I feel it would be more sensible to have a discussion about it rather than returning the gift. Accept the gift but also tell him that you don't feel comfortable receiving such expensive stuff and possibly agree on some upper limit for gifts for both of you.
They’re both not safe at all . They both lack good judgment. She can’t trust him due to these events and her past traumatic experience. If she’s passed them I think she could probably communicate with him and it could just be a misunderstanding to learn that sometimes we aren’t as in tune as we like to think lesson. His experience with intimacy with his wife is very tainted unfortunately because I don’t think he intentionally did rape her I think it just was assumed consent from marriage and a initiation on her part which made him think green light instead of thinking of the medication part of it for the after effects. If she was medicated to be incoherent
There’s really nothing wrong with throwing in the towel and breaking up due to lack of sexual compatibility. It’s a real thing, and you are not a bad person for not wanting to stay with someone who is not compatible with you sexually.
Im just here for the update you left your current bf for him but after he smashed he no longer wants you and you dont know what you did wrong and how to fix it with your the first guy
Sorry but you’re going to probably going to have to end the relationship.
Your BF will likely not be able to “get over it” as it’s not a case of “your past is your past” it’s a case of “your past is waving around in my face regularly”
And next time, try not to date someone who is friends with someone you fucked before.
Think on it – say your BF slept with one of your friends, one you see every week at the minimum, and that friend has at least once, if not more asked about your BF. How would you feel? And even if you start off by feeling okay about it, how are you going to feel each week, thinking about the 2 of them together?
Oh man, didn’t realize they’ve been posting on and off.
I mean, thats the new chin she will die with so… be very gentle with your answer tbh
So what, disabled people are to remain forever single because able-bodied people shouldn't date them?
I feel it would be more sensible to have a discussion about it rather than returning the gift. Accept the gift but also tell him that you don't feel comfortable receiving such expensive stuff and possibly agree on some upper limit for gifts for both of you.
They’re both not safe at all . They both lack good judgment. She can’t trust him due to these events and her past traumatic experience. If she’s passed them I think she could probably communicate with him and it could just be a misunderstanding to learn that sometimes we aren’t as in tune as we like to think lesson. His experience with intimacy with his wife is very tainted unfortunately because I don’t think he intentionally did rape her I think it just was assumed consent from marriage and a initiation on her part which made him think green light instead of thinking of the medication part of it for the after effects. If she was medicated to be incoherent
There’s really nothing wrong with throwing in the towel and breaking up due to lack of sexual compatibility. It’s a real thing, and you are not a bad person for not wanting to stay with someone who is not compatible with you sexually.
Call out of work, Park down the street and hide in the closet? Seems as though you already know what is happening however
Im just here for the update you left your current bf for him but after he smashed he no longer wants you and you dont know what you did wrong and how to fix it with your the first guy
Depends. For some a bed is very personal so having some girl sleep in yours might understandably upset her
You can't “accidentally” cheat.
and have been so chill w him
What you describe is not “chill”.
Chill is: light some candles, watch some TV, hang out.
Perhaps this is a good question for you to answer: what do you want from him?
No one would want someone speaking to them this way. It is blatantly rude and inconsiderate.
Your girlfriend knew! You need to have a serious talk with her, and let her know he is not welcomed anymore. You also should've said something to him
Sorry but you’re going to probably going to have to end the relationship.
Your BF will likely not be able to “get over it” as it’s not a case of “your past is your past” it’s a case of “your past is waving around in my face regularly”
And next time, try not to date someone who is friends with someone you fucked before.
Think on it – say your BF slept with one of your friends, one you see every week at the minimum, and that friend has at least once, if not more asked about your BF. How would you feel? And even if you start off by feeling okay about it, how are you going to feel each week, thinking about the 2 of them together?
I couldn't take this post seriously after that.
You grew up, he did not.