You either accept being her friend, with NO expectations or you cut off contact. You can’t trick her into dating you. You can’t guilt her into dating you. You can’t gaslight her into dating you.
You can overthink yourself to the point of insanity. She’s made it clear she’s not interested in being with you romantically. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy your friendship.
Thanks y’all for the comments! I ran for the hills, and. Am much happier. With someone who is way more respectful, sweet, and living a much more balanced life
DO NOT GO TO THERAPY WITH AN ABUSER. Abusers weaponize therapy. Never go to therapy with an abuser. This is an absolute rule and does not have exceptions.
. It appears that if you want this to stop, you need to get your sex drive back. I’ll be honest. I’m sick to my stomach typing this.
Next time the thought of typing something makes you sick to your stomach, don't. This is actively harmful, god-awful advice.
I do think a relationship is still possible after all of this but oddly enough you can not be the middle person here.
Since you were basically caught in the middle by violence it only makes sense that your father AND husband try to make this right themselves. If your husband loves you, he should reach out and try to make amends. And your father should try to make amends as well if he wants to stay in your life. Having said that, they both need to want this so they need to be mature enough to look pass their ego. But you also need to look pass your own ego as well, because you should not put yourself in harms way just because you miss them. If you turn around to say to that your father is unwilling to make amends in this situation then I really don't see why you would visit them at all.
Kate is the toxic one it seems, and jealous of the fact you cut her out of your life. Her current behavior just proves that your GF gave you great advice in telling you to cut her off
This is golden advice
Try over a year at least.. sometimes he swaps genders too.
Cuddle on the couch and watch something. Those are my favorite dates.
Dude do you even have to ask
You either accept being her friend, with NO expectations or you cut off contact. You can’t trick her into dating you. You can’t guilt her into dating you. You can’t gaslight her into dating you.
You can overthink yourself to the point of insanity. She’s made it clear she’s not interested in being with you romantically. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy your friendship.
Thanks y’all for the comments! I ran for the hills, and. Am much happier. With someone who is way more respectful, sweet, and living a much more balanced life
Thank you. I definitely will think about it for a bit before coming to a decision.
You've posted this before.
I agree with you on many of your points, but why does that matter?
Why does it matter if your family disagrees?
You have a difference in opinion/views. It's not a big deal.
I would suggest couples therapy
DO NOT GO TO THERAPY WITH AN ABUSER. Abusers weaponize therapy. Never go to therapy with an abuser. This is an absolute rule and does not have exceptions.
. It appears that if you want this to stop, you need to get your sex drive back. I’ll be honest. I’m sick to my stomach typing this.
Next time the thought of typing something makes you sick to your stomach, don't. This is actively harmful, god-awful advice.
I do think a relationship is still possible after all of this but oddly enough you can not be the middle person here.
Since you were basically caught in the middle by violence it only makes sense that your father AND husband try to make this right themselves. If your husband loves you, he should reach out and try to make amends. And your father should try to make amends as well if he wants to stay in your life. Having said that, they both need to want this so they need to be mature enough to look pass their ego. But you also need to look pass your own ego as well, because you should not put yourself in harms way just because you miss them. If you turn around to say to that your father is unwilling to make amends in this situation then I really don't see why you would visit them at all.
My brother in Christ neither are YOU ??
Use oral dem. She will feel better
Kate is the toxic one it seems, and jealous of the fact you cut her out of your life. Her current behavior just proves that your GF gave you great advice in telling you to cut her off