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Date: January 4, 2023
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I just went up and read it again. Amy messaged you wanting to go on a vacation. You told Beth. Beth got mad.
You didnt say to Amy that sounds great I will ask Beth to see if she is down.. or anything Beth gets upset because you didn't even invite her. — happy for your update. You can't have 2 girlfriends (unless they are okay with that lol)
She’s allowed to have this as a boundary and you’re allowed to still go but it may mean she won’t want to be with you anymore. You have to decide if it’s worth risking your relationship. She isn’t controlling you, she’s making a decision for herself about the type of relationship she wants to be in. Apparently she wants to be in one where you don’t go on trips with the opposite sex.
Re: telling your friend you’re not going, I think you should be able to be honest that it’s your girlfriend who wants to have this rule. This may make their friendship more strained but I think it’s not worth lying to her about the reasons and this is a consequence of setting this kind of boundary. I’d explain and suggest again taking partners on the trip if you still want to go.
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Thankyou for your advice I will google it.
For starters, don't say tranny. It's transphobic.
Anyways, moving past that. Whether you want to admit it or not, you are 100% in an emotionally abusive and immature relationship. That much is pretty easy to see.
That being said I'm going to try to give you realistic advice. Please remember I'm in no way saying its easy. But yes you should probably leave him.
You are young. You both have a lot of growing up to do. He is abusive and by the sounds of it immature. He needs to make changes in order for any long term relationship. The only reason it works on you is because you've been together so long and you mention your dad was also abusive, so it probably seems normal to you. It's not. You've never learned what being in a healthy relationship is. But you seem to understand and are realizing it's not.
The changes he needs to make are probably not going to happen while you two are together. I'm sorry but they're just probably not. Sometimes people only change when they know they lost you or can lose you. Even then, some people just do not change. This is not something you should try to do with people who are abusive.
You need to start making an escape plan. You have been with him since you were 15 so don't feel bad about being in this position financially relying on him.
As for you, you need to learn what a healthy relationship is.