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Birth Date: 2000-02-26
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Date: November 8, 2022
Her post history reminds me of a weird feitshy thing idk why
Gaming 15+ hrs a day while you support him is what he is accustomed to and it is what he expects will continue as long as your relationship lasts. Yes, you should break up.
I'm assuming u do these things out of love, not expecting something in return right? However I feel ya, if I forget to get mine a gift hed be so hurt but he never gives or gets me gifts except 3 times in 11 years I got roses. I just stopped getting him so much stuff, this year he gets 2 things and that's it. I put the same effort into the relationship as they do.
Flip the script – what if he’s trying to do extra OT to save for something – car, house, dates, presents…. You should just talk to him about his motivation, whether it’s mandated or voluntarily picking up shifts.
Obviously now it's too late to “shoot your shot” but I do think you need to have a sit down with E, apologize to him about your lashout and explain why it happened. Make it clear that you need to distance yourself a bit because your feelings conflict between your friendship and his relationship with Marie (which isn't your intention) so that's why you would need to distance yourself. From that point on you would have to see how he reacts and take further steps from there. Do make it clear that your friendship is still number 1 and that you care for him and don't want to lose him, but that in order for that to happen you need some time to heal. Knowing that E knows how you are and how you think, I would expect him to understand your reaction now and I'm sure he wouldn't be mad or anything
OP is a woman, as well 🙂
The issue I see is a grown man not wanting his girlfriend to have male friends. He needs to get out of the relationship and work on himself if he's that emotionally fragile. The entire point of view of “shutting down” your mates social life is a huge red flag to me.
Just read through this section – “breaks” are the universal excuse to start the break-up.
“More time to think” is an excuse beyond childish.
It usually means that they want to try something but are not convinced that the something will work.
Yes, this is a problem. He’s saying he will not accept monogamy. You should leave.
op you are way too young to try an open relationship right now. it’s a very nuanced topic that involves a lot of communication and maturity. you know what they say, you always want what you can’t have. i also don’t think you want an open relationship for the right reasons. honestly, i’m almost certain you’d regret it if you tried to open up the relationship and/or break up. but why not try those party/teenage things with her? it’s all the fun without the risk for STDs from unknown partners. when it comes to casual sex, you’re also likely to have a lot of unpleasant experiences.
one more thing. i noticed in the post you failed to mention how she would feel about an open relationship. how would she feel? because for some people, even mentioning an open relationship is relationship-ending. you also seem to have failed to consider what would happen on her end if you guys opened up the relationship. what if she falls out of love? what if you fall out of love? safe sex is also a huge concern.
regardless of which path you choose, you have a lot of thinking and introspection to do.
If you can admit that you were wrong, and can stand the risk of her telling you to get lost and never speak to her again, be honest with her, ask her how she feels, but respect her decision if she says no.
One day at a time. Put in the effort if you want and give it some runway. Change takes time. I feel like you're looking for the answer today. Answers come more slowly in life. Do your best to “enjoy” the journey.
The only answer is not her body not her choice
SUX2BU.
…and your point?
I know my kids are mine and I can tell by looking at them. This guy is mentally ill.
She already gave you an answer.. the answer is no but she tried not to sound like an ah. At the same time that doesnt mean she doesnt want to be friends. The only thing you need to decide is if you are able to have contact while accepting the no. Not every attraction will lead to a romantic relationship. You can have many friends of the opposite sex and maybe also find one or the other attractive at some point in time, but doesnt mean you need to act on it.
The two only options: accept that it is a no, but you like the person enough to appreciate the friendship OR accept that it is a no and cut all contact, because it hurts you too much. These are the only options
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You’ve never showered without washing your hair? You wash your hair every single time you shower? That argument makes no sense
There is nothing wrong with that body count. There is nothing wrong with any body count. Certain numbers will be a dealbreaker for certain people. And that’s fine. It’s just a compatibility issue. But if someone doesn’t like my body count, I’m not going to date them.
She asked her own husband to move out of the martial home to move in her affair partner and you are really asking if this is over.
maybe try including him in the purchases if you want him to help you, make him feel like he has a say in his home aswell. It doesnt have to be a big deal, if hes not with you send a picture asking his opinion on things. If i was expected to build stuff i didnt have any input in my house i would refuse too. Both of you being petty solves nothing if your both gonna act like that then nothing is ever gonna get done.
Dude your a full grown adult. Why you afraid of meeting her dad?
Go talk to a local college with a psych program, they usually have cut rate services. Also your local medical association may be able to provide low cost referrals
Here's the thing.
Your first reletionship was your everything. You're kids running with scissors in your hands. No one really knows what they're doing in their first reletionship. They just do it without any caution.
That reletionship, is your idea of what relationships should be. If you do not have a reletionship that reflects it, then you are not happy to be in it. You have this expectation because of your past experience.
But.. because you put a piece of yourself into that reletionship. Once its over, that part of you dies.
And here, you failed to get that piece of you back and be born again.
You cut out this puzzle piece in your heart and you're trying to shove a new piece into it and hope that it fits.
Does it fit? No… It doesn't work like that.
You're trying to find a substitute instead of focusing on building something new.
You need to fill that void yourself, stop using your past reletionship as a template…You will never have that experience again, gone for good. And because every reletionship is unique, you cannot compare the two, its unfair.
When you have Sara in your mind, you cannot see all the beauty inside of Megan. She is casting a shadow on her and blocking your view.
What does that cause you to do? Look at the flaws in your reletionship and be disappointed. Lacking the motivation to iron out those flaws and make your reletionship better.
