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Stefa Gomez , ♥, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
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I don’t understand what the two of you are doing here. She asked for an insane break, you compromised on an unreasonable break, then you broke up with her. And I don’t mean this is a mean or disrespectful way, but what is the goal here? If it was to get back together after the six month break, you ended that three weeks in? She’s single. You’re single. Honestly, this really sounds like she wanted to break up anyway but thought a super long break would make it easier and less painful. If you want her, I think my advice would be contact her right now and sit down to talk this through properly. If she still needs time, define why and what you are both doing to make a stronger relationship after. Set the terms, are either of you going to see other people or is that not allowed? When do you check in during? Contact once a week? Once a month? Not at all? If you go six months no contact when she was already checking out, she will be over the relationship and moved on while you were left holding on to something that didn’t exist and then gave to start then, that’s so unfair. If you’re hoping for friendship, don’t reach out until your romantic feelings are gone. You need to see her as a different person, not the person you love or you will not be able to move on. That’s asking for a world of hurt as she moves on and has other people in her life.
I would pick the thing that will cause the least amount of regret later, if he is really about to die. You could get some answers from him now before he's gone.
This is beautiful advice. thank you ! I don’t even feel like an adult at all since i’ve been in this house for so long
He will never be able to be trust her and she has earned that.
Agreed!
dude is a psychopath. You need to get the hell out of there. his behavior is 100% unacceptable.
She could have called an uber home. If she felt unsafe doing that even, she could have called an uber home and had a friend take the uber with her until she was safe. She could have asked for a ride back to where she lives from a friend. Instead she has spent multiple nights at a creeps house, a creep she knows has feelings for her, and where she literally shares a bed with him.
Time to reassess what you want out of life.
If trust is one of the things you want than Its a long way off if it ever returns.
I think couples counselling before resentment grows into bitterness. I hope you're able to move past this and come out of it the other side stronger.
On a separate note, some of the replies here are shocking. Try having some empathy ffs.
You knew him, dated him, lived with him for 6 years. Why did you bother to go through with the wedding?
Porn addicts always say they will stop, but they don't. It's an addiction. He needs therapy. And even then, as with any addiction, it is not easy to overcome.
This right here, OP.
I also seen similar behavior to a friend of mine. His gf would get blacked out drunk, falling on the floor in the club and calling him a loser. The worst part is that she did that in front of us, his friends.
I told him I would have broken up with her on the spot, but he didn't, and now, 5 years later, they are still together and with similar problems.
My man is too afraid of being alone and talking to other girls, too bad for him since he is quite an OK guy apart from his choice in women.
You aren't sexually compatible.
One of you can adjust your expectations- that probably won't be fun.
Or you can be miserable for as long as you're together.
Yea because he brought it up immediately after I brought up a toothless female at work. Have some couth if you wanna play the “I have a sex list that doesn’t include you” game
Thank you, I have a date tonight! Wish me luck!
There are different types of alcoholism. Often we think about needing to drink every day, hiding booze around the house. But binge drinking and not being able to stop are a problem too.
My partner quit drinking a few years ago and she was never the type to need a drink every day. But when she would drink, she’d go overboard nearly every time. She described it as “my favorite drink is the next one.”