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SteffaniaJhonson Public Chat Channel
Date: December 8, 2022
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She doesn’t want you dead, she was upset and said something she didn’t mean. Ask her how she’s doing and don’t take the perfunctory “I’m okay/fine” as an answer. Tell her she snapped and said something that really hurt your feelings and that it was out of character for her”
i mean she’s asking so say no
Dropped a friend for something similar. She said I was “jealous” of her “bfs”. Apparently, a guy with 5 kids and a wife that he lives with, while actively telling his mistress(her) not to ever call him on his phone, is something worth being jealous over. Or the guy who is 10 years older(30s) but lives with 20year old “roommates” that has a “studio” (ie closer with cardboard glued to the holes in the wall for “soundproofing”). OR the guy who kicks you out of YOUR OWN apartment when you’re crying “so he can sleep in peace”. That one was a real gem, he would regularly use HER car and leave it on E. Never paid money for rent for living with her. Never paid for insurance on the car. Never even bought groceries for the home.
And yet me pointing those things out makes me “jealous”. Well by golly Miss Molly if that’s what you think, then let me do you a favor and get outta your life. ☮️
I mean, the real question is why you humoured this for so long at all. Be careful with your 'God's plan' rhetoric because in the end this had nothing to do with the fellow upstairs, this was a 22 year old giving way too much time and energy to an older guy she was already well aware was a walking red flag. You seem to think you avoided him but you didn't, you gave him what he wanted: attention and drama.
SO who gives a shit what he says. He is cooked, he is in his own head. It's embarrassing he said that and scary he probably believes it. But why let that impact you. You've known for a while nothing he says has much meaning.
I would just avoid shitty areas with her. It is so weird that you are mad that she didn't like someone insulting you.
A chart is a good idea. Write down the chores, decide who does what and how often. You probably will have to live with him doing it like the chart says and not when it is needed, but that should be doable.