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Date: October 11, 2022
I don't think your girlfriend is selfish from what you've described, and if you want to continue a relationship with her it's best you not think of her that way. It sounds like you are going overboard on giving and then not liking that she's giving back a normal amount?
1- talk to her! Some people are scared to intimate sex or have their own reasons. Say “hey I notice you don't initiate sex. I feel weird for always doing it. Can we talk about why?” As for the morning sex, you can ask for it but she shouldn't have to pretend to be excited when she's still groggy. You can ask though. And if you do feel resentment about doing things for her, stop doing them. If she asks you two, say “hey how about we pleasure each other.”
2- why didn't you speak up? She may have different levels of safety than you do, or doesn't like confrontation.
3- don't do things expecting to get something back. Being verbally appreciated is enough. If you want items back in exchange, it's probably best you don't go above and beyond.
I would move on. Sounds like your relationship is over. I understand both sides of this, as I get asked for advice, or am a confidant for other women. I always tell my wife about it. She expresses her distrust in them, but trusts me. I've got a damn good Woman and won't jeopardize what we've got, and am not interested in doing so. But I've always been a sounding wall for women. Mom said one time “If there's a girl within 5 miles of you who has a problem, they'll find you”.
I kind of blame them (humorously) as they were older when raising me, and both Mom and Dad imparted a LOT of wisdom on me. And in all the years since, I've just added to it.
How old are you two?
It very much sounds like you are teenagers or very very early adults
Everybody has a preference and that's okay but it's her choice
It's okay that you hate it, it's okay it's a deal breaker, but acting like she is in the wrong for it is mean
I myself have a pixiecut and have had it for years and am now letting it grow out It's just preference
Don't be mean about it. She can have pixie cuts they are super cute.
I assure you everyone who knows any of this thinks you are all equally trashy.
WTF why do you keep fucking him, he has and did rape you. He is manipulating and abusing you. Stop being anywhere near him.
And the #1 response is….
What did HE say about this????
Maybe they cant afford anything? Maybe they suck like he does?
Why do I have the feeling he's awful out of the bedroom too? That kind of selfishness and cruelty can't be compartmentalized.
Are you sure you aren’t being love bombed? Cause there are lots of signs in your post…
Is there a reason u feel like u have to hide ur pain and stick by him?
Only do what u feel like u want to. Focus on how u feel. Not him.
He is on his deathbed, but that doesn’t mean u have to stick by him … and that is okay. Make choices on ur feelings
I will update but I have been packing my things, he is asleep on the couch but he seems adamant to the break up. I don’t think apologizing will help
Yeah, my wife gets mostly booktok, and for some reason I get a lot of electricians, physicists, and off-gridders.
Strap yourself in! Something had to compel her to confess at random 10 years later, when you had absolutely no clue it happened. My guess is someone is putting pressure on her or threatening to expose her, and she's trying to get ahead of it. This confession might just be the first of many, each one getting worse. Whatever the case, something happened recently that caused her to confess. Your job is to find out what that is. In your position, I don't think I could ever get past this. She woke up every day and decided to lie to you for 14 years. You shouldn't believe a word out of her mouth.
Why can't he do it himself?
Yeah we're a bit far from any beach. I mean it's not bad, like an hour and a half. So that'd have to be planned as heading that way as apart of the date likely
Info: what is the background info here? Did y'all discuss having kids before this point? What was his stance?
Time to break up. No seriously.
You haven't done anything wrong. Most people have or want to have sex far more than you've asked.
Sex is a completely normal and often necessary part of any relationship.
If she's asexual there's nothing wrong with that, but this is going to be a growing issue if you stay with her.
You shouldn't be ashamed of yourself, again, you did nothing wrong.
You two are not compatible long term.
Really? You’re wondering if you should sleep with a married woman?
Please, tell me all the stories you’ve heard about sleeping with someone else’s wife that end well.
I get that she’s hot, and you’re horny. Seriously, find someone else to bang.
Does the word start with a C? Because I was thinking the same thing. I’ve had my fair share of bans for much less, though, and I enjoy being a part of this page, or community or however you say it.
I don’t think anyone else can answer if your wife would be happy with what you’ve planned. I know people who’d love it, those who think it’s over the top and those who would be disappointed.
Have you discussed finances? Is she aware that you’re trying to budget better?
I would buy flowers (ones she likes) and give them to her directly- that’s heaps cheaper than having roses delivered.
Is the restaurant special for any reason other than being “high end”? Is there somewhere a bit cheaper, but special? Could you do a romantic home cooked meal with candles etc
Just leave her alone, Op.
You SAY you don't want anything more like dating or a relationship?
Leave her alone.
Time for divorce buddy. She has no intention of getting back together and is she did, why would you want to?
Man I thought I was going to read about a childhood friend or something. Three months and he wants to go out of the country with her on a drinking trip alone? Girl… you are not insane. That’s incredibly weird and his whole reaction feels a bit like he’s trying to manipulate you into thinking you’re on the wrong.
Why would you need to go in a drinking trip alone with someone else to “form a better friendship?” That doesn’t make sense.
