If OP was going to get out of this marriage, she likely wouldn’t have posted here.
There are also 300 other comments here which say that same thing.
Considering the above statements, it didn’t seem super helpful to be another comment telling her to leave. She has made a decision to stay with him and take birth control while hiding it. If she doesn’t want this to blow up in her face then the pill isn’t the best course of action
As much as this guy seems like a self victimizing sad sack… Has it not occurred to you that she broke up with him longer than 16 days ago? Lol. He probably was single when he made that post.
The only way to have the conversation is to have the conversation. If things are going along well with the two of you now, the best way for you to get her to open up is to be honest and to simply communicate with each other. Take her out or get food, whatever your routine date is, and just talk to her about this. Don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings in a calm and rational way, because most women actually appreciate it when men do that, and don’t overthink it, and you should be fine.
This is animal neglect. I feel so sad for that baby. Cats usually over groom when they are stressed or under stimulated by their environment.
I don’t have any sympathy for people who treat their pets as if their needs are less important that ours. When you get an animal, you commit to taking care of it (good care) for its entire life. They are like forever babies and depend on us for everything. It’s not fair to this cat how it’s being treated right now.
Your girlfriend sounds immature. It sounds like she thought getting a pet would be fun and cute, and then grew bored of the cat when it wasn’t perfect. Also, she should have never gotten a cat when she knew she had allergies. I would break up with her and take the cat. At this point I feel like the cat’s life is more important than your relationship. I couldn’t date someone who treated an animal like this.
Appreciate the suggestion, will look into it!
You can break up with some for any reason, including that you just feel like it. But you gave a very valid reason right here.
Ok first of all, it doesn't matter what your mum thinks, she is not the one getting up close and personal.
Do not use that in an argument with your GF!
If you like, that's what matters. Tell her you like it and you are keeping it for the moment, and that it took you a long time to grow.
If your girlfriend doesn't like it… ask her if she would change her hair, shave etc for you
If OP was going to get out of this marriage, she likely wouldn’t have posted here.
There are also 300 other comments here which say that same thing.
Considering the above statements, it didn’t seem super helpful to be another comment telling her to leave. She has made a decision to stay with him and take birth control while hiding it. If she doesn’t want this to blow up in her face then the pill isn’t the best course of action
As much as this guy seems like a self victimizing sad sack… Has it not occurred to you that she broke up with him longer than 16 days ago? Lol. He probably was single when he made that post.
Not so odd if you spend any time in the kink or poly communities
You just told me how my relationship is. Use your brain maybe
The only way to have the conversation is to have the conversation. If things are going along well with the two of you now, the best way for you to get her to open up is to be honest and to simply communicate with each other. Take her out or get food, whatever your routine date is, and just talk to her about this. Don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings in a calm and rational way, because most women actually appreciate it when men do that, and don’t overthink it, and you should be fine.
This is animal neglect. I feel so sad for that baby. Cats usually over groom when they are stressed or under stimulated by their environment.
I don’t have any sympathy for people who treat their pets as if their needs are less important that ours. When you get an animal, you commit to taking care of it (good care) for its entire life. They are like forever babies and depend on us for everything. It’s not fair to this cat how it’s being treated right now.
Your girlfriend sounds immature. It sounds like she thought getting a pet would be fun and cute, and then grew bored of the cat when it wasn’t perfect. Also, she should have never gotten a cat when she knew she had allergies. I would break up with her and take the cat. At this point I feel like the cat’s life is more important than your relationship. I couldn’t date someone who treated an animal like this.