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Date: October 18, 2022
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Don’t ever tell me where your sister lives. I swear to god I want to do evil things to people who mistreat and abuse animals. It makes me angry to my core. My advice is to take him to a vet to get checked out physically, and provide him safety and comfort and hope it brings him back up over time. Poor baby.
I better not say anything else. Wouldn't want you sending cancel culture my way. ? ? ?
I dont think people realize you’re being sarcastic 🙁
I get that. When I was married, I used to go to football games with my buds and tailgate and all that. Get to the game early to tailgate, stay late after the traffic died down. My wife hated it. I would get texts asking why I wasn't home yet, and before I left for the game she would be upset I was leaving so early. The next season I got an extra ticket so she could come, she enjoyed the game, but hated everything else.
The issue wasn't that I was having fun at the game, it was the fact she wanted me home, with her. It took me a long time to figure out what her deal was. The main issue was she wanted me to be excited about her as much as I was excited about hanging out with my friends at the game.
My real advice is to find something for you and your partner to do which you both can look forward to amd enjoy together. That may ease his feelings about you going out as well. Just a thought.
With all that said, I don't think my ex wife's stance or feelings about the matter were invalid or controlling or anything like that. It was just what she wanted in the relationship. After we got divorced, she is still a homebody who would rather sit down on the couch and watch TV more than anything else.
So you already had your own place, where he crashed frequently. While he was crashing with you, he got into screaming matches towards you that got you evicted from your place. Then you found yourself another place, and he's angry, why? People who say they “feel inadequate” when their partner does normal adult things, is not a healthy situation, at all, honey. Please get out of this before things escalate further. Which they will. He's shown you classic signs of toxic and abusive behavior already. This will only get worse for you. Please find a safe way to get this guy out of your life, permanently.
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Or just… completely unfamiliar with dealing with people who will just… pull a gun out
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This isn't that unusual, and you shouldn't take it personally, but i know it's hot not to. .Ask her if the reason that she doesn't do those things with you is that she views you differently than her exes. Does she view your relationship on a different level, or does she think you may be a long term option or a safe option. A lot of women for a lack of a better term go vanilla when they find the guy in their mind might be the one. They don't want you to view them as anything but the perfect wife. There are a lot of different subs where this exact issue pops up, and it's always the guy feeling like his partner doesn't care for him like her exes when, in fact, it is the opposite. And sometimes, they just don't want to do it anymore…..
My momma always told me, if a partner demands you to throw out pictures of your past you throw them out.
But also don't be with someone who calls you a C**t.
Could be the self doubt of being worthy of love? Perhaps work on your inner happiness and healing process of past traumas. Once you're content with yourself, then is a good time to open your heart to a potential relationship but keeping in mind to not just settle for anyone.
When a woman gives off a desperate vibe, it makes it harder for her to connect with men as they don't usually want to deal with someone emotional and if they feel smothered by her in the initial stages.
Make sure you take up a hobby or 2 so that you're keeping yourself busy and not relying on a man to fill any voids (as he's going to want space without being questioned).
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I think there was something off about this whole thing from the get-go. I'm not gonna pose as some threeway expert, but it's def not normal to chat daily with your random threesome third. Right?? Sex is something you discuss beforehand, sure, then meet up, have sex, end of story. You don't develop a deeper relationship via talking so much, like this person is your actual friend. It seems, from the start when she found him, she was building up a very different relationship than “A random dude I'm gonna fuck with my bf once”. She was developing an emotional connection that, IMO, goes beyond what you agreed to when agreeing to the threeway.
Sadly, this is something she is doing, not you, so you can't repair it or “move forward” as long as she keeps the doors open. She is the one that has to leave this idea completely, shut the door in her own mind. Without her doing that, there's no moving forward and you can't really make her do it. She has to want to.
If things are so good right now that may mean that you don’t know how he handles conflict, or if the two of you together can effectively communicate and work through major or minor issues. I’m not saying to intentionally cause conflict to test him, but you should know that you can handle that together before making a commitment to marriage.
Let it heal .. tell him you need time if he is genuine I think it's worth another shot
honestly… could very well be the outcome here.
but the reality is that i WAS pregnant (homeboy is Not shooting blanks)
we talked about having kids together. i do love him…but i also do accept the outcome that he doesn't want to be with me.
I was a SAH dog mom and step mom for a couple of years when we were living in countries where I couldn’t work. I kept things immaculate, made awesome meals, handled all the things. It totally can be a full time job to run a household if you’re doing it to a certain standard. That standard is not possible when you work full time plus.
Even now, there are times when I just have to blow off certain housework or ask my partner to handle dinner when I have to work late or have a crisis in one of my projects. It’s not what I want per se but it’s what we have. I think adjusting standards is a big help—not beating yourself up when you can’t do it all.
Agree with all you said and your questions for OP. I’m assuming that she’s having to do customer facing low wage work and that stuff is kind of soul sucking at times. I hope she can find some training and find a role that is more fulfilling.