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No. The military doesn’t have to co-locate you. Since you’re not the same branch, co-locating you will be even more difficult. It’s not just that you’re together, it’s your MOS and rate that has to be considered, and whether or not there is an open billet at bases close to each other.
You haven’t known each other long, the military is tough on relationships, the military doesn’t have to co-locate you. Getting married to get stationed together is not a good idea.
What he needs to do is end it, and explain why. He needs to have a regular conversation with her. Where he gives his reasons.
And the question is did he or did he not encourage emotional attachment to himself with the responsibilities that that entails? Also don't we have some kind of responsibility to understand that right now in our society, people just aren't good at processing information well.
We don't need to expect him to be perfect to tell him that he missed the mark. We need to uphold the standards, simply for the reason that if we give in to how crappy things are, that will be the new bare minimum. We need to make sure we're making less concessions than we are of reinforcing the actual standards. And the standards just tie into respect honor and kindness. And when we make it okay to lower those standards, we encourage things to get worse. And if your outlook isn't already rosy then if you want to change how things are in society you're going to need to tighten the standards even more.
Nah I would be out of there so fast. That’s a huge red flag there . Your girlfriend is not a nice of good person. How someone treats wait staff or the janitor tells you alot about them. Run ?♀️
Thank you, really appreciate the kind comments. It's been a rough couple of days. We're not in america, if that gives you any ideas. Just not comfortable saying too much.
Thanks again for your perspective and advice. Going to try!
I understand that you don’t want to divorce, but unfortunately OP, I don’t think you really have a choice right now. He doesn’t want to fix the relationship & you can’t make him. That’s not something that can be fixed.
No. The military doesn’t have to co-locate you. Since you’re not the same branch, co-locating you will be even more difficult. It’s not just that you’re together, it’s your MOS and rate that has to be considered, and whether or not there is an open billet at bases close to each other.
You haven’t known each other long, the military is tough on relationships, the military doesn’t have to co-locate you. Getting married to get stationed together is not a good idea.
What he needs to do is end it, and explain why. He needs to have a regular conversation with her. Where he gives his reasons.
And the question is did he or did he not encourage emotional attachment to himself with the responsibilities that that entails? Also don't we have some kind of responsibility to understand that right now in our society, people just aren't good at processing information well.
We don't need to expect him to be perfect to tell him that he missed the mark. We need to uphold the standards, simply for the reason that if we give in to how crappy things are, that will be the new bare minimum. We need to make sure we're making less concessions than we are of reinforcing the actual standards. And the standards just tie into respect honor and kindness. And when we make it okay to lower those standards, we encourage things to get worse. And if your outlook isn't already rosy then if you want to change how things are in society you're going to need to tighten the standards even more.
Nah I would be out of there so fast. That’s a huge red flag there . Your girlfriend is not a nice of good person. How someone treats wait staff or the janitor tells you alot about them. Run ?♀️
Thank you, really appreciate the kind comments. It's been a rough couple of days. We're not in america, if that gives you any ideas. Just not comfortable saying too much.
Thanks again for your perspective and advice. Going to try!
I understand that you don’t want to divorce, but unfortunately OP, I don’t think you really have a choice right now. He doesn’t want to fix the relationship & you can’t make him. That’s not something that can be fixed.
At the end of the day do what you want to do, just make sure you break up with him after