She’s waiting for you to break up, and will likely make it more and more difficult for you to be in the relationship.
So leave.
Tell her that unlike her child she obviously doesn’t care about you at all, and that you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is willing to put effort into a relationship.
Tell her that she has made her priorities clear. 1. Kid, 2. Job, 3. Friends, somewhere near 99. BF, and while you agree with the first 2, as they should take importance over everything else, the fact she would rather drink with her friends on Christmas than see her BF, shows you where you stand in her life.
Raised Catholic. 17 years Catholic schooling. Atheist now. The Bible does not ban premarital sex. It’s absolutely fine especially if you are engaged. It’s just another man made restrictive practice. There are a lot of contradictions within the Bible but overall it’s not a sin. I have a lot of harsher takes on catholic “purity” rules however out of respect to your faith I kept it simple and to the point. It’s not healthy for your relationship to remove sexual intimacy once it was a part of it. It would be like going from being engaged then deciding just to date. Relationships don’t work like that. You two needs not only that intimate connection you both are unnecessarily sexually frustrated. I say you just jump his bones and things will return to how they were before.
The doesn’t make it less creepy or less predatory. The phrase “be a good girl” makes my skin crawl. You are not just younger than him, you are in a subordinate position at work. So those power dynamics already exist.
Also, he sounds like he’s definitely married. So yes, he is cheering. With you. While abusing you. For the love of god run.
That’s quite a big difference. I agree it’s time to cut loose.
She’s waiting for you to break up, and will likely make it more and more difficult for you to be in the relationship.
So leave.
Tell her that unlike her child she obviously doesn’t care about you at all, and that you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is willing to put effort into a relationship.
Tell her that she has made her priorities clear. 1. Kid, 2. Job, 3. Friends, somewhere near 99. BF, and while you agree with the first 2, as they should take importance over everything else, the fact she would rather drink with her friends on Christmas than see her BF, shows you where you stand in her life.
Imma go with cross dresser.
Raised Catholic. 17 years Catholic schooling. Atheist now. The Bible does not ban premarital sex. It’s absolutely fine especially if you are engaged. It’s just another man made restrictive practice. There are a lot of contradictions within the Bible but overall it’s not a sin. I have a lot of harsher takes on catholic “purity” rules however out of respect to your faith I kept it simple and to the point. It’s not healthy for your relationship to remove sexual intimacy once it was a part of it. It would be like going from being engaged then deciding just to date. Relationships don’t work like that. You two needs not only that intimate connection you both are unnecessarily sexually frustrated. I say you just jump his bones and things will return to how they were before.
The doesn’t make it less creepy or less predatory. The phrase “be a good girl” makes my skin crawl. You are not just younger than him, you are in a subordinate position at work. So those power dynamics already exist.
Also, he sounds like he’s definitely married. So yes, he is cheering. With you. While abusing you. For the love of god run.
I would be worried that he's gullible enough to buy those pills. But it seems like you're worried about something else?
You saved your own life. Well done!!