Like get used to it dude. This is the reality of relationships. No reletionship is going to be this perfect thing out the gate. You have to put in to work to build a reletionship that is a perfect fit for you.
And until you put this Sara business to rest in your mind. You will never have the full potential of what your reletionship with Megan could be.
He is an abusive pos loser. You just found out exactly why he doesn't date people his own age, harder to control.
Tell his wife now
Go with them on the trip
I think that might be a good idea. Kind of very hot right now though when my girlfriend has school and I don’t. It’s also hard on me when I come home after a while with my girlfriend and my mom will make a comment about how she hasn’t seen me in a while.
You were “enforcing” a boundary and then threw a tantrum and trampled all over her boundaries. I'm glad she stood up for herself because you were in the wrong here.
Wait what??
Because she’s the only one who has to be pregnant.
Sounds like he'd be doing you a favor by breaking up. If he loves you why should you have to change????
You can do better.
What even is this comment??? Her sexual appetite is her sexual appetite. It's not a flaw that needs to be fixed. They don't seem to be sexually compatible and there's nothing wrong with that on either side. It just is what it is.
I actually plan on doing that
okay yea. that’s 100 percent the issue then. to my knowledge the only way to undo the damage here is for him to stop masturbating for a good while to reset his senses so to speak. hopefully this is something he is open to trying because otherwise the issue will only worsen i fear. and if he isn’t willing to work on it, i’d personally be asking myself if that’s what i want my sex life to look like for the foreseeable future.
*I feel like I'm being used*
Why and how, Op?
Some examples, please?
You are looking for someone to confirm your fears and tell you to get out and run for your life. Statistics report that men who have choked women have gone further and even killed them. Get out NOW.
How did you accidentally get pregnant? I think they're assumption is logical to them since they don't know you for a year.
It makes you uncomfortable because you find her being disrespectful to your relationship by displaying what you feel should be left to the bedroom between the two of you.
This is a comparability issue.
She can dress how she wants – true But a consequence of that is you feel a certain way – also true It’s even worse because she is not even acknowledging or validating your feelings Which is emotional neglect
Relationship are about communication, compromise and respect
She is not giving you any of the 3
You're living a dream with this guy, he's a nightmare..Why would you want to marry someone who's abusive? Men know right away if they want to marry someone, this guy is holding on until something better, in his mind, comes along. Do what you want but this guy will never marry you and I wouldn't waste another minute of my youth with him.
If you are just going to sit around obsessing over his exs vs. actual enjoy being in a relationship, you will never be happy. If you are this insecure, get into therapy.
It sounds like he was just at being silly, I mean, dump him if it bothers you, but I think you’ll be doing both of you a favor. You can find a man who doesn’t make silly , dumb jokes , and he can find a woman who doesn’t take offense to silly jokes, and waste her time on Reddit.
People get kidnapped, raped, and murdered in the US every single day. Wtf is wrong with him?
If you love her so much why are you even asking this question??
I (a European) was visiting Chicago for a work conference and was told by the hotel staff to “not turn left when I leave the hotel” and I laughed and nodded and the panicked receptionist grabbed my hand — “you don't understand YOU MUST NOT TURN LEFT AND GO DOWN THAT ROAD”. Chicago, last time I checked was in the US.
Yeah, yet another bullshit post from some dip. Stop feeding the trolls
Have her pay you back. Then dump her
Bro be done with it. How can you even think about forgiving that?
Sounds like she's probably loaded too since daddy is a big shot celebrity masseuse in LA. She's the golden child so she's probably getting most of the inheritance when daddy kicks the bucket.
Idk, I’d actually be pretty upset if one of my siblings did this to my SO
Glad it seems like it worked out for OP tho
Just find another job, you never know when you will meet that supervisor again… Revenge never pays off, it is just momentary satisfaction.
I would dare to say if you are a healthy M23 you are supposed to have butterflies in the stomach when you sleep in one bed and “make out” with any girl. It does not even have to have any “catching feelings” involved. If you have decided that you are not having romantic relationship there should be some boundaries.
He may know where you live but if he or anyone else shows up that you aren’t expecting, call the police. Report a random break-in attempt (don’t say BF, Partner), just someone attempting to access your home. If you want to, after, explain the disturbance.
My friends text me when coming over. Otherwise, I don’t answer the door. Packages get delivered just fine. No one is entitled to my home unless I say so.
I'm glad you can see this for yourself.
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Haha yeah, I think so. Again, I think there's a good chance that she'll love the effort you put in.
As opposed to the guy that goes “do you just wanna go to Applebees again”?
I think you’re doing the right thing. If you were both 5 years older and still together then it would be a different situation.
Okay so take a deep breath. Personally, what I would do is retake the test and see if the results are still the same. Then, if they are, or similar enough, contact mom.
“Hey I thought it would be fun to do this DNA heritage test and I've got [insert percentage] Asian blood. I thought it was a mistake so I retook it but it came out the same, can you explain?”
Whatever her answer is, take it from there.
If you are truly terrified and don't want to face any of it, there is always the option to ditch the test. If someone ever finds out you can shrug and say “the results were so out of whack I figured it was a mistake and threw it away”.
If you choose this opinion you are going to have to let go of all the unresolved questions you have though, which will be hot.
Honey, trust your gut. He's being dishonest, which means he's not being accountable for what he did. It doesn't matter that he was stressed. It doesn't matter that he was having problems with a family member. He wasn't beating his boss. He chose to *hurt his partner *.
He is putting on a show right now. Unless he actually gets therapy and does the work to heal himself, you are putting yourself in danger by staying with him.
Be kind to yourself, you didn't miss anything. This is how abusers work and how people get trapped with them.
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