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Model from: za
Languages: en
Birth Date: 2000-06-07
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityEbony
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: October 26, 2022
How old is he?
Yes. Gross. Please put the bar higher.
Eww.
You need to be bold enough with the person you love and put this guy out of the equation. It’s called shooting your shot. Being ‘selfless’ in this situation just puts you in misery and serves no purpose as it shows them that they aren’t incredibly important to you enough to make you move mountains for them. If it doesn’t work out then that’s ok still be her friend but show her she is worth it
Eww.
Bail. Tell her mom, call the cops, and wipe your fucjing hands of it man. This was a seventh month relationship. You both need serious therapeutic help and to be separated from each other permanently.
Don't listen to Prize-Improvement. They are obviously miserable and judgmental. People are allowed to have preferences. I don't have a preference, but there are certainly millions of people of all races who do. Go by how he treats you. Prize would be more than happy for you to take their advice so you could be as miserable as they are.
She does she’s said that in an argument before
It sucks to love someone you wish you didn’t.
That is quite funny tbh. Just tell them you bought it online but website is gone or something.
I stopped believing you when you said [ curiosity got the best of me], you're writing to impress kiddo you're not writing to tell us what's really happening, but you can put this on Wattpad you never know what can happen
A little bit, but in the end, I think I made the right decision.
I didn't exactly end it because I became successful; I left because she was getting too comfortable with the benefits of my success, and she did not have a drive of her own. She was holding me back from going after my goals. We went to the same college and got the same degree. We worked in a coffee shop in college, and afterward, she stayed there because it made her happy, which I absolutely do not begrudge. I went out and started working very hot to get experience and get into my career. I had great success. Our life started to improve significantly. Good house and nice cars. But I wanted more, but I could not take the next step with her being so comfortable and not wanting to change anything in her life. She didn't like going out with my friends, she didn't want to take vacations that left the country, she did not want to get a job using her degree, she did not want to leave that coffee shop, she didn't even want to have or run her own coffee shop. She found her niche and didn't want it to change. I wanted to move to get closer to some of the bigger players in the industry. So I was paying most of the bills and not doing anything past my 9 to 5 since she felt I didn't want to be around her when I put in extra time, went out for networking events, studying for certifications, or took additional online classes. I got depressed and started to feel like I was just spinning my wheels and missing the opportunity to progress.
The bad thing was I loved her dearly. Except for her lack of ambition, her personality and humor were a perfect fit for me, and I genuinely was very happy with her. But I knew if I stayed, I would die in that town, having never gotten the chance to tick anything off my bucket list.
When I told her it was over, it came as a huge surprise to her. For that, I'm terribly sorry. She was hurt and heartbroken, and honestly, so was I. We had talks upon talks and fights upon fights where I brought up my concerns and our future plans. It should not have been a surprise. I moved out that weekend, and we somehow stayed friends. I went on to go after my dreams and goals and have been VERY successful. I pretty much hit every stereotype within a year of leaving. I ended up with a great job, went through a series of relationships with typical arm candy type girlfriends, a string of FWB's in between, a fast car, nice flashy clothes, bachelor pad. I caught so much flak from friends and family it was ridiculous. It was very hot to defend because it really did look like I left a good woman just to go have fun. And that was the truth but not the whole truth, and if I brought up her lack of motivation, I just became a bad man who was just trying to justify my decision to chase fast women and faster cars. So I stopped trying to defend myself and took the heat. I didn't want to put my ex down as she didn't deserve that.
I eventually settled down a little bit. Married my best friend, but I absolutely refuse to be held back. Luckily my wife is just as driven as I am and would not tolerate me holding her back. So we are a team that pushes each other toward are next set of goals.
I am happy with my choice. She stayed at that coffee shop until it shut down, and she went to work at a doctor's office, where she still works almost 20 years later, still making the same amount as she did at the coffee shop, but she is happy and comfortable. We still talk every few days via text and meet up whenever I'm in town every few years for coffee. In the end we were not meant for each other. While we had a good relationship, our long term goals were not compatible. The end just happened to take place while I was experiencing exceptional success in my life.
