Your feelings don't invalidate her feelings. It sounds like she's working through a lot. I get tired of people jumping to therapy, but that might be useful here. It will also help her understand your thoughts, and feelings are as important as hers. Hopefully, you two will find a balance where you can listen to each other, not just hear each other.
You know, this sounds an awful lot like cheating. She knew what she was doing, she enjoyed it, but only later after cumming, felt remorse that what she did was wrong.
I'd take it as cheating, and would be calling off the wedding.
Your GF needs to learn the art of compromise here. Look, other people exist, and you two are sharing a home together. I really don't see how being in one room by yourself with headphones on has any effect on her ability to hang out with her friends in an entirely different room. Because it literally doesn't.
It's just hanging out with friends, I don't understand why she has to go on about needing it to be this intentional thing and requiring zero presence in the home. If she's that bothered by sharing, she should live alone. It sounds like she's so stuck on needing it to be her way, she's not considering the fact that it's your home too.
Also, why do they always have to hang out at your house? Can't they just go out to socialize? It's weird that their hanging out requires such specific parameters and has to be devoid of any other human beings. Hanging out at home is cool sometimes, but not every time and with such rigid constraints.
Asking for some privacy is completely valid and you've provided that, but being asked to leave entirely on a regular basis is just bizarre.
It sounds like she's nitpicking this and being unnecessarily difficult over something that doesn't need to be this hard. Is there something else she's upset about and maybe projecting here? It's seriously such a strange stance I feel like there has to be something else she's not communicating.
Naw. That's not how it works. She invested it and took a chance. That was her choice and her risk. You both know that the stock market is tricky and you have the same chance of winning big as losing it all. You don't owe her a dime.
You both put in and lost money. End of story. it's part of the acceptable risk you take when you play with the stock market and is why it's advised you don't put in more then you can afford to lose.
Don't let her manipulate you into paying her a dime. You don't owe her that money and should remind her that you lost the same amount too, and it's the chance you both took.
I give it a 0.5% chance he isn’t either living with his girlfriend or having her over enough that he can’t risk his wife stopping by.
Your feelings don't invalidate her feelings. It sounds like she's working through a lot. I get tired of people jumping to therapy, but that might be useful here. It will also help her understand your thoughts, and feelings are as important as hers. Hopefully, you two will find a balance where you can listen to each other, not just hear each other.
You know, this sounds an awful lot like cheating. She knew what she was doing, she enjoyed it, but only later after cumming, felt remorse that what she did was wrong.
I'd take it as cheating, and would be calling off the wedding.
Your GF needs to learn the art of compromise here. Look, other people exist, and you two are sharing a home together. I really don't see how being in one room by yourself with headphones on has any effect on her ability to hang out with her friends in an entirely different room. Because it literally doesn't.
It's just hanging out with friends, I don't understand why she has to go on about needing it to be this intentional thing and requiring zero presence in the home. If she's that bothered by sharing, she should live alone. It sounds like she's so stuck on needing it to be her way, she's not considering the fact that it's your home too.
Also, why do they always have to hang out at your house? Can't they just go out to socialize? It's weird that their hanging out requires such specific parameters and has to be devoid of any other human beings. Hanging out at home is cool sometimes, but not every time and with such rigid constraints.
Asking for some privacy is completely valid and you've provided that, but being asked to leave entirely on a regular basis is just bizarre.
It sounds like she's nitpicking this and being unnecessarily difficult over something that doesn't need to be this hard. Is there something else she's upset about and maybe projecting here? It's seriously such a strange stance I feel like there has to be something else she's not communicating.
Naw. That's not how it works. She invested it and took a chance. That was her choice and her risk. You both know that the stock market is tricky and you have the same chance of winning big as losing it all. You don't owe her a dime.
You both put in and lost money. End of story. it's part of the acceptable risk you take when you play with the stock market and is why it's advised you don't put in more then you can afford to lose.
Don't let her manipulate you into paying her a dime. You don't owe her that money and should remind her that you lost the same amount too, and it's the chance you both took.
She doesn't get to charge you for her loss bro.
I don’t know what to do.. it hurts to much to break it off with him my gut is telling me he’s never going to leave even though he says he will.
This is what I was thinking. Was she even pregnant?