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Date: October 25, 2022
Meh, she broke up with you for communication issues, nothings been fixed in three months, and it has nothing to do with the entire sleeping with someone else. Truth is she isn't meant for you. Don't do the entire on and off relationship thing, just a clean break up and move on
All utilities get moved into his name effective your move out date. Storage gets moved into his name at the same time. Your name is taken off everything but the lease, and make sure you put it in writing that you are not renewing at the end of your lease.
Him having a bed or any of that extra stuff falls into a “His problem” bucket. Don't worry about those things.
Da longest river in Egypt is de Nile
It's not illegal if a business has a few employees then they are allowed to pay cash. Cleaning a house or dog walking is not paid by check…and nobody is saying that a business would deliberately allow because she's a refuge…wages are not low…people get paid minimum wage and above
I don’t understand why it’s so hot for you to communicate with her and tell her to stop this?? If the relationship is already strained why would it be hard to tell her a simple “no” or “if you bring someone else you have to pay for them” she’s not “sensitive “ trust me, she knows what she’s doing to get herself and everyone she wants a free meal. Stop being a pushover and just talk to her.
She should work harder to make up the difference. Call her lazy and tell her to work harder haha.
As a rando from the Internet, for whatever it's worth, I'm sorry that happened to you. It sucks to feel like an afterthought or to feel like you weren't even on the radar. Even if it were a thoughtless mistake it's still super hurtful.
Actually, no. But I've seen too many cases in too many work places.
I hope you don't find out.
And I already know he’s going to try to take her first
Why are you trying to be considerate towards a person you think is a complete asshole?
Update: he came home from work today to talk. The first thing he said was “do you think maybe you were dreaming and I didn’t say and do all of those things?” …….. the ultimate gas lighter
Ask yourself if you have the time and energy to hand-hold him through why that stuff is misogynistic, and if he will even listen to you if you try?
I've wasted years on people I thought would grow out of some pretty gross mindsets, but most of the time they don't, and if they do it probably won't be because you've shown them the light. It'll be because voicing that shit either costs them relationships/opportunities, or because they have an epiphany one day. They may learn to tone it down around you, but they won't change their mindset and you'll feel disappointed/disgusted every time they slip up and regurgitate some BS line they heard from their favorite hate group.
People who choose to poison their minds with that shit are choosing it for a reason- they get a rush from being riled up by an echo chamber.
What difference does it make if it’s before or after the wedding? It doesn’t change anything.
Yes. And women attempt suicide more often than men. You men’s mental health advocates seem to always try leave that out, men just choose more violent methods you can’t recover from
Your BF is exceedingly immature, and his expectations are totally unrealistic. Especially since you're living together.
I hope you will take a moment to stop and realize that one of the reasons people have partnerships and move in together is because they believe they have found someone they can truly be comfortable with and can be themselves. This guy is, literally, demanding that you NOT be comfortable with him or in your own home and make up some weird shit to role-playing or something.
Tell him to get real or get out. Seriously. Who wants to live that way?
Her not helping with chores. She started losing the weight a little before we started dating. I'd say that over the first 3 years, she lost about 40-50 lbs. Now, the weight she had lost is back. We do have our own health problems.
If they only see your husband in public it would be quite safe if they don't feel comfortable seeing you in the privacy of a home.
They come, stay in a hotel, you go to tourist places, eat out, and spend time together.
Who's calling you immature & selfish? Them??
Then who gives a fuck. Tell them that. And then move on.
So you’re projecting…? Coming up with missing info to fit what you’ve decided is their relationship? You don’t have enough info to make these claims whatsoever. Maybe OP is an abusive dick and the issue here isn’t really kids at all. But we don’t have that info to make those claims.
If you’ve NEVER said something mean to another person then bravo to you and you must be the freaking second coming of Jesus himself. MOST people however, have said hurtful things, knowing they’re hurtful but are not abusive people, they’re human.
His reason is that women are much more mature than men.
And that’s a bad thing? Ask him why.
For me it just feels he wants to go for the younger one because they are easier to control and will put up with unreasonable behavior.
Yes that really is the real reason
I think reddit is a bit naive about how easy it is to report sexual harassment and how much the powers that be actually care.
Your boyfriend making this all about his “trust issues” is shitty and worth reconsidering the relationship over.
You've applied to other jobs, and there's a good chance you'll find one that's just as good pretty soon. If you want to take further steps, do it from a safe place where you don't risk retaliation or a sudden loss of income. If your boyfriend doesn't understand this, he's a moron.
If that was literally the message, you're not biased. You're being an adult while your SO is being a child. What is making you doubt yourself here? Has he been fairly critical of you?
hot disagree on only the physical danger part. racists are always dangerous around the people they are racist towards. it doesn’t have to be physical. his children should be protected at all cost. it’s nice that you’ve had a good experience, but it’s doesn’t always happen.
racism doesn’t also always go away after meeting grandchildren, they just are the exception.
Wow. This guy is a giant baby. He wants a cliche sitcom wife.
My 15 year old used to do that when he was younger. Get mad at his little brother and declare that he's not going to play with him anymore. And then when his brother continues to kind his business, say louder that he's not playing with him anymore. Then he would get upset that his little brother wasn't more upset about him removing himself from his presence.
Not my experience, but I have brainstormed two proposals for you to try.
First idea. I'd offer her a bargain, in which you agree that you will forever make absolutely no claim to the fruits of her labor, so long as she agrees to make no claim to yours. That whatever she gets is hers to enjoy as she likes.
If she agrees, then you can propose that the fruits of our labor include whatever we get, whether in cash or in kind. “In kind” are such things as health plans and other insurance, wellness plans, retirement plans, parental leave, bereavement leave, sick leave, and paid PTO.
If she agrees, then you can propose that a shortened work-day now and then is such a benefit. Just as her money is hers to enjoy as she likes, so is your shortened work-day.
Second idea. Tell her that both her distrust over money, and her disgust over how you spend your free time, are disrespectful. But you're an understanding guy, and perhaps she says these things cuz of high anxieties. So you are prepared to allow her to go on with this behavior without pushback, only you expect something in return when she takes such exceptional liberties against you.
So from now on, if she sherlocks your finances again, it will cost her $X. Reminding you by word or deed that she doesn't trust you not to take her money will cost $XX. Telling you that you're not spending your spare time as she thinks you should will cost $XXX. The penalties don't have to be cash, so long as you agree on what they will be. But if she's as obsessed with money as I suspect, the cash penalties will be the ones she'll try hardest to avoid incurring.
Why does his reason matter for suddenly ghosting for longer than you were in a relationship with him?
I do understand him getting scared of falling in love and ghosting. It happens a lot. But that doesn’t make it ok, and it doesn’t make it excusable.
Get your stuff back if you must, but stay out of contact with him. Him coming back wanting to be back in your life is selfish and disrespectful… the same traits he displayed when he just one day disappeared from your life. He hasn’t changed.