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Don't. It took me a quick google search to know that hypnotherapy doesn't cure someone's allergies, it just makes the symptoms less bad. You can bring it up but I'd honestly expect to be laughed at and not taken seriously.
That is absolutely not normal and is something he should've never, ever, ever told you. I shudder at the thought of mentioning that to any of the serious partners I've had. Like it would break their fucking heart so much I can't fathom saying that. This is absolutely none of my business, but hey you're posting it publicly on Reddit… But if you want to salvage this relationship this needs to be brought up in therapy, 100%. Maybe hearing from a therapist that his sexual tendencies is unhealthy will knock some sense in to him.
You don't deserve this, and this is extremely unhealthy and detrimental to your emotional well being. I hope you either get him the help he needs or you kick him out. This is unacceptable.
Sit him down and tell him that you are worried for him being totally off medication cold turkey. Maybe phrase it like “I know it’s a lot for you – let’s make the appointment together”
I'm glad to see that you understand that you are unreasonable. Your wife doesn't want any kids, and you can't bully her into it. If you cannot be happy without kids, then you need to divorce your wife and find someone else who wants to be a parent.
It would be cruel to both your wife and any child that is born if you coerce your wife into pregnancy. Don't do it.
DUDE friend zoned people drop hints. Shoot your shot be upfront.
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Don't. It took me a quick google search to know that hypnotherapy doesn't cure someone's allergies, it just makes the symptoms less bad. You can bring it up but I'd honestly expect to be laughed at and not taken seriously.
You can't fix someone who doesn't recognize that a problem exists.
…And probably terrified that any interaction with OP would be seen as an opening for him to ramp up the harassment and stalking behavior.
Nah, I like that you're picking favorites for them. Saves them the hassel later.
That is absolutely not normal and is something he should've never, ever, ever told you. I shudder at the thought of mentioning that to any of the serious partners I've had. Like it would break their fucking heart so much I can't fathom saying that. This is absolutely none of my business, but hey you're posting it publicly on Reddit… But if you want to salvage this relationship this needs to be brought up in therapy, 100%. Maybe hearing from a therapist that his sexual tendencies is unhealthy will knock some sense in to him.
You don't deserve this, and this is extremely unhealthy and detrimental to your emotional well being. I hope you either get him the help he needs or you kick him out. This is unacceptable.
Sit him down and tell him that you are worried for him being totally off medication cold turkey. Maybe phrase it like “I know it’s a lot for you – let’s make the appointment together”
I'm glad to see that you understand that you are unreasonable. Your wife doesn't want any kids, and you can't bully her into it. If you cannot be happy without kids, then you need to divorce your wife and find someone else who wants to be a parent.
It would be cruel to both your wife and any child that is born if you coerce your wife into pregnancy. Don't do it.
Friends, therapist, family ect. Perhaps you don't realise how frequent and often these complaints/whining happens
I do say all this to her, more than once..
Indeed