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New here, can you show me around ? [GOAL MET]
Date: November 26, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
New here, can you show me around ? [GOAL MET]
Everybody saying your gf needs therapy. I agree. But you need therapy as well!
All she is gonna get!!! Period!
Well. As you live paycheck to paycheck and seem to be okay with it, aka do not do anything about it, his reservations are not without reasons. You could suggest a lawyer that models a prenup. But some things you have to change, if you want to stay together and marry are seemingly your communication and your personal spending habits. Try to establish some rules as it is in general not healthy to on-line without savings. I would, however, not forget to ask him whether he would really like to marry you in general (without money being a problem). Could be that he uses it partly as a fake reason, but one can never be certain. Another thing is that it seems that he doesnt really respect you and your career. Making a bit less is no dealbreaker for most (when savings are no problem) as it doesnt block the opportunity and neccesity of being able to support each other(!). But for me it seems he doesnt even value your bachelors degree and you beat yourself up about being of no value because of it.
You can have the fur turned into jewelry.
you are sleeping with her knowing she's incredibly mentally unwell and is obviously loony tunes infatuated with you. You are absolutely taking advantage of someone who should probably be in in-patient services. You say yourself that you dont want to mess with her anymore so grow up, take accountability for your own choices and do the right thing.
I don’t really hear any solutions from you, just complaints. You hold against him that he’s not doing enough, but you’re a 30 year old student who draws no salary, so kinda like the pot calling the kettle black, no?
It doesn’t really matter. The contempt for your husband is almost oozing out of your post. For both of your sakes, leave him while you’re young and child free. You’ll both actually have a chance at happiness maybe.
well i guess even if it blows up in my face, at least itll be brought to her attention lol
There are alot of chesters out there
Pancakes are fine, it's not like he said it resembled an over stuffed shaved ham Panini.
Does she have an iPhone… go to the text messages, click edit, then click recently deleted. It stores for 30 days until it completely deletes it
I understand divorce is rough… But this sounds very much like a toxic teen friend circle. Many people from broken families enter them and build them up to be something amazing, when in reality it's just a bunch of codependent adults afraid of striking out on their own.
All this drama is unnecessary and frankly wouldn't happen if you exited this relationship when you realized you had feelings for this person. It might be difficult for a few months but I believe this might've been a gift in disguise to both you and your kid. Imagine growing up in a situation where your dad has a crush on the female caregiver who is married to another person.
What I want to add here, is that you are so, so young. The human brain does not fully complete its development until the age of about 26. All the commenters seem to think once a person mentions divorce, it's on the table as an option forever more. I don't necessarily agree. I think his comment may have partially been driven by immaturity and youth. Your husband has not lived long enough to learn life/coping skills, and he thinks separating is the only solution. I would not give up on the relationship just yet. Marriage is a commitment and it's often naked work. I think your idea of counseling is right on; for you together and maybe for him individually if he agrees to it. You may still have a future together, if you can learn some communication skills. And as a side note: not trying to be sexist here, but the chore thing is not at all uncommon with men, especially if they're young men who were not taught they need to be equal partners. There's probably just a learning curve here.