You've seen her for two weeks; how often has she eaten in front of you? Is she just nervous? You're both kids. I'm a lot older than both of you; god knows my appetite goes if I'm worried.
Look: There's stuff you worry about and stuff you don't. You are sixteen, and you've known each other for two weeks. Could you give it time? On a two-week association? You're going to be doing more harm than good if you don't, I think. Maybe it's something later; maybe it's not.
Could you give it time and see how it shakes out? If there's an eating disorder, I guarantee you; it's not about you. Give it six months. But if she's got an ED six months later… look, that ain't just her picking at her food because she kinda likes you and is nervous… in six months you're gonna know.
Premarital counseling. Seriously. There doesnt need to be any huge issues going on for this to be a good idea. Actually, its better to go now, when things are presumably good to learn how to prevent things from becoming huge issues later on. Its like preventative maintenance work on a car or annual check-ups with a dr.
He also has a thing for not gloving up.
Get an std check. Some. STDs dont have symptoms.
Absolutely NOT. You were invited as a guest to his family’s holiday. You should be covered by whatever contribution your BF makes, or they choose to absorb for him.
It’s not a ski vacation.
Sorry, if anyone “spanked” my autistic child, they’d have no teeth left. It sounds like she’s possibly at the lower end of the spectrum. They do bite. My daughter was relentless. Punishing a disabled child with a smack, and a 3 year old at that, it’s unacceptable. She will not understand. Shame on him! What does his ex say about this? Does she know?
We are medium distance, about 2 hours away. In the beginning I would be the only one driving but once he got his job we switch every other weekend. So the only reason it’s gotten to the point where I’m sobbing is because this has been going on for months. It started out as a simple request for more affirmation and has snowballed. I would just plainly tell him that I need xyz and he wouldn’t even try. I absolutely understand that I can’t rely on him completely but in reference to last night, I didn’t want him to lie and say he wanted to spend time with me, rather just give a bit of reassurance that he’d talk to me another time and that he still enjoyed talking with me. Like I said, in any other circumstance I wouldn’t have been bothered, but it’s been months where he hasn’t made an effort to fulfill my need. Is that still unrealistic to expect?
Would you trust her to have gone to a regular bar with this friend? If so, then there’s no issue. Bars are known to be places to pick up someone. If you trust her in any other bar, there’s no reason a gay bar should be different unless the context was that they’re there as a couple.
The only question here is whether you trust your partner or not.
People are weird these days. Don’t waste your breath on explaining it. Everyone is completely reading over the fact she abandoned him after he opened up about a big trauma. The relationship was fractured thanks to that already. He also answered that she was okay with this whole trip.
I was trying to get u/Standard-Expert9347 to back off. It felt like the autism brigade was here to tell the mom-of-autistic how things are. Ultimately, I got more traction by just asking them to stop lecturing me as it wasn't helpful. The thing is, if you've never dealt with neurodivergence in your family, the standard advice that worked for you is probably not helpful here.
Do you really think a parent just stops parenting at 18?
Do you really think a 22 year old is fully matured and equipped?
Come on. Yes she should already know these things, but you don't just cut your kid loose with a “gl lol”
Sleeping at the office? With who?
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So fly over there, rent a hotel in his town and stay for a few weeks. He can surely sneak away to see you. If things seem right he can bring you to meet his parents. The only problem here is one of your own creation.
I'm guessing the real issue is that Kate has a problem with your asian girlfriend blackfishing by tanning so dark. Her dressing up as a character with dark skin was just an opening to address an existing problem. I'm black and I can totally see having someone like your gf in the friend group and not wanting to make a big deal about it but this being the straw that broke the camel's back. But without talking to Kate I can't say for sure.
The fact that neither of you are black explains why neither of you think there's any problem with this but I can definitely understand where Lana is coming from. Take a look at cosplay examples – the only time people generally change their skin color as part of the costume is when the character has something like pink or blue skin. Black people don't lighten their skin to match Japanese characters for these events nor do light skinned folks darken their skin for black characters. If I was Lana I'd be thinking about the optics of your gf showing up like the girl in this photo, and it's not great.
