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Sorry to say chief but it may be time to break it off
My boyfriend and I were vehemently child free when we met and now I warm up to the idea of a child with him and I think he doesn't mind the idea very much either. I feel like if he hasn't warmed up to it and this has been an ongoing argument, he won't change his mind.
I don’t know. I wish I knew. He says they don’t .
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That never even came to mind! Thank you so much I don’t feel as bad ❤️
Uh. No. Incorrect. This happened over a year and a half. If she’d gained 40 lbs in a month she’d need to go to a medical professional immediately because that’s NOT over eating. Wtf are you talking about??
Not saying it cant work. But also not saying its the best idea.
Political parties are just stand ins for worldview. If you have two different worldviews than you may run into issues over things from time to time.
Like, do you have a career or take care of yhe kids? (Just one example)
Unless you are asexual and not interested in sex this relationship is over. Just break up. Block her and move on.
P.s. She cheated, and somehow it's your fault? Not sure why you are still with her
Considering your edit, I stand by my advice.
If you don't cover the shortfall, he'll go to work. A few days without a phone, heat and electricity will set him straight.
You can read it again!
Porn has caused a proliferation of men to think anal (& choking) are typical/normal/wanted. For many, many women it is not.
Ask him if he thinks Porn is real? Ask if he understands the prep that takes place (& the aftercare)for those participants to do anal in porn? Have him go to the FAQ section of the r/sex subreddit to review the “how to” on proper anal.
Then, as others have suggested, ask him to go first. Afterall, men have prostates that provide pleasure during anal, while women do not. So him going first makes sense.
If none of this makes him more willing to see your perspective, afraid you are sexually incapable and it’s time to leave.
Um….I would give him the benefit of the doubt if he is really good about other things personal to you.
He may never have been in this situation before – one where a valued loved one of a significant other (or one of his own loved ones) is dealing with such a serious health issue. So hopefully he's learning now?
Meaning he's not going to be great at this from the start if the above is correct. You would certainly hope that empathy is part of his skill set, but empathy should improve via experience.
His asking how you are the next day isn't a terrible reaction. You're his gf and he cares about that very much. You are the one in his life who is directly affected by your brother's situation.
If he was emotionally smart/mature though, he would ask about your brother.
So, OP, I would guide him in this situation if you really think he is a good person capable of empathy. Never having gone through this can explain a lot of the disconnect here.
But if both his parents died and his sister was gravely ill before this happened then drop him like a whatever.
But again, I gave no details about my situation or how it worked. Where do you get off accusing me of having my wife pick up my slack?
The trash took itself out
It’s like they’ve never heard of a pedostache before. It’s been slang term for a style of creepy mustache for decades. Even has a urban dictionary entry. Maybe all these people calling you out are young and the slang isn’t in vogue anymore with younger generations.
Break up if you can't communicate honestly
Yes, but they could be more conscious that they are living with another person especially their own child. They’re having sex every night and waking up OP every night. OP deserves some sleep at least more than half of the nights.
no problem. and it's not just you. we all have problems and working on them is part of life.
Thank you, I really appreciate your input! It's nice to know there are men that feel this way about it. In my environment it seems like even the most empathetic people still have toxic ideologies on the matter. I chalk it down to society and upbringing but nonetheless, it makes me lose hope sometimes. And that's not because I'm some perfect person myself! It's just baffling haha
OP has stated that he's tried to make her aware, and that she isn't contributing. He's tried asking her questions to prompt better discussion, and her only responses have been negative.
She even woke him up randomly at one point and (without any attempts at foreplay for OP) just expected him to immediately get hot so they can do it. When he struggled to stay awake and delayed the sex for an hour, she later said she felt unwanted/rejected because he essentially didn't wake up already in the “bone zone.” OP pointed out to her that she should have tried a thing or two to help him get going and she brushed him off, saying she didn't want to.
That's about as 0% as it gets. No foreplay, no reciprocation, no position changes aside from her occasionally getting on top of him, unfair expectations (you get hard when I want you to, even if you were asleep and I refuse to help you get horny), and demanding or expecting foreplay from him that makes her feel good even though she isn't doing anything for him.
Like, good God. This woman is a starfish.