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Date: October 24, 2022
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I have had two children and worked up until they day I had both. My water actually broke at work with my first one. With my second I was literally on my feet all day walking an average of 10 miles each shift.
Have you talked to her about why she did this? There is no reason for it if she hasn't been advised by a Doctor to be on bed rest. In fact, staying active is much better for the health of the baby and mother than being stagnate.
It does sound like you are being taken advantage of.
Quit dating losers
Yeah that's not enough, you need to be straight forward and sincere, tell her that you have thought about it and you don't what to get back together
relax. it’s not unrealistic to be insecure. he asked a simple question. was it silly? yea. but he didn’t say he brought it up to her or anything he’s just asking.
Yeah that makes sense. Thanks
I agree. I guess I just have to give her space and if it works out in the end it’ll find it’s way
You wrote “I feel like I was trapped and tricked into this relationship” because you WERE trapped and tricked. He’s no one you should be spending time with, set your eyes on your future without this toxicity.
Even though it's understandable that she wants to be with her bf, it's not okay to ditch you for it and then go somewhere else, whereas that's not possible according to the excuse.
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I have felt like I’ve had nobody. I want to be strong enough to leave this. I will be.
There are thousands of people on Reddit who will be here for you if you want that support. I lost both of my parents to cancer, and a niece who was so young I never even got to meet her, as well as a bunch of people I loved. This is a horrible thing you're going through, staying with this guy is going to make things worse, not better. What he is doing to you is abuse, and you have to get out of it. There is no support coming from him. I hope you get out of that relationship right away, and don't be afraid to ask for help from others. There are many people who will help you out of kindness, if we know you need our help, at least emotional support.
You are a terrible father. Sorry but you need to know that. You have been letting your daughter, and nieces, down because of who you choose to sleep with.
You can fix it, but you need to grow a fucking spine. Ditch the evil stepmother, she fooled you and like an idiot you fell for it hook, line, and sinker. Be warned though, it won't be easy to repair your relationship with the children, and you are getting close to the point of no return.
Be better. Do better.
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It sounds like your family sucks and uses your culture to shield themselves from the consequences of your behaviour.
Choose to be a better person and a better husband, or to be a whipping boy for your self-admitted crappy family.
I’d try to stay busy as much as possible. Do you have any hobbies you enjoy? Sometimes being in a relationship can take up enough of your time than things you enjoy can fall to the wayside. If not, is there anything you’d like to try? I am a crafty person so I rotate through random new things all the time. Even watching a show I’ve been wanting distracts me pretty well.
I’m sorry about your friend and your cat, it is definitely times like these that we crave being close and comforted. Do you have anyone else you can confide in? Would getting another pet be feasible financially/emotionally?
Don't agree to anything you are not happy about – it will end in tears.
I love the way you expressed that point about cheating not being the ultimate arbiter of what is okay and not okay in relationships. If someone’s only justification is that it’s not technically cheating, then it tells you that they have a very legalistic view of morality and they don’t respect others’ feelings.
He’s pissed because he can’t come to your place and you won’t go to his. Therefore he won’t get laid. If you had said “I changed my mind, I’ll come to your place” he’d have confirmed it instantly
I will never understand why people invest time fighting over things like this.
If you don't have time to clean or the desire to clean. Then treat cleaning like a bill and pay for someone to clean. And if his ass does not want to pay for someone to clean then he better get that broom and towels and start doing it himself.
Straight up abuse, physically and mentally. No means no. What a complete douche bag to not respect that, and go on to manipulate to get what he wants. I suspect you’ve been at his mercy & under his control for the 18 years. Sry this is a part of your life’s journey, and I empathize with feeling stuck, but you are the only one who can change it. You’ll have to find your own inner strength to set and communicate your boundaries and walk if he can’t accept. I hope you have family, or find a shelter/group who can support and help you. Best of luck.
She is not a child. Don’t let your husband say that.
I mean, it will affect your relationship. Probably very badly. I doubt you will get married after this.
You're not his beard. You're getting a lot of advice from straight people here, but this man isn't gay. Maybe he's bi, but he definitely likes women, he just prefers women with penises. Gay guys don't watch trans porn, because gay guys aren't into women.
If she’s ovulating she won’t have sex with you. Seems responsible to me
You watch Brokeback Mountain.
Are you okay? Should I call for help?
That's a shitty way to describe human growth
People grow up at different paces and apparently, you can get “older” but grow to be a conservative inflexible dyke who judges others' relationships according to their age given that they're both adults.
This guy needs some professional help
It isn't realistic for you to expect him to reach out to you, when you posted something that would indicate you've moved on
Oh the old man dating a young woman is an asshole? Wow. I’m so surprised…. Fuck these dumbass posts.
I’m not surprised that a man who has this “poop stew” belief also clogs the toilet pretty frequently. For the record, you’re right and he’s disgusting.
Suggest settling the matter by talking to a professional. Call a plumber to inspect the house and confirm your pipes are good. They can also offer advice on what’s best to do when a toilet gets clogged. Then go to a doctor and ask if it’s sanitary to allow human shit to sit in a bowl for an extended amount of time. I’m sorry he won’t listen to his own family
Good luck
The process to get medication certainly doesn’t happen over night. Where do you live? It will likely be months. It took me over 5 just to get help for anxiety here in Canada.
Did the wife find out?
Honesty, I'm not sure. I hope I can offer you some validation, though.
I can see many people here disagree with me that you did everything right. I think it's important to remember that in this sub, people are quick to suggest cutting relationships at the first sign of trouble without taking time to appreciate the importance of the relationship itself. These aren't rude acquaintances, they are your family! It makes sense you'd fight to keep them in your life, even if they're the reason you have to fight at all.
My mom sucked at being a mom. I spent a lot of my life, especially as a kid, certain she didn't care about me. Eventually, I did cut her out of my life. It hurt me every single day until we made amends. It's a decision you have to make sometimes, but not before trying everything else. My best friend (25, working) is constantly threatened with being kicked out of the house by his dad. My bf's sister will probably get disowned when she marries her fiance, but my bf still wants a relationship with them. Sometimes parents suck, but cutting them out hurts more.
Again, I think you did everything right, and no partner should want you to lose connection with your family. Honesty, it'd probably piss me off a bit if my bf knew a way to make things easier with his parents and DIDN'T tell me
Where does it say they are nudes
In the edit and OP's comments. I would not be comfortable with anyone taking nudes of my partner regardless of any other factors. That's a big nope for most normal people in monogamous relationships.
Ahah I was going to edit my comment to add that, this is probably a troll
This is called neglect. Learn to recognize it, and don't remain in a relationship that neglectful.
Everyone in this story is toxic, poor child.
You will not get full custody of the child so long as the mother is a fit parent.
You two should split immediately and file for custody and child support determination. She has a much stronger case to get most of the custody. The court isn't going to care about one side badmouthing the other. They care about the child and who will provide the best care.
You made your bed, now lie in it.