Why do they even need a better friendship to begin with? You would also think if he plans on being such good friends with this girl he’d want her to like and also spend time with his girlfriend of a year.
Gotta be honest I was expecting a different story from the title
Why would you stay in this relationship? You must have extremely low self esteem. You could start building it back up by taking control of your life and leaving this relationship.
In this same comment thread you admitted to getting “accidentally” pregnant then list all the ways you definitely didn’t think through unprotected sex so no you don’t think things through
Depending on the laws in OP's area, she's likely qualify for alimony since she has been substantially dependent on OP for well over a decade.
Basically, she might be able to keep mooching off OP even after divorce.
Are you lost?
She went on his phone. She saw he purchased a tinder membership. He deleted the app to try and hide it. So she downloaded tinder ON HIS PHONE to see if he had been messaging people, and it turns out he has been. He deleted the app to try and hide the fact that he’s been using it, but he’s been redownloaded it and using it when she’s not around.
This analogy is awful. In your analogy, the woman is upset that the man is hot and bathing in his own house and privacy, something completely normal. In this Reddit post, her boyfriend is paying money for tinder and is trying to to cheat on her again using it, and she caught him. She’s not twisting something innocent into something bad.
I don’t get how you’re painting him to be innocent and her to be a villain here. He’s buying a tinder membership, and using it to talk to women and try and cheat on his girlfriend. Yes, she invaded his privacy to find this out, but she’s not twisting the truth. She’s discovered that he’s cheating on her again, which he’s done many times before.
Just so you know, I see absolutely nothing wrong with you sharing a bed with your brother, especially when he could use the emotional support. I would have done the same thing and know many other healthy siblings who would too. Even if your brother is just visiting and half your bed is free because your partner is away – if it were simply because of comfort reasons for the 2 of you, that makes enough sense to me.
You did nothing wrong or weird. Certainly nothing to apologize for!
Right?? Is OP dating Anna Wintour? Girl, you can do better than someone who is mean to you because of how you choose to do your hair
Right?? Is OP dating Anna Wintour? Girl, you can do better than someone who is mean to you because of how you choose to do your hair
Right?? Is OP dating Anna Wintour? Girl, you can do better than someone who is mean to you because of how you choose to do your hair
His stupidity ultimately may be he end of this marriage. Why people do this is so beyond the realm of my understanding. It never ends good for most.
The survival rate of these type of relationships is so low. Being married and having a FWB! As they say actions have consequences. Even if they revert back to monogamy it maybe too late.
Why do people have to F##k up a good thing. Or in this case a marriage and a 4 year relationship!!
I see this less gloomy than the rest. She broke with a toxic person with whom she also had sex with to be with you. Now you’re talking about the future together and she genuinely wants to clear things up upfront.
Simple solution you divorce. He wanted his cake and eat it to.
At this point both of you are better off with ought each other
I don’t think you are grasping the concept of breaking up.
You are not together, you are not friends. Why does he owe you an explanation of anything?
It seems to bother you that he is ready to actually focus on himself and you are not.
I suggest you get off reddit because there’s no relationship advice for you here, you are not in a relationship.
Telling him would be a shitty thing to do to that kid.
It's none of your business anymore.
I had women come back into my life, also bullies that suddenly wanted me. I told them 'NO'. Why would I bother with vile people? Regardless if they were kids at the time or not, there is no reason to have them in my life. Karma strikes hot.
Yes and they mind starts to suspect. But she’s been there for me at other times. Came down to do some reiki healing for my mum. But everytime there’s a tiff about some small misunderstanding, it has to snowball into a situation that doesn’t need to be stressful
A few tips for your next story:
In real life, stuff like this doesn't happen all at once. They usually trickle until there's a small event that makes it all “click” and the realization then hits all at once. But all of the events don't happen in one day.
Normal people are often very intimate with each other fairly early on into a relationship. Kissing, terms of endearment, and sex usually happen within a month, if not sooner.
His coach texting you is not believable at all. In real life, this type of dynamic is weird and creepy.
Wife and I had this conversation 30+years ago. Needless to say, I think it worked out pretty good for us. Good luck to you.
Well, I mean it seems fine if it’s one weekend day and you get one as well. And if he’s helping get the house work done before he goes.
I dunno. Seems to me you already resent him so adding a baby to the mix doesn’t seem wise. Seems to me he needs to demonstrate that he can and will tone it down and be more present else having kids shouldn’t be on the table at all.
To be fair, I am childfree by choice. I couldn’t have the career I have, the hobbies I have, or the relationship that I have if I had kids of my own. Love my stepson but he has two parents already and they manage most of the things. I manage the dogs and horses and dinners and such but I am not the one on the hook to run kiddo to practice or the sitter. I do keep him when he’s sick as I work from home when not traveling but that’s about as much responsibility as I usually take.
Your husband doesn’t seem that interested in the marriage relationship let alone a parenting one….
Did this behavior start only after you got married? Or before? You should consult a lawyer about what alimony is going to look like in this situation.
She had a threesome with the two of them. Maybe before you were in the picture, who knows? But yeah, I wouldn’t stick around if she’s not willing to explain herself.
Also he texted her “baby” because that’s what his wife said? Lol, she’s lying man.