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Suzan Sexy, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 27, 2022
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There are way too many red flags in this and I don't buy for a second that this is actually platonic. Always doing things for her, 1:1 activities, being sneaky and secretive, overly attentive to her and buying gifts. That's a lot for just a coworker. On top of all of that is his defensive attitude. He knows what he's doing is wrong or he wouldn't be so upset. My husband has predominantly female friends. They would NEVER dream of doing this stuff to me. My husband always communicates with me. He doesn't just run off with them. He listens to me if I am uncomfortable with something. Everyone is very understanding with adjustments being made if necessary. They certainly never do 1:1 stuff. It's pretty much always in a group if he is going somewhere. I am always invited to go with them and they genuinely want me there. There are times when I do and times when I can't. I explicitly trust my husband and his friends. The way your fiancé is acting though screams cheating. Your right he doesn't respect you or the relationship. He most likely never will and this is bound to happen again and again. At the very least there is definitely emotional cheating but I wouldn't dismiss physical cheating either with the 1:1 stuff. I absolutely wouldn't take him back. You deserve someone in life who is not going to do stuff like this. You deserve someone who will listen to your expressed fears and concerns and actually hear what you are saying. Your ex is too busy making excuses for his poor behavior and I highly doubt he cut her loose. He's just being more sneaky about it.
Wow. That’s messed up….this would honestly be a dealbreaker for me. Your husband literally put another human being out into this world, without even talking about it with you? This is not even a one time/affair thing, a lot of planning, effort and money goes into this. And then he says he thought it wasn’t a big deal? If that’s really true, he would have done the opposite and talked about it with you. He very well did think that it was a big deal, that’s why he kept it from you. you.
This could be true, however I’ve known him for 20 years and we were friends long before we were together and his loser friends always did drugs but he didn’t, but yeah who knows at this point
didn’t you just say you take birth control pills? it’s not adding up
She's just not into you that way. She most likely doesn't want to be rude. A woman that is truly interested will reciprocate and make time for you.
You made three posts in two days asking the same question. You may be coming on a bit desperate and clingy imo.
Demanding that romantic partners block people is never a great look on anyone. But let your imagination run wild. Perhaps this ex has continued to message your boyfriend. So what, your bf apparently prefers to be with you. Don't make an issue out of something that doesn't matter. Looking for reasons to argue is usually a great way to ruin an otherwise good relationship. Good luck.
Why? Genuinely asking
I've been there.
It's going to hurt but keep reminding yourself why it won't work. Try making new friends and busy yourself with them. Find comfort elsewhere.
And if all else fails when your heart keeps pining, look at the mirror and tell yourself “stfu. He wasnt right for me. And I don't need him. “
Good luck on your journey sweetheart.
Yes, like I said he didn't realise how much it was upsetting you, he was laughing and thought it was playful teasing and fun. Once you used the word “creep”, he recognized it was distressing to you and he never did it again.
Would you have a tantrum if one your relatives started dating someone named Rosie or if a coworker is named that? Would you start screaming at a cashier for being named that ? If the answer is no you need to grow up and get grief therapy it's been long enough for you to have been proactive in your grief.
As someone who is now married with kids and only 27, I still had a whole list of things I wanted to do before settling down and I didn’t get around to them before meeting my now husband. I LOVE my life now, but I resent the people who I feel “held me back” in the past. Can’t imagine how happy I’d be now if I got the chance to do some of the things I had always wanted.
If you don’t just let it go, she may resent you for it. Take the time to do something for yourself
Seems like a troll post.
But..but.. she wasn't thinking about cheating. ?
Your wife told you she was raped and she killer said rapist and your response was to ignore it and comment on something that happened on the tv show? I hope for your sake this is a fake post.
I should also add that there is almost no chance she physically cheated because we were constantly together (and I mean constantly), but the thought that she may have been emotionally cheating is destroying me and my happy memories of the relationship. I just keep thinking “That thing we did was so perfect, but what if she wanted to be with this other guy during it”.
Home life was pretty good, but my parents were divorced very early on in my life. And I heard things as a child about my mother from my father that no child should have to hear. My siblings and I basically acted as a pawn for my father. It took me MANY years to realize (only until after I had escaped my abuse) that he had actually been abusive to her, and that was a major reason for their divorce. He weaponized the children by turning us against her little by little…I won’t go into detail about what he said about her, but basically he told us what he believed would make us not want to be around her. My dad also returned home to his native country for personal reasons when I was in my late teens, and I stayed with my mom because I didn’t want to leave my own country behind. I know all of this is connected to the major struggle I had in recovering after my first abusive relationship. I think it still leaves a deep scar on me because of the fact that I didn’t really ever have the relationship with my father that I wanted to. I was a self-proclaimed “Daddy’s Girl,” and my father would be inclined to agree. But when you’re growing up with a parent who never learned to be present with his children, you grow up seeking it all your life. I have gone to therapy and have talked through a lot of the traumas and pain I’ve experienced from the past, but I do think this abusive relationship from so many years ago has been difficult because of all the crashing and burning and highs and lows…none of which are actually signs of a healthy relationship. It’s like being manic and depressed, terrified but unable to move. I know very logically the man who abused me didn’t and does not deserve me. But it’s strange, the scar he left. I am so much happier, safer, and healthier now in my current relationship. I don’t fear for my life anymore. The man I am with now doesn’t hurt me, physically or emotionally. I am safe, and we love each other. We talk often of the future…it’s just hot to have random thoughts of someone who so horribly hurt me in the past. I know I may never completely stop thinking, but it has gotten much easier over time.
You have to show your family you've changed through long term, sustained appropriate behavior.
You destroyed their trust in you. That's not something that can be fixed in the short term. I'd do some reading about rebuilding trust, especially as it relates to alcoholics and addicts.