Why would you want to be with someone who isn't attracted to you?
Uh, you kind of need to have that full sit-down conversation ASAP. You gotta ask a ton of questions. I mean, off the the top of my head I’d ask all of these:
Why did she just restart the relationship? Does she intend to stay with you long-term? Why did she leave you like she did? Would she leave you the same way again? Does she regret leaving you five years ago? What can you do better in the relationship this time? Likewise, if you feel she needs to improve on certain things and you ask her to, would she? Does she promise to communicate with you openly on everything this time? Would she be willing to do couples counseling in the very near future to guarantee you are on the same page now and stay on it? And obviously you have to then ask the questions about someday living together, marriage, kids, etc.
It seems like you really think you’ve lucked into this, and that might be true, and I honestly hope its true, but you gotta be together on this the whole time. This is a true partnership this time, there can’t be any half-assing, any miscommunication, any ignoring, and absolutely no craziness.
I think your third point is most likely. Didn’t see it that way. Thanks for the advice. I know what i gotta do know
thank u so much!!!! ill do it in the morning when i’m less groggy and so i don’t send him a breakup text at 1 am , but thanks:)
Possible:
What are the chances he wasn’t really into me but rather saw the opportunity of a quick hookup with a flirty, open, drunk girl and wanted to use it? I am talking about the first night.
You were a drunk girl clinging onto a sober guy, and he tried kissing you during those conditions.
You also double down on that fact here:
But I was drunk that night. Like really drunk.
Triple down here:
But again, I was drunk so maybe there were details there that I missed etc. I don’t know.
He was completely sober, trying to kiss you, a drunk girl who was all over him. This was your first interaction with him and it set the tone.
Given the above, I would arrive at this conclusion myself:
I have this irrational fear of him not actually being into/ attracted to me but just seeing me as an easy hookup.
Also, change this POV:
I did reject him, not allowing him to actually kiss me.
You didn't reject him. If he actually pushed to kiss you, that is bad character on his part. Trying to make out with a girl whose clearly hammered while his sober. We call that 'taking advantage'.
Anyways. You do you.
This is what I suggest.
If you like him. Reach out. Do not go out drinking together for while. Instead have a date where you two can actually get to know each-other. Something with depth, do not use drinking as a form of getting to know someone.
You are overly sensitive. There is a clear distinction between fantasy and action. This types of hyperbolic scenerios are very common in this kinds of fiction. They alsop both gather men and women audiances.
Obviously if he wants to literally act out these stuff, that is a huge issue to say the least. But as fantasy in its small container it is just what it is, a fantasy. Most likely he gets off on how over the top it is.
I don't know your attitude about sexuality in general but people express many tangential things in a sexual manner, it doesn't necessarily mean they stand by these stuff. So essentially:
Either you are very naive about sexuality and pornography. More so very uninvolved aside from the vanilla.
Or if he is a shifty dude, he is actually a weirdo. Which has bad implications.
I can't make that judgement bc I don't know you guys as people.
As I said, I knew several rich college students that got monthly allowances. Nothing directly says she gets more than him.
Yeah, he can give a list like she does. Yeah, he can say no to her list.
Those are fine. He's not doing them.
I lolled all my way down the comments ? Yea, not missin being 20 ???
If you are in the top 10% attractive men
Few points here- 1) This could be classed as statutory rape in a lot of places 2) Pulling out doesn’t really prevent impregnation if you have unprotected sex anyway, so safe sex should be practiced if that’s your wish 3) Either break up with your dad, sorry bf, or don’t
Someone can’t lord over you with a gift from 5 years ago.
Having said that, if you’re spending money on a hobby while your bills are putting you nearly paycheck to paycheck, you might have to sacrifice your hobby for awhile until that is resolved.
Break up with the girlfriend. She's absolutely disgusting. You are taking care of a disabled individual, there's nothing sexual about it, and your girlfriend doesn't deserve you, you're amazing.
Of course it is cheating.
I’m just not sure how me telling her my feelings is defending myself. I said what I was feeling that’s why I messed up. I wasn’t asking for her understanding
grew a mustache but you’re upset about the tits ?
