She tried to victimize me again, just few years back. Over past 15 years I have built a good career and in my industry I’m somewhat known. I’m not famous or well loved or anything, I just have a reputation as a nice guy in an otherwise shitty industry.
During the me too stuff, she decided to come after me, I don’t know why. She sent emails to mutual friends and a few reporters that she felt it’s imperative she open up about what I had done to her…
she had forgotten she had sent me that email many years ago. it was very easy for me to point people to that email, and the whole situation back fired on her. She lost all her friends, all her network, all her credibility. She is still married though lol.
My wife wanted to wreck her financially /legally (my wife is an attorney and she felt this woman was going after my livelihood with her lies). but for now she has respected my wishes that we put it all behind us and move on. But I have that in my back pocket, if this lunatic comes after me a third time, I am letting my wife loose lol and no man woman god or beast can stop her when she’s protecting me :)!
Yeah , though he wasn't telling me what to do, he was just giving advice on what he thinks would be better based on the fact we own the house and have pets. Anyways, I think I'll take my shit and leave. I know we had big problems, but he is just torturing me emotionally. I just saw him chatting on a dating app and smile like if he were in love. I feel like he was just looking for excuses to end the relationship so he could be free.
It needs a lot more than love for a relationship to work. You don’t need permission from Reddit to end your situation. You know your relationship is over. You need to sum up the strength to make it happen.
You know how the flight attendant tells you to put your own oxygen mask on first? This is that moment in your relationship. You need to decide whether him dating HIS EX GF while he's dating you will make you happy. If not, then don't do it. That is NOT a poly relationship (and I'm in a poly relationship). He is just trying to find a way to crowd you out without being the bad guy.
If she was really interested you wouldn't have to work that hot for her attention. You were somebody to pay attention to her when she needed it. It hurts but move on bro.
Thank you for the kind words.
She tried to victimize me again, just few years back. Over past 15 years I have built a good career and in my industry I’m somewhat known. I’m not famous or well loved or anything, I just have a reputation as a nice guy in an otherwise shitty industry.
During the me too stuff, she decided to come after me, I don’t know why. She sent emails to mutual friends and a few reporters that she felt it’s imperative she open up about what I had done to her…
she had forgotten she had sent me that email many years ago. it was very easy for me to point people to that email, and the whole situation back fired on her. She lost all her friends, all her network, all her credibility. She is still married though lol.
My wife wanted to wreck her financially /legally (my wife is an attorney and she felt this woman was going after my livelihood with her lies). but for now she has respected my wishes that we put it all behind us and move on. But I have that in my back pocket, if this lunatic comes after me a third time, I am letting my wife loose lol and no man woman god or beast can stop her when she’s protecting me :)!
Yeah , though he wasn't telling me what to do, he was just giving advice on what he thinks would be better based on the fact we own the house and have pets. Anyways, I think I'll take my shit and leave. I know we had big problems, but he is just torturing me emotionally. I just saw him chatting on a dating app and smile like if he were in love. I feel like he was just looking for excuses to end the relationship so he could be free.
don't do therapy with an abuser.
Your wife should have done something other than laugh, this isn’t funny at all. I smell something rotten in Denmark.
It needs a lot more than love for a relationship to work. You don’t need permission from Reddit to end your situation. You know your relationship is over. You need to sum up the strength to make it happen.
Oh nooo, how will Reddit cope without right wing incels like OP? /s
I hate lazy trolls, their rage bait is pathetic and they can't even be bothered to cover their tracks.
i just want to make him happy
No. Just no. Stop right there.
You know how the flight attendant tells you to put your own oxygen mask on first? This is that moment in your relationship. You need to decide whether him dating HIS EX GF while he's dating you will make you happy. If not, then don't do it. That is NOT a poly relationship (and I'm in a poly relationship). He is just trying to find a way to crowd you out without being the bad guy.
If she was really interested you wouldn't have to work that hot for her attention. You were somebody to pay attention to her when she needed it. It hurts but move on bro.