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Date: October 6, 2022
I feel like her doing this is especially hateful. I (40f) don't know what its like to be trans but I know if my partner was, I would protect them and only mention it if they wanted me too.
There are a thousand other ways as a woman that I can explain not having a baby. I mean who's business is that? It should be mine and my partners whether we want to or can and no on else's.
I also understand how awful, dangerous and just mean it can be to out someone. It can literally be deadly.
And for her to be with a trans partner abd know all this and still do it??
I'm sorry Op. All I see is meanness in it.
Look man, she's treating you as a convenient placeholder. She proved that 9 months ago when she dumped you for her 'friend,' then came back when things didn't work out with him.
Now she's trying to skip the whole 'dumping/coming back' phase by getting you to agree to an open relationship. Cake eating at it's finest.
If you want a serious relationship, this ain't it.
I apologize in advance if I am not understanding 100%, but from what I am reading in your post, your relationship is enjoyable when you spend time together, but there isn’t much you have to talk about anymore? Would I be incorrect to say that the spark has died and now it has become routine and nothing interesting is happening anymore?
I think what you may be dealing with here is incompatibility. It’s possible the rose colored glasses you had on during the honeymoon phase (which is totally normal to see your partner as nothing less than perfect at this time) have come off and now you see all of their flaws and aren’t as enamored as you were.
It’s okay to feel that your relationship is a dud. If it hasn’t become serious to the point where you’re both invested in a future and/or are married, you definitely just have to listen to your feelings to determine whether it’s time to move on to continue your search or to try new things in your relationship. Sometimes getting too much into a routine can make things uninteresting and uncomfortable.
Also, remember, if you’re spending too much time together early on, you aren’t allowing yourself time to miss each other and aren’t able to grow in the relationship if you aren’t also pursuing separate hobbies and interests outside of spending time together.
If it turns out that you’re just not right for each other, that’s also okay. No one can help their feelings, and you both have to do what’s best for you in the long run. Sometimes people just aren’t meant to be.
Consider this: One day she falls over at home and you're out having sex with someone else. She imagines what you're doing in that moment, while she's nursing her knees or lying on the ground, waiting for the adrenaline to pass. She thinks that if only she'd been able to give you sex, you'd be home with her right now, asking if she's alright. She wants to make you happy, but can't give you what you want. She remembers you getting ready to go out, leaving her. How many more times will this happen before it happens for good? How can she be sure that you can keep your body and heart separate during these encounters? Selfishly, she blames her body for betraying her, for ruining her happy relationship and forcing her to make such an offer to keep you. She resents your absence when she feels weak and vulnerable. Can she call you away in the middle of sex? That's shitty, right? So she gets back up and carries on, waiting for you to come home. She greets you with a smile and says she hopes you had a good time. She hopes you've been thinking of her.
Imo, it is very likely that you taking her up on this offer will begin the slow death of this relationship.
Don’t make a decision based on someone else’s feelings. Do what’s right for you.
Mama.. You are so right. People just don't get it. I dated a girl.. We had the greatest sex ever !! But outside of the bedroom, we were a 0.0 on the personality/compatibility scale.