I wouldn't want to get anyone else sick so I try to minimize exposing my germs to others. I think wanting someone else to get sick as well is selfish.
Right, I'm not saying he has to have long breaks or whatever. But to me, it looks like he is set on doing it no matter what.
Here's the truth- women know. I'm aware every straight male I'm friends with would 100% sleep with me given the chance or opportunity. Some are just more respectful than others.
If she had any type of romantic feelings for you she knows it can and will be reciprocated if she wanted to.
Best case scenario she'll think good for him for being honest maybe now he can get over it and move on to someone who feels the same. Worst case she'll think it's selfish and the friendship will fade.
Any time in the past I've 'confessed' feelings for someone when I'm not positive they feel the same it's been regrettable at best and humiliating at worst.
just go out with your friend. let him die mad about it
Cut all contact with her and let her deal with her own marriage. It's none of your business. Don't get involved between a wife and a husband…because things change…one day the fight and next day they together. Leave her alone…because if you don't something bad could happen. Find a single girl.
She has every right to end her friendship with you, for any reason at all. You are not entitled to even more of her time. Leave her alone.
I disagree, he said they don’t plan on getting married soon but didn’t say never or that he isn’t serious, maybe she doesn’t want to be married?
However if he is buying the house with only his money, he will be taking on 100% of the loan, why does that mean he isn’t serious about her? He’s taking 100% of the risk and if she dumps him in the future he’s stuck with a house his ex picked.
You’re right the guy should buy what he wants, but don’t insinuate he isn’t serious about her because of that decision.
If she's that cavalier about using the truth of 12M's paternity to hurt your husband, she may tell 12M to try and alienate him.
It would be good for your husband to talk with 12M and reassure him that he will always be his son, regardless of any differences in their DNA. If his ex-wife continues to deny him visitation or custody or in any way tries to use this against him, you may have to get a lawyer involved.
Men like feminity!!!!! Work on that!!!!
Yeah! It's obvious that OP is not feminine enough! That's the problem!
Men like a woman that takes care of them!!!
That too! Gotta cook for a man, clean for a man, change diapers for a man, etc. Man's gotta get his new mama! Not willing to wipe his ass? You're outa' here!
To answer your question – yes, this relationship sounds exhausting. It's only been three months so better to end it now
Also, he “didn't understand” how his actions hurt you because he either doesn't care or pretends to not understand and then calls YOU sensitive
You're not engaged to an adult, but a child who just happens to be 24.
sounds like really emotionally immature and with poor regulation skills, not to mention the bit about spending money when he needs to be saving it for a house, poor impulse control clearly.
poor partner in general with the neglect too.
just sad all round really.
Yep. Your feelings are valid and should be respected enough for her to want to hear them, even if you disagree on the action to be taken (which on that as well she shouldn’t have lied about it. If she was going to keep them she should have told you).
Also how did you find out? We’re you going through her phone? Because maybe that’s why she lied, if she’s also worrying about your reactions?
You’re obsessing. I’d do the same.
Lol, I'm not passive aggressive.
Americans are like: this guy cheated on me before and after our sham marriage and then fucked himself up by being a p.o.s. drunk driver while cheating…..but fuck dude I just need some shitty health insurance to not loose everything with one medical event.
Haha, I know OP's posts make her sound very young, but the post title said she's 33. You still gave good advice for her, but she really should understand the concept of a breakup by now.
“Right now I am at work, exhausted, but still don’t want to go home because I am afraid I will come to a house that smells like last night’s food that I worked so naked to prepare for and a sink full of dishes and not enough free time at my hands to even breath let alone do those dishes. What makes you think I am worthy of this treatment? What is more important to you than showing the most basic decency to me?”
Your brother doesn’t have any right to say he wants you to break up with your bf because he got slapped for being a racist asshole. You have a good bf who will stand up for himself by slapping the shit out of your brother lol.
I suffer from severe allergies and have asthma I have used cocaine in my younger years
Your bf was doing cocaine and he went out of his way to humiliate you
Hope his is now your ex