If he loves you he would be respectful of what makes you uncomfortable. Sexual acts are wants not needs, he is not entitled to any part of you or any sexual act from you.
Honestly it's only been a month and he's already showing you how he views sex and how he views you. I'd just walk away now if I was you.
What she told me was that they just started talking in his car and kept leaning in for a kiss. She stopped him multiple times but ultimately gave in. She then proceeded to tell me that they had s*x but she stopped right after because she knew she made a huge mistake.
This is what she told you, now you need to find out what really happened. Also, they stopped AFTER having sex? What did they stop with?
But like I said I don’t know what to do.
Well, to summarize: your GF's ex called her, she walked outside where ex was waiting and they stepped into a car, talked and had sex. But she was very sorry. Oh, and do you think you can ellicit a reaction like this from her?
Oh, this is something SHE has to work through. You didn't do anything wrong. SHE has to earn back YOUR trust.
Let's flip it around.
If he loves you he would be respectful of what makes you uncomfortable. Sexual acts are wants not needs, he is not entitled to any part of you or any sexual act from you.
Honestly it's only been a month and he's already showing you how he views sex and how he views you. I'd just walk away now if I was you.
What she told me was that they just started talking in his car and kept leaning in for a kiss. She stopped him multiple times but ultimately gave in. She then proceeded to tell me that they had s*x but she stopped right after because she knew she made a huge mistake.
This is what she told you, now you need to find out what really happened. Also, they stopped AFTER having sex? What did they stop with?
But like I said I don’t know what to do.
Well, to summarize: your GF's ex called her, she walked outside where ex was waiting and they stepped into a car, talked and had sex. But she was very sorry. Oh, and do you think you can ellicit a reaction like this from her?
Oh, this is something SHE has to work through. You didn't do anything wrong. SHE has to earn back YOUR trust.
Omg that’s exactly right