you are a depressive girl who is together with a guy who cuts himself not for attention(i actually believe him from what i read).
Yes this is not normal at all and in no way good for either of you two.
Be the better person and do therapy so that he is forced to do it too . In the end both of you can profit from it.
It is nude to determine from a one sided text if he is abusive or if you are the person in the wrong( manipulative people would write the story in their favor ;D ) .
But yeah, i felt young again when i read all of this. sounded like the typical relationship people had back then in my age in the emo/rock scene. Good old times.
If his feelings are making you question your decision, you can sit down with a “you know, I said what I wanted, but I feel like we didn't really discuss this and make a decision as a team. Can we do that now?”
No. His feelings don't matter. OP should NEVER keep a child against her will, just because he wants her to. She doesn't need to make decisions as a team. Her body, her choice.
Good luck and remember, he has more to lose than you in this situation, don’t believe him when he tries to tell you different. You can destroy his career far more thoroughly and easily than he can destroy yours. Academic institutions do not need this kind of sexual exploitation committed by senior staff or faculty happening.
He sounds like a completely appalling person and I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with all of this.
One more thing to remember, it is not your fault that a person who was in a position of power over you, and who you should have been able to trust, used his power to manipulate and exploit you. All of that is on him.
I would not say a word. So so rude.
Lol okay so only women are getting triggered and giving me Bias responses
you are a depressive girl who is together with a guy who cuts himself not for attention(i actually believe him from what i read).
Yes this is not normal at all and in no way good for either of you two.
Be the better person and do therapy so that he is forced to do it too . In the end both of you can profit from it.
It is nude to determine from a one sided text if he is abusive or if you are the person in the wrong( manipulative people would write the story in their favor ;D ) .
But yeah, i felt young again when i read all of this. sounded like the typical relationship people had back then in my age in the emo/rock scene. Good old times.
Well even if he didn’t verbalize it, he certainly agreed non-verbally by participating freely in the IVF program including the embryo implantation
He's supposedly making up lies about you and using your mental illnesses against you.
Remind me again why you want to stay?
What do you get upset with her about?
“Turns out I've been trickle truthed”
No one says this.
If his feelings are making you question your decision, you can sit down with a “you know, I said what I wanted, but I feel like we didn't really discuss this and make a decision as a team. Can we do that now?”
No. His feelings don't matter. OP should NEVER keep a child against her will, just because he wants her to. She doesn't need to make decisions as a team. Her body, her choice.
Good luck and remember, he has more to lose than you in this situation, don’t believe him when he tries to tell you different. You can destroy his career far more thoroughly and easily than he can destroy yours. Academic institutions do not need this kind of sexual exploitation committed by senior staff or faculty happening.
He sounds like a completely appalling person and I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with all of this.
One more thing to remember, it is not your fault that a person who was in a position of power over you, and who you should have been able to trust, used his power to manipulate and exploit you. All of that is on him.