of this relationship? Because honestly, he sounds insufferable. You see that he was actively trying to spoil your birthday, right? His goal was to make you feel like shit. I’m sure he already knows how hurt and disappointed you are.
The real question here is: why are you still with him? Is what you’re getting out of the relationship worth this?
I’ve spoken to my dad and my best friend. I’m also going to start documenting some things. My dad is pretty adamant that I don’t leave because it’s “my house” and I see his perspective but I also just do not want to be there.
Hitting on a friend ruins the platonic relationship always. Because you either end up dating, and usually eventually breaking up, or you get rejected and neither one of you ever feels comfortable around the other again. So if you're not even sure you'd want to be with this guy it's probably best to wait until your urge to be with him is so strong that you'd be willing to risk the friendship over it. There's just no way for it to not “become weird”. Either you're dating and that might make the rest of the friend group uneasy, or he's shot you down so now the two of you can't be in the same room at the same time, forcing these friends to choose between you. It's almost always a mistake to assume your platonic connection is so strong that it can withstand the revelation that one of the two of you has been imagining the other one hot the whole time.