My boyfriend bought a girl a drink one night when I had been buying his. They both treated me like a ghost. This was like 6 or 7 years ago, but it still hurts me to this day. I wasn’t even a second thought.
I don’t really mind the leaving, I mind the him completely hiding my existence and not acknowledging the fact that he is doing so. His mother – although very childlike and self-centered- still understands what is going on around her and I don’t think it would be too much for her to deal with (and we have actually had a great time whenever together – she even showed me photos of my boyfriend and told me I would adore him if I ever met him ?) so although i did offer, and I don’t mind, I would like to not feel like he has to hide me throughout it. I don’t mind the space, I mind the shutting up when he’s on the phone with her, lying when I see her and moving out of the frame when they’re on FaceTime and I don’t understand why it’s necessary
Dudes getting shitfaced hot + your wife with no clothes on, and your like, sure honey go for it? WTF. Really tough to have any sympathy for your feelings about it now. How do you determine where the line is in that situation. Cheating, probably not, unless she invited it. Absolutely idiotic to be in that situation, yes.
link? also he sounds like busy bee. his interactions with everyone is fine too serve his purpose. he just might be a stick in the mud kinda guy. focused and knows more than others. so he makes everyone look and feel lesser than him, may not do it intentionally, but just happens. while doing this , he didn't project leadership which he Likely did not.
people avoid him because they he fail to connect with him . or more likey falls to read the room and to e out down.
ask him to take the emotional intelligence test. it's short.
My boyfriend bought a girl a drink one night when I had been buying his. They both treated me like a ghost. This was like 6 or 7 years ago, but it still hurts me to this day. I wasn’t even a second thought.
I don’t really mind the leaving, I mind the him completely hiding my existence and not acknowledging the fact that he is doing so. His mother – although very childlike and self-centered- still understands what is going on around her and I don’t think it would be too much for her to deal with (and we have actually had a great time whenever together – she even showed me photos of my boyfriend and told me I would adore him if I ever met him ?) so although i did offer, and I don’t mind, I would like to not feel like he has to hide me throughout it. I don’t mind the space, I mind the shutting up when he’s on the phone with her, lying when I see her and moving out of the frame when they’re on FaceTime and I don’t understand why it’s necessary
This is not something you can change, he is blatantly trying to wear you down. Be done and leave him.
Dudes getting shitfaced hot + your wife with no clothes on, and your like, sure honey go for it? WTF. Really tough to have any sympathy for your feelings about it now. How do you determine where the line is in that situation. Cheating, probably not, unless she invited it. Absolutely idiotic to be in that situation, yes.
I would assume if you are suspicious over paternity that would be advice a lawyer could offer
Cut your loses and find someone excited to have sex with you.
The moment you marry this woman, her legs would be superglued shup, say goodbye to your sex life (with her).
link? also he sounds like busy bee. his interactions with everyone is fine too serve his purpose. he just might be a stick in the mud kinda guy. focused and knows more than others. so he makes everyone look and feel lesser than him, may not do it intentionally, but just happens. while doing this , he didn't project leadership which he Likely did not.
people avoid him because they he fail to connect with him . or more likey falls to read the room and to e out down.
ask him to take the emotional intelligence test. it's short.
Yes, the constant verbal abuse will make you crazy. You didn't deserve any of this. What an awful situation. I am